Parents who cannot adhere to the bottom line of being a good person cannot raise children with good conduct.

Some time ago, \”Wang Baoqiang\’s residence was locked\” once again made Ma Rong and her family a hot search topic on Weibo. Two strange men tried to pick the lock at Wang Baoqiang\’s residence, but were discovered by the property owner and called the police. The two confessed that they came to \”break in\” the door with a letter of authorization from Ma Rong\’s father. One man claimed that he had a card and a key, so he came in as a matter of course and with a tough attitude. The property management of this community revealed that Wang Baoqiang purchased the house and currently lives here, but the house is under the name of Ma Rong\’s father. It is understood that it is illegal to pick a lock even with a letter of authorization from the property owner. Ma Rong\’s father\’s behavior attracted another round of scolding. For this reason, Ma Rong posted on Weibo saying: The house has been occupied, the property owner cannot return to his home, and he normally calls the police to open the lock but is framed as lock picking. I wonder what the bottom line of media reports is? Then, there was an explosion on Weibo: Why are you so embarrassed to say that you are the property owner? Don’t you know who paid for the house? At least he has done an extremely good job in the aspect of shamelessness. He is simply the ancestor of shamelessness! You still have the nerve to talk about the bottom line, where is your own bottom line? Yes, how can people talk about bottom lines if they don’t have a bottom line? Infidelity during marriage and malicious transfer of property, a modern version of Pan Jinlian was staged! Now even if she holds the truth, others only treat her as a joke. He obviously has good cards, he is a college belle, he is married to a celebrity, he has children, and he lives a good life, but because he does not know how to stick to the bottom line of being a human being, he has become a street rat that everyone wants to beat. Whose fault? ! Just look at the words and deeds of Ma Rong\’s parents and you will know that their daughter cheated on her during marriage, and her parents posted a series of Weibo posts to tear Wang Baoqiang and his parents apart. He didn\’t go to college, and he and Ma Rong were not in the same family. Divorce was inevitable. Rural people are just uneducated, and the two families are not on the same level at all. Ma Rong has always been the school belle. She is beautiful and elegant. She is an original beauty. From this point of view, we win. There are even rumors online that Ma Rong’s mother helped her daughter transfer her property by marrying and divorcing Song Zhe’s father. Does the fact that a man is ugly becomes a reason for his daughter to cheat on him? Does your daughter win because she is beautiful? Such a bizarre theory has really refreshed the views of the people who eat melons again and again. He kept saying that he despised others for being from rural areas and lacking in quality, but with his words and actions that destroyed others\’ outlook, he staged a drama of \”no sense of shame\”. It is said that \”it is the fault of the father if he fails to educate\”. How can parents with such no bottom line raise children who adhere to the bottom line? The tragedy of Ma Rong\’s life did not begin when she met Song Zhe, but was doomed by her parents\’ tutoring. Parents who cannot adhere to the bottom line of being a good person cannot raise children with good conduct. They may be glamorous and in the limelight for a while, but sooner or later they will be tripped down by their poor character, and may even never get up again. In last year\’s hit drama \”That Year the Flowers Bloomed and the Moon Was Full\”, the role of Wu Pin\’s cousin Wu Yu was impressive. Wu Yu\’s mother Liu is a selfish and greedy person. Back then, he was greedy for glory and wealth and abandoned his poor lover. After successfully marrying into the Wu family, he arranged for his old lover to be the shopkeeper of the Wu family\’s property. While relieving the pain of lovesickness, he used the old lover to enrich himself. Seeing that his scandal was exposed, he killed Wu Pin and Zhou Ying successively. For her own selfish desires, Mrs. Liu killed people, framed and framed others, and broke through the bottom line of being a human being again and again.In order to gain more property from the Wu family, Wu Yu, who was originally innocent and kind-hearted, was used as a pawn. First, he was sent to the East Hospital to take care of Wu Pin, who was seriously injured and unconscious, and then he forced Wu Pin\’s mother to consider him as an adopted son, all for the sake of \”profit\”. Under Liu\’s constant influence and guidance, Wu Yu became more and more familiar with these tricks of fawning. From being inexperienced and awkward at first, to becoming proficient and able to do things at his fingertips, Wu Yu went further and further off the right path of life. When Liu\’s true identity was exposed, Wu Yu\’s father was so angry that he first killed his wife and then himself. After the family was destroyed and everyone died, Wu Yu placed the blame on Zhou Ying. In order to avenge his parents, he did not hesitate to go far away from the Great Wall, pretending to be the Wu family and selling fake medicine, in order to ruin the reputation of the Wu family and attack the East Hospital! After his evil deeds were exposed by Zhou Ying, he had the same desire to kill as Liu. The innocent and cowardly wealthy young master back then became a cold and gloomy paranoid under Liu\’s influence. I am selfish and narrow-minded, and have no sense of right and wrong. Others have ruined everything for me, so I will repay them twice as much. In the end, he lost all his personal wealth and became homeless. The bottom line is the minimum standard for a person\’s words and deeds, and it is also the last insurmountable barrier in life. Character is the foundation of life, and the quality of character determines how far a person can go. Only by adhering to the bottom line of being a human being can we talk about character and cultivation. And those parents who cannot stick to the bottom line of being a human being will not only harm their own lives, but also the dam of their children\’s lives will burst. Nowadays, incidents of \”naughty children\” emerge one after another, attracting criticism and indignation from the whole society. Behind every naughty child is a parent who cannot stick to the bottom line of life. A 13-year-old girl from Chongqing slapped a female sanitation worker in the face with her slipper after being accused of littering. Instead of stopping her, her father shouted \”well done\”. An 11-year-old child in Xi\’an scratched a limited-edition luxury car, and his parents said, \”We can\’t afford to take care of him anyway, otherwise you would just arrest him and put him in jail.\” The mother took her child to secretly eat chocolate in the supermarket. After being caught, she told the child that she would never admit it. The child hit and bit her grandma, but her mother turned a blind eye. Parents who cannot stick to the bottom line of being a good person have raised naughty children, who have become the target of criticism and negative teaching materials for the whole society. If you raise them without educating them, what awaits you will be education, criticism and punishment from the whole society. Only those parents who adhere to the bottom line of being a human being and have good cultivation and conduct can subtly raise children with good conduct. Only these excellent qualities can benefit children throughout their lives. Zeng Guofan, a famous official of the Qing Dynasty, taught his son Youfang, which has been praised by future generations. The eldest son Jize was proficient in poetry, calligraphy and painting. In the late Qing Dynasty, he studied English assiduously and became an outstanding diplomat. With his strong sense of responsibility and superb negotiation skills, he recaptured the city of Ili from Tsarist Russia, thus achieving the only victory in the diplomatic history of the late Qing Dynasty. The second son, Ji Hong, loved natural science since he was a child and was proficient in astronomy, geography, and algebra. He not only wrote books and theories, but also calculated the 100-digit pi ratio. According to records, under the influence of Zeng Guofan\’s tutoring and family tradition, the Zeng family completely broke the fate of \”not being rich for more than three generations\” and raised generations of outstanding descendants. It has lasted for more than 200 years and has produced a total ofThere are more than 240 prestigious talents, many of whom have become famous experts and scholars and are well-known all over the world. Such a long-lasting and prosperous family is rare in ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad. This must be said to be a great success of Zeng Guofan\’s educational philosophy. Among the complex and strict family training and rules of the Zeng family, the core point is that \”character and behavior are the foundation of a person\’s life\”, and teaching by example is more important than teaching by words. Zeng Guofan set an example for his children with his extremely high self-discipline and excellent conduct, creating a good family tradition for the Zeng family for hundreds of years. He requires his children to be diligent because he himself is a thrifty and humble person. From morning to night every day, I take care of everything and never slack off. Although he was busy with official duties, \”all memorials, letters, and criticisms must be done by his own hands, and he rarely relies on others.\” He \”insisted on reading dozens of pages every day,\” which is a lesson from his diligence. He asked his children to avoid extravagance and be frugal, and he also followed suit. The daily diet is mainly composed of one kind of meat, and \”unless guests come, don\’t add another kind of meat\”. His clothes are even more simple. He wears a blue satin mandarin jacket for thirty years. He taught his children to be filial, and he was a very filial son. Since he was away from home all year round, he would send greetings from home with letters from home, and would often ask someone to bring gifts to his parents to show his filial piety. He told his children not to bully others. He never beat or scolded his servants, scolded his subordinates, or despised his friends. He was also very kind to his neighbors. He warned his children not to be greedy and set an example himself. Although he holds a high position, he is not greedy or possessive. When faced with large gifts from others, he often chooses the most inconspicuous ones or those worth no more than twenty taels of silver to accept, and returns all the others. Zeng Guofan\’s outstanding conduct made his children respect and love him very much, and regarded him as their idol and coordinate in life. Because their father is Zeng Guofan, they often worry that their words and deeds are not clean enough and their knowledge is not profound enough, which will damage their father\’s reputation. So I can\’t help but be more strict with myself, and therefore become more and more outstanding. The power of role models is infinite. The excellence of the descendants of the Zeng family is not so much due to strict family rules and family training, but rather to the influence and example of Zeng Guofan\’s personality charm. Management guru Zeng Shiqiang said that whether children learn well or poorly does not actually have much to do with how they are taught. The key is the character of their parents. If your parents have problems, even if you attach great importance to education and even pay high prices for tutors, it will not have much effect. Some parents invest very little in education, but their children still become talented. It is because the parents have good conduct, and the children will naturally learn it. Because children’s learning career begins with imitation, and the earliest objects of imitation are their parents. The good conduct of parents will subtly benefit their children throughout their lives. Every bit of kindness, bravery, tolerance, integrity, optimism, justice, democratic virtues, and tidiness and hard-working habits of parents in daily life, no matter how small, will illuminate their children\’s future and shape their lives like stars. The ultimate goal of education is not only to cultivate children to become talents, but to teach children to become adults. This requires parents to first learn to be a good person, stick to the bottom line of being a good person, and then work hard to improve their own cultivation and conduct, and set a good example for their children.