Please tell your children: The world is not fair. No matter how hard you work, you will be special.

First class passengers can get priority boarding, and bank VIPs can skip the queue… Really, the world is never equal, and how hard you work, you will be special. This truth must be known to children as early as possible. The more unfair it is, the more meaningful the effort is. Before the college entrance examination in June 2018, \”Extreme Challenge\” conducted an experiment. At the beginning, all children were placed on the same starting line, and the guests would ask them 6 questions and answer \” \”Yes\” child can take 6 steps forward to reach the next line. The question is this: Do your parents have any education beyond college? Did your parents hire a tutor for you? Did your parents keep you learning a specialty? After three questions, some people moved forward while others were still standing where they were. Next, the question continues: Growing up, have you had any experience going abroad? Are your parents committed to sending you to study abroad? Growing up, were you the pride of your parents? Did they often brag about you in front of their relatives and friends? When all the questions were over, some people were already far ahead, but other students were still at the starting point, not moving a step. The starting line that was originally in the same position began to become uneven, and then with an order, these children began to run collectively towards the finish line. Horses that are good at racing don\’t care about where their starting line is. So the people who finish in the top 20 are the same 20 people who were standing in the front? There were some of them, but not all of them, and even more of those running from behind. Born is different, and the college entrance examination also has a starting line, but life is a marathon, and the person who wins in the end will never be the complainer, but the person who keeps running silently. What you get is what you deserve. A top student at Zhejiang University became famous because of a dense schedule. The schedule is arranged from 6 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. every day. The learning content for each period of the week is accurate to a few minutes. The learning status can be said to be a race against time. Even though he has been admitted to the university that many people dream of, he still never relaxes for a moment. Many students on the Internet broke the news, \”This is our top student, he is a god-like existence at Zhejiang University. Good grades are not a big deal, the key is that he is good at fun, such as flying airplanes, diving, and creating his own trendy clothing…\” From being admitted to Zhejiang University in the college entrance examination to becoming a god-level academic at Zhejiang University, I can do everything and do everything well. If we didn\’t see this schedule, we must be thinking: He is so lucky, his life is so smooth, and his family has a good background and education. These are the excuses we often use to anesthetize ourselves, and this list shows real efforts everywhere. Some people say that the road to success is not crowded, because there are many people who say they work hard, but very few people who actually stick to their efforts to the end. Those people we envy, however, what they get is often what they deserve. If you don\’t get it, there is only one conclusion, that is, you haven\’t done it yet. A teacher said it well: All methods that can really improve children\’s scores are against human nature. Counterattack is never a legendary leap, but a step-by-step approach. Children should know the real world. There is a saying circulating on the Internet recently: If your child is unwilling to study, take him to four places.: Passenger terminal, railway station, high-speed rail station, airport. Go and see what people in these four places wear, what they say, what they smoke, and what kind of qualities they have. Yes, everyone is equal, but everyone\’s quality of life and living status will really be different. Ask your child who he wants to be in the future. Let your children see all kinds of things in life, and then choose the life they want to live. Only in this way can they generate inner driving force and put it into practice from the heart. A migrant worker from Henan Province wrote a message on the blackboard during the summer construction of Henan Experimental Middle School: If you don’t struggle, your talent will not match your willfulness; if you don’t struggle, your steps will not catch up with your parents. The speed of going; if you don’t struggle, the world is so big, how can you see it? This is reality, and it is full of the sadness of \”I could have done it\” from a person who has experienced it. The biggest problem in our education is that parents always hide their own suffering and pain, only show the best to their children, and give them the best things within their abilities. In fact, we should tell children the cruel reality and the painful lessons of adults. If possible, let them see it with their own eyes and experience it for themselves, which is more effective than any preaching. This world is not fair, but it is also extremely fair. What you get is actually what you deserve. The harder you work, the more special you will be. Let children understand this truth as early as possible, so that they can work hard and pursue from the bottom of their hearts, and truly understand what the current hard work is for.