People\’s Daily: The success of any career cannot make up for the failure of educating children! (Teacher forwards to parents)

Recently, a speech by a director of education went viral. He did not talk about exams, scores, or enrollment rates, but he said eloquently in his speech: \”Education is about taking care of small things!\” In the education process, it is those seemingly insignificant things that change a child\’s life. The People\’s Daily also issued an article reminding parents: As times advance, education methods must also change, and parents must be the \”first person responsible\” for their children! The following 7 most important educational details, please all parents to manage and teach them well, are worth more than a million words of nagging. Control your child’s learning. No child naturally loves to learn. But a child who doesn\’t study, has no goals, and spends all day eating, drinking and having fun will have a very sad future. This society is punishing those who don\’t read very severely. The greatest value of reading is that it gives people the right to choose. A writer once said: \”Child, I ask you to study and study hard, not because I want you to compare your achievements with others, but because I hope you will have the right to choose in the future and choose a job that is meaningful and time-consuming, rather than Forced to make a living. \”Every point on the child\’s roll is earned through hard work and sweat. The greatest cruelty parents can do to their children is to let them learn freely. As parents, we should take a \”long-term\” view and be \”cruel\” to our children. For children from ordinary families, reading is still the most effective way to change their destiny. It may not make you a winner in life, but it can save you from hitting rock bottom. Control your children\’s habits. A study by Harvard Business School found that children who can keep their desks clean and tidy tend to have excellent grades, focus and endurance; children who are often careless and procrastinate rarely know how to tidy up their desks. What really widens the gap between children is not their intelligence, but their habits. There is an old saying in China: It is better to cultivate a good habit than to train a child a thousand times. One more good habit means more confidence; one more good habit means one more chance of success. When parents develop a good habit for their children, it is equivalent to storing a wealth of life for their children. ① Develop living habits, go to bed early and get up early, take good care of books, arrange time reasonably, and pack your schoolbag and desk by yourself. ② Develop study habits, listen carefully to lectures, complete homework independently, actively review and preview, and digest the knowledge learned every day. ③ Develop behavioral habits, observe discipline, be civilized and courteous, get along well with others, learn to respect the elderly and care for the young, and take the initiative to share household chores. Control children\’s laziness As the saying goes: \”Everything fails because of laziness, and people fail because of idleness.\” Most of the bad habits in children are caused by laziness. The fastest way to destroy a child is to keep him lazy. Zeng Guofan has a famous saying: \”Hundreds of ills all arise from laziness. Lazyness leads to slackness, and slackness leads to lax management and insensitivity to interests and achievements.\” Don\’t let your children\’s laziness today become their deepest regret in the future. To help children overcome laziness, parents need to \”teach by words\”, \”let go\” and \”teach by example\”. ① \”Words\”: Guide children to make plans, set goals, and arrange their own time. ② \”Let go\”: Let children learn independently and accomplish what they can by themselves. ③\”Teach by example\”: Parents should be diligent first, set an example for their children, and help their children overcome laziness. If you love your children, you must be willing to let them go. The more willing parents are to let go, the moreCan raise diligent children. Control your children’s mobile phones. In the electronic age, more and more children are addicted to mobile phones. Children who like to play with mobile phones are used to getting pleasure from mobile phones. As for the learning of knowledge, it will only feel boring and boring, and gradually get tired of learning. Don’t underestimate the influence of mobile phones. A mobile phone is enough to make a child corrupt! Parents are the wall between their children and their addiction to mobile phones. ① Make an agreement in advance and agree with your children on the duration and frequency of playing with mobile phones every day. ② Control the duration of use and allow children to play with mobile phones appropriately, but not for excessive entertainment. ③Choose high-quality content, guide children to browse healthy and beneficial content, and make good use of the \”double-edged sword\” of mobile phones. Instead of \”competing\” with mobile phones for children, the key is for parents to \”win\” their children with high-quality companionship. Rules for controlling children Writer Liu Yong once said a thought-provoking saying: \”If you are reluctant to set rules for your children, someone will teach them a lesson.\” Loving children is the instinct of parents; setting rules for children allows them to become independent adults. , is our responsibility. Rules and love are inherently unified. Just like a sentence in \”Family Education\”: \”Freedom with rules is called liveliness, freedom without rules is called wantonness.\” If they don\’t want to raise their children to waste, parents must be cruel and establish good rules. ① Rules for personal growth: Be punctual and trustworthy, admit when you make mistakes, don’t waste food, and learn to go all out. ② Rules for interacting with others: Don’t lose your temper, don’t talk about others at will, and always keep polite words on your lips. ③Rules for integrating into society: abide by school disciplines, abide by public order, and be civil and courteous to others. Control your children’s squeamishness. People’s Daily compiled a self-examination list for unqualified parents’ behavior. Spoiling a child is like killing a child. The more doting the parents are, the more squeamish the children will be. I don’t want to endure the hardships in study; I can’t bear the hardships in life. But if you don’t endure hardship now, you will definitely have hardship in the future. Jade cannot be made into a tool if it is not polished, and it cannot be made into something useful if it is not polished. Don\’t let your children indulge themselves and covet comfort when they are most able to endure hardship. ① Pay close attention to children\’s learning, let them develop habits, master methods, and go smoothly on their academic path. ② Pay close attention to children\’s self-discipline, set rules for children, supervise them at all times, and eliminate the looseness and willfulness in their nature. ③ Pay close attention to the child\’s independence, give the child a chance to do things, and exercise his ability to deal with problems independently. On the road to education, parents are the ones who should not be lazy, and children are the ones who should not be pampered. The famous educator Mr. Tao Xingzhi said: \”Morality is the foundation of being a human being. If the foundation is bad, even if you have some knowledge and skills, it will be of little use.\” Without virtue, what good is life! If a child has no virtue, why is it difficult to educate him? Morality is the most valuable asset of a family, and it is also the education that parents should give their children. Every word and deed of parents, whether beautiful or ugly, good or evil, noble or vulgar, will be deeply rooted in the minds of children. As the writer Baldwin said: \”Children will never obey adults, but they will definitely imitate adults. Whatever you expose to your child, he will absorb it.\” The cultivation of parents is the education of children. Good education is a lifelong wealth that parents give to their children. Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University once said: “Today’s education is about constantly making concessions to children, giving them more happiness and more time to play.Time, but how can there be such education in the world? \”Towering trees cannot grow in a greenhouse, and thousands of troops cannot be trained in an alley. Education requires strict and determined strength to give children unlimited possibilities. I hope all parents will remember one thing: outstanding children are Take care of it!