Parents take their children to evade fares: How terrible is it that poverty education leads to continued poverty?

Picture: Charlie and the Chocolate Factory The train bound for Nanjing soon started. A staff member came to check the tickets and found that the mother and child in the bunk opposite me only had one ticket. He gave a serious warning: one adult can only bring one child, and the other Children have to pay for their tickets. The young mother said softly \”Oh!\” but did not get up. The conductor turned to look at the two cute children and whispered, \”You can make up your own mind when you get off the bus. According to regulations, an adult can only bring one child.\” After that, he turned and left. The little girl next to me cleverly asked me for help: \”Auntie, when you get off the bus, I will follow you, okay?\” I was surprised by her ice and snow intelligence, and smiled slyly, \”What? You want me to break the rules and become a liar? Help me.\” Are you evading fares?\” The little girl lowered her head in embarrassment. My mother continued: \”Auntie is not a liar, she is helping us.\” I had to acquiesce. When I went to bed at night, I saw that the three of us only had one small bed, so I asked the little girl to squeeze in with me, but the little girl refused. The mother had no choice but to put the two children to sleep and sit on the chair in the aisle. In the middle of the night, I was woken up. The sleepy mother first picked up the sleeping child and placed it on my bedside. Later, she was worried that the child would fall, so she spread the quilt on the ground, let the child sleep on the ground, and went to bed to sleep peacefully. . Finally, daybreak came, the children woke up in confusion, and the mother looked tired. Because of her difficult life, she would rather endure hardships and save the 150 yuan for the ticket. I admire her hard-working spirit, but the one hundred and fifty yuan is not only a night of hard work, but also has a negative impact on the children: a fluke mentality of taking advantage of small things, and a liberalism that ignores the rules. What you save is a ticket, but what you destroy is a person\’s integrity. What is more terrible than poverty is poor education. Kai-Fu Lee said in the book \”The World Is Different Because of You\”: The value of a person lies in that he is an honest and responsible person. If you do not have such qualities, you will not only lose many valuable opportunities, but also let people around you down one after another. There is a Chinese student in Germany who had excellent grades when he graduated. However, when he applied for a job in Germany, he was rejected by many large companies. So he chose a small company to apply for a job, but he was still rejected. The German boss showed the international student a record, which showed his experience of being caught evading fares three times while taking a bus. In Germany, the chance of being caught for fare evasion is 3 in 10,000. A person was actually caught three times for fare evasion. This is so dishonest and unforgivable in the eyes of strict and trustworthy Germans. This story is a bit old, but it is a classic negative teaching material. Confucius said, \”A person cannot stand without integrity.\” People without integrity cannot stand in society. Greedy for petty gains, disregard of rules, lack of integrity, and poor education bring far more harm to children. The invisible inner feelings of lack, inferiority, and insecurity in children will cast a lifelong shadow on the children. Just like my friend Xiaoying, she likes to wear beautiful clothes like all girls. But her mother was afraid that she would be vain, and for the sake of frugality, she always dressed her in her brother\’s old clothes, dressing her up in a disgraceful manner, so that she was often laughed at by her peers and fell into a deep inferiority complex. When she grew up, although she was beautiful, she felt inferior and insecure inside.Feeling has always been with her. Relatives and friends don\’t understand why she always dresses like a tomboy, but they don\’t know that this is her psychological need to cover up her inner inferiority and lack of security. It reminds me of a warm and interesting movie \”Charlie and the Chocolate Factory\”. Little Charlie was born in a poor family. The family of seven crowded into a dilapidated house and ate light cabbage soup every day. One day, little Charlie accidentally got a gold visit ticket and became the fifth lucky person to get the ticket. Not only can he visit the world\’s largest Wonka chocolate factory in the town, but after the visit, he can also get Enough to last a lifetime of chocolate candies and other sweets. While the whole family was happy for him, kind-hearted and sensible Charlie wanted to exchange this golden coupon for five hundred dollars to provide for the family\’s food and clothing. However, the family members, who were at the bottom line of poverty, were not tempted by the $500. Grandpa said: \”There are only five of this golden ticket in the world, and there will never be one again. Only fools will give up the golden ticket and ask for money for such tacky things.\” Accompanied by his grandfather, Charlie came to the chocolate factory , began a mysterious adventure. However, this adventure brought Charlie unexpected gains: his integrity and code allowed him to overcome various temptations and reach the finish line, win the trust of the factory owner Wonka, obtain the inheritance of the chocolate factory, and take the whole family with him Lived in the factory with Mr. Wonka. Charlie in the story was unfortunately born into a poor family, but his childhood was not gloomy because of poverty. On the contrary, he was deeply infected by his parents\’ optimism, cheerfulness, hope and love. Charlie\’s positive and optimistic attitude in the face of poverty, and the kindness, integrity and self-discipline he has developed since childhood made Charlie the lucky one who had the last laugh. How broad a parent\’s heart is, how big a child\’s world is. The pattern of parents determines the future of their children. Whether a child\’s heart is rich or poor depends largely on the mentality of his parents and has little to do with the family\’s wealth. No matter what life is like, parents always maintain their love for life and expectations for a better future, be optimistic, cheerful, and positive, and do not often instill a sense of \”poverty\” in their children. If their children are physically and mentally healthy, and their hearts are rich and rich, they will be able to resist the world. of ups and downs. The world kisses me with pain, and I respond with songs. No matter how hard it is, we must smile and tell our children: everything will be fine as long as we work hard. Please take back the sense of heaviness and lack in your treatment of life and money, and never use poverty education to constrain your children\’s future. American psychologist William James said: Sow an action and reap a habit; sow a habit and reap a character; sow a character and reap a destiny.