Poor people don’t know how to accompany and educate their children.

The most difficult decision faced by poor families is whether to devote their limited time to making money or to accompany and educate their children? The slightest difference between parents\’ ideas and information can lead to huge differences. Although some parents often accompany their children, their children do not perform well; on the contrary, some parents can make money and their children grow up well. What is true high-quality companionship? Become the center of attention. Poor families often mistake companionship education for obedience care. What they pursue is their children\’s well-behaved and high scores. Wealthy families are different. They don\’t worry too much about their children\’s grades and pay more attention to their children\’s overall growth. Emphasizing the power of role models cultivates a sense of responsibility, time management, and learning efficiency, so that children can perform better in all aspects. 01 Children of poor people mature at least ten years later. The so-called children of poor families become masters of their own household early. In fact, they just know how to do housework early. Children from poor families do not understand the ways of the world, and have not seen much of the world. Some even have \”three views\” that were formed by surfing the Internet as adults. Children of poor people are at least ten years late in maturing in society, and their minds are basically in a state of confusion before the age of 35. In addition to being on par with others in terms of knowledge and intelligence, there is a big difference in overall aspects. Because parents lack successful experience, have too little role models and successful education; they have neither the ability to make money nor their understanding of the world, and they will not teach their children anything truly useful. No one can choose their origin. Traditional education also teaches children that \”a dog will never mind being poor, and a son will never mind an ugly mother.\” If you have a preconceived idea, you will naturally not deny it easily and break out of the confinement of your original family. Many parents always force their children to obey their demands and do as they are told. As everyone knows, the experiences and lessons of many parents are simply not applicable to today\’s era; if children want to get ahead, they must work hard on their own and hit walls everywhere. Children from poor families are basically raised by themselves. Their mental maturity is too late and their starting point is too low. They want to do their best to change the status quo and let their parents live a good life. It may take at least three to five years. , it can last for more than ten years, or even longer. It’s just that ordinary parents will never know that their children will make their way in society on their own; they will either follow the rules and eventually become like their parents; or they will completely break themselves into pieces and relearn the rules of the world, polishing and reshaping themselves little by little; Only in the end can we break away from the constraints of the original world, move towards success and redefine success. Parents’ cognition is the starting point for children. Therefore, parents who don’t know how to educate their children well and cannot provide substantial help as their children grow up: Then please encourage him more, recognize him more, praise him more, understand him more, and support him more. he. Never forcefully pass on your own cognition, anxiety, fear, anger, and grievances to your children. This is the best education for children in desperation. A child\’s success is never a person\’s solo effort, but should be supported by generations. Don’t be a parent who can’t help your children but also holds them back. 02 The poor cannot integrate existing family resources. The biggest ignorance of poor families is that they cannot integrate existing family resources and then allocate and utilize them. Some families even have their own thoughts.They always care about trivial matters and immediate interests, and all their energy is consumed within the family. Just like the issue of elderly people helping to take care of their children, I often hear this voice on the Internet: Parents are not obligated to help you take care of your children! \”It is affection to carry it, but it is a duty not to carry it\”! The more young people from lower-income families have children, if they don\’t have the support of their parents, they have to give up their income or pay for a nanny, and life will be even more difficult. Some parents have experienced days without support from the elderly, and she knows how difficult it is for young people who have no one to help them. So after having a grandson, I stepped forward and helped take care of the baby without any complaints. He also told his children not to worry about future problems and to focus on career development and personal growth. Only by accumulating wealth will life in the future be easier. The goals of parents are the same as the goals of their children\’s families; everyone performs their duties and works hard in the same place, no one talks about the hardships they endure, but they share the delicious food together, and the whole family enjoys the trip. With the help of parents, you can go all out in the workplace, stay with your children, and provide them with a better education. Some people may say again: \”This is your life of kidnapping your parents. They have no such obligation.\” Large and powerful families will help their children, but in different ways. The rich and powerful families are the accumulation of family experience and resources from generation to generation. The poor are still talking about obligations here, but in fact they just don’t want to live a good life. Poor families have very few resources. If parents and children cannot work together to strengthen the family and create more value and wealth; if small things have to be divided between you and me, family resources cannot be maximized. Those small families that benefit from the help of their parents have less burdens and are more likely to move up and be more stable. 03 The children who come from poor families are less able to \”endure hardship\”. The children who come from poor families are less able to \”endure hardship\”. This \”suffering\” does not refer to physical suffering, but refers to long-term perseverance without hope. Because they desperately need timely positive feedback, let alone long-term, even mid-term returns are too uncertain in their eyes. People who are poor do not necessarily have a miserable life, but they are most likely to have short ambitions. This kind of \”short-mindedness\” comes from the sense of scarcity in the growing environment of the native family. I am always driven by this feeling to look for feedback and rewards. Naturally, I have no chance of achieving the great success that I need to persevere. Unless I get through too early and look at short-term gains and losses. The Internet information age is the best opportunity for ordinary people to make a comeback. Of course, it is also a career that will only succeed if you persevere.