Pour milk into the fish tank? Creativity hidden in baby’s naughtiness

Share a short story: A little girl asked her mother: \”Why do others praise you for being beautiful?\” Her mother said: \”If you drink a bag of milk every day, you will be beautiful and healthy.\” After hearing this, the child poured a bag of milk into the fish tank. The mother lost her temper and yelled at the child: \”This is something for people to drink. How can you pour it into the fish tank? I asked you to give me the water I just changed.\” If it gets dirty, I have to change it again, which is really annoying!\” In fact, the little girl just wanted to know if fish can turn white after drinking milk. Drinking milk has benefits, so why can\’t fish drink it? The little girl wanted to verify it for herself! In fact, this is a child\’s exploratory behavior. Milk is not harmful to fish, not to mention a problem that can be solved by changing the water. If the mother loses her temper and yells, the child\’s behavior is severely restricted. From then on, the child will not be bold anymore. I dare not put my ideas into practice. This is not a good thing for children! Regarding this topic, we invited Professor Wang Yuwei, a well-known domestic parenting expert, to talk to you. Let go and give it a try. 2-3 year old babies are very curious and want to touch and move everything. They will think: \”Why can the phone talk? Is there a little person in it?\” \”Little fish swim in the water, can the chicken go into the water too!\” \”Why does the car move? I want to dismantle it.\” \”Open it and have a look.\”… Parents should not simply and rudely stop their babies\’ destructive behaviors caused by curiosity, but should affirm and encourage their babies\’ curiosity, and at the same time give them positive explanations and education. Encourage your baby to think more, ask more questions, and find answers on his own. Parents can let their babies make some small productions. In actual operations, on the one hand, they can exercise the baby\’s hand-eye coordination ability, exercise the development of hand muscles, and on the other hand, develop thinking and creative abilities. Therefore, if you want your baby to become smart, you should let your baby try it himself. Don\’t stifle creativity. Parents stifle their children\’s imagination and creativity often happen in many small things in daily life. ➤When babies want to unpack their own toys, parents often snatch them away and scold the baby, \”Why are you so naughty? What if you break it?\” ➤When babies use scissors to cut paper or use pens to \”doodle\” on the table ”, they would also sternly stop them: “Put it down quickly, what should I do if I break my hands?” ➤ “How can you draw everywhere? Look at the mess in the house!” In short, many parents want to try everything with their babies. They feel uneasy about the way they try, fearing that they will dirty their hands, faces, and clothes, fearing that they will have an accident, fearing that they will break things, in short, they are not at ease and do not understand. This attitude is not suitable for inspiring your baby\’s imagination, creativity, and hands-on ability. For example, babies like to walk around in adults\’ shoes, and like to play in water, mud, and sand. These activities may seem meaningless, but they actually play an important role in stimulating the baby\’s brain and sensory training, and can also provide the baby with Makes for a very happy experience. Creating potential in naughtiness When babies become interested in something, parents should seize the opportunity to inspire them to observe carefully and explain some relevant knowledge appropriately. If parents can use their life experiences to actively participate and guide, they can help their babies reach the age of 3Begin to gain understanding of problems before the age of 18. ✔ When bathing your baby, you can encourage your baby to use various containers to hold water, and compare the amount of water in the container to understand the size of the container; you can also let your baby put paper boats, soap boxes, and bottles filled with water in the water. Some can float on the water and some sink. Parents can also learn more about their babies\’ thinking through the understanding of material weight through these \”try it\” games. ✔ Don’t blame your baby when he takes apart toys, because “naughty” behavior may often be a manifestation of creativity. Children\’s desire to create has just begun to sprout, and parents and teachers need to discover and guide them. If you do it exactly according to the pattern required by adults, it will inhibit the baby\’s innovative spirit of \”trying it out\”.