People who are considerate and considerate are the best people to raise children.

When we practice becoming a person who can consider others, we are giving our children better upbringing, and we are helping our children lead happy lives in the future. Today, a new colleague came to the office. Because everyone had their own work to do, after briefly greeting their new colleagues, everyone sat in front of the computer and got busy. A new colleague has just arrived and needs to prepare his desk. The department manager who greeted her found an unused table in the office for her. In fact, it was not unused. There were green plants and handmade dolls placed on the table, which were carefully placed by other colleagues. Now that they need to be freed up, the items are Need to transfer. So the new colleague began to move the items on the table under the guidance of several colleagues. She moved them carefully, placed the green plants neatly in the corner, and gently cleaned the underside of the table that had not been moved for a long time. At this time, Teacher Da Li came. She greeted each other with her new colleagues. After a while, she said casually: \”You guys, I helped you clean up as soon as I arrived!\” The colleagues smiled slightly, and the new colleagues also She smiled a little shyly, and could feel that she suddenly relaxed a lot on her first day in this new environment. Maybe you have read the story of Super Ah in Saga (the author is Tokunaga Akihiro, Ah is his name for his grandmother). When Akihiro was six or seven years old, he was sent to his grandmother\’s house in Saga and was raised by his grandmother. My grandmother’s family was very poor. When I was in elementary school, all the students would bring a sumptuous lunch every year on the day of the school sports meeting, while Zhaoguang could only bring the simplest prunes and rice balls. It is also strange that at noon on the day of the sports meeting every year, a teacher happens to have a stomachache and cannot eat a sumptuous meal. The most suitable thing is to eat the simple rice balls brought by Zhaoguang. Zhaoguang exchanged lunch boxes with his teacher, and when he got home, he told his grandmother about it with some confusion. Grandma said: \”True thoughtfulness is difficult to detect.\” It turned out that the teacher was pretending to have a stomachache in order to let little Zhaoguang enjoy a sumptuous meal with peace of mind. A considerate act by the teachers warmed the boy for a lifetime and could pass this warmth to more people. It is indeed what grandma said, true thoughtfulness is when people are not easily aware of it, and it helps others often touch their hearts. As far as the scene in our office today is concerned, moving tables and chairs is actually a small disturbance to the existing order of the environment. But if you think about it from another perspective, a new colleague will definitely feel unfamiliar when she comes to a new environment. She will bring to herself The \”disturbing\” must also feel nervous. Teacher Da Li\’s words sounded like a mother scolding her beloved children, but they also eased the nervousness of the new colleague, allowing her to see that she was doing something and her own strength. When Mr. Li was appreciating the movie \”The Dog-Faced Years\”, he mentioned one detail in particular. The boy took a long train to his aunt\’s house. His aunt and uncle went to the train station to pick him up. When they saw him for the first time, they said : \”The weather is so good today, you must have brought the good weather!\” Such a simple sentence, a most considerate greeting, instantly connected the boy with the aunt and uncle he met for the first time. And the boy went from being misunderstood and criticized at home in the city to an environment where he can get true understanding and tolerance.Here, his injured mind gradually recovered. Whether as a parent or a teacher, whether we are raising children or working and living in society, caring for others is a precious ability that can truly touch the hearts of people. And this kind of touch is the sweet spring flowing through the heart, and the sunshine that shines into the heart. The more considerate we are of others, the better we can handle relationships, and work and life will become smoother as a result. In other words, the easier it is for a person to achieve success and happiness. Children are not born with the ability to be considerate of others; they learn it slowly through exposure. When we practice becoming a person who can consider others, we are giving our children better upbringing, and we are helping our children lead happy lives in the future.