Parents’ education of their children is the key

Many parents think that education is entirely a matter of schools and teachers. In fact, this is not the case. The performance and results of different children in the same class and the same teacher may be completely different. Because the word \”education\” contains \”teaching\” and \”education\”. If only education fails, and parents are absent, children cannot be outstanding. Also because in some education, there is really nothing the teacher can do. Family education is the key. Teachers cannot replace parents, and school education cannot replace family education. The People\’s Daily released the latest \”Family Education Concept\”, which repeatedly emphasizes: For the all-round growth of children, a sound family education concept is indispensable. Every step of a child\’s growth requires parental involvement. Fan Deng Reading Club’s five compulsory courses on family education for new parents [Video + Audio] 01 Parents are always the first person responsible for family education. Zhu Yongxin once said: \”In all problem children, the reasons for their family can be found.\” Absent parents and over-fed families cannot raise outstanding children. No matter how excellent school education is, family education is the starting point of all education. No matter how responsible the teacher is, what the teacher cannot teach is the responsibility of the parents. Your height will achieve your child\’s height. Your pattern will expand your child’s pattern. All parents should have a firm belief in their hearts: It is my responsibility to grow up. 02No matter how good a teacher is, he cannot compare to the words and deeds of his parents. Education cannot rely solely on teachers. Teachers are preachers and imparters. They can only teach children the knowledge in textbooks, but they cannot teach children their growing character. A teacher\’s influence on a child may only last three to five years, but a parent\’s influence on a child lasts throughout a lifetime. The kind of parent you are, the kind of child you will raise. Suhomlinsky once said: \”Every moment you see your children, you also see yourself. When you educate your children, you are also educating yourself and testing your own personality.\” On the road of education, compared with all educational resources, parents are the ones that should not be absent. 03Respect is the most basic education for children. Education should be based on an equal relationship, regardless of teachers and students, or parents and children. At any time, the first prerequisite for educating children is respect. Children who are not respected will never learn respect and will only run into obstacles in society. Without a sound personality and a beautiful mind, knowledge will only become a tool for children to become bad. As Tyman Johnson said: \”Successful tutoring creates successful children, and failed tutoring creates failed children.\” Children are equal to us. Please face the existence of your child, understand your child\’s needs, affirm your child\’s progress, and appreciate your child\’s strengths. Education requires love and respect. Respecting children is respecting yourself. 04Whether it is excellent or not depends on what the parents think. Two thousand years ago, Confucius proposed \”teaching students in accordance with their aptitude\” and \”teaching without distinction\”. Not all children can score 100 points, but every child has inherent advantages. Children who love reading dream of becoming writers, children who love sports dream of becoming athletes, children who love helping others dream of becoming teachers… None of them are useless.There are only parents who cannot see the advantages of children. The primary topic of parent education is to learn to appreciate children and explore their potential. All roads lead to Rome, and the same applies to education. As a parent, you should be your child\’s mentor, so that your child can grow into the best possible person. 05Parents determine their children’s character, and their character determines their children’s destiny. Li Meijin pointed out: \”Intelligence is innate, but character can be acquired. To cultivate children with good character and character, family education is very important.\” The father\’s pattern and the mother\’s mood determine the child\’s future. Behind a successful child, there must be a successful father who sets an excellent example for his children and establishes a lofty pattern. A mother\’s emotions will affect her child\’s life. Keeping her emotions calm is the greatest education for her child. Your child\’s present is your yesterday, and your present is your child\’s tomorrow. 06The best way to nourish yourself is to make your children spiritually rich. Education cannot be achieved by spending money alone. Money cannot help children establish a correct outlook on life, and material cannot enrich a child\’s inner world. The highest level of enrichment should be the nourishment of the soul, the cultivation of the spiritual world, and the cultivation of values. Let children have a rich heart, know self-respect and self-love, know how to choose between superior and inferior, know what is right and what is wrong, know how to be kind, and know how to be grateful. No matter what environment he faces or what difficulties he encounters, he can handle it calmly and deal with it calmly, without compromising or shrinking easily. Real education has nothing to do with wealth or class, but is closely related to the soul. 07 Give your children a choice, not a command. The worst role of a parent is to act as a \”commander\” for their children, issuing orders above their children. Children who are \”manipulated\” slowly have to rely on their parents, or they become rebellious and push the consequences of failure onto others. Teacher Yin Jianli once said: \”In short, give your child a choice instead of giving him an order.\” Every child should be unique. Learning to choose, make decisions, and bear the consequences is the beginning of a child\’s growth. Many times, all parents have to do is: let go and let their children move forward boldly. 08 Any form of domestic violence cannot be inflicted on children. You can never imagine how an injury can change a child\’s fate. Whether it is the scars on the body caused by a fist or a slap, or the scars on the heart caused by reprimands and insults, or the fear caused by cold violence to children. The mark left by violence on children will be a shadow that will linger throughout their lives. The ultimate goal of discipline is to correct the child\’s behavior, not to really make the child angry. Family should be a warm and beautiful paradise for growth, not a place that breeds violence. Parents are expected to be the ferrymen of their children\’s lives, feel with their hearts, tolerate with love, and allow their children to boldly take every step of their growth. 09Don’t let your children realize your dreams for you. There are no perfect children, and there are no perfect parents. Since we are not perfect, why should we push our children to follow our preset path? It is a very selfish act to graft your own dreams onto your children\’s lives. Teaching children is like planting trees, lies in the process rather than in the results. We must work hard on the \”roots\” of our children instead of thinking all day long about what flowers and fruits our children should bloom and bear. The poet Kahlil Gibran said: \”Your children are not actually your children. They are children born of life\’s desire for itself.\” Essential Family Education: How to Encourage Children\’s Progress and Self-Confidence, 70 episodes in total. We must eventually learn to let go freely, children And finally learn to live independently. May all parents love their children correctly. May all children grow up healthy and strong.