Prevent fraud and kidnapping! Never put your child’s name on a school bag or coat!

The kindergarten where Xiaonuo goes to school is the public school corresponding to our community, and most of the children in the community go to school here. One day last week, it started to rain lightly when I went to the kindergarten to pick up Xiaonuo from school. At the school gate, I met a little brother who lived in the same unit as us. He was in the next class. My parents drive my little brother to school every morning, and my grandma walks to pick him up from school in the evening. I usually go directly to pick up my sister Xiaoxi after picking up Xiaonuo. There is an hour interval between the two of them after school. We wait for a while in the parking lot of my sister\’s school, just in time to tell Xiaonuo stories and read picture books. It happened to be my sister\’s turn to be on duty that day, and school ended 20 minutes later than usual. I planned to take Xiaonuo home to rest for a while before picking her up. So I invited my little brother and his grandma to ride home with me in my car. It was raining and it was inconvenient to walk. The kids walk slowly, so it would take twenty minutes to get home. Grandma readily agreed, but the little brother was reluctant because he was not familiar with me. He refused to get in the car and kept saying he wanted to walk back. I called his name and said, come up quickly, I am the aunt who lives upstairs in your house! When my little brother heard that I could call him by name, he immediately got on the bus with a smile and asked me in surprise: \”Auntie, how do you know my name?\” He has a sister who is a little younger than our sister. She often When I visit our house, I know his family, but my little brother rarely comes, so he doesn’t know me. I said that not only do I know your name, but I also know that you are 5 years old and you are in the first grade, right? When the child heard what I said, he immediately became very happy and chatted with me all the way. After that, we occasionally met in the garage or at the school gate, and he greeted me very warmly. I can call the child\’s name, and the child immediately lowers his wariness towards me and includes me as an \”acquaintance\”. I couldn\’t help but wonder, what would happen if a bad guy could call the child\’s name? Will it be easy for him to pretend to be \”Mom\’s colleague\” or \”Dad\’s friend\”? Then wouldn\’t his success rate in abducting children greatly increase? In this way, there are huge safety risks around many children: many schools require children to put their names and class information on their school bags or on the jackets of their school uniforms, especially for children in kindergarten and lower grades of elementary school. The school may require this to facilitate management, because young children often cannot remember their belongings and may take the wrong school bag or find it. Let us imagine this scene: A boy\’s schoolbag says \”Wang Xiaoming from Class 1 (3)\”. At this time, a man wearing glasses came over and said: \”Are you Wang Xiaoming from Class 1 (3)?\” I am an art teacher in Class 1 (1). We have a new batch of painting notebooks. I can’t carry them by myself. Can you help me get them? The notebooks are in that car…\” Xiao Nuo attended the daycare class last year. , is in a different kindergarten than the small class I attended this year, and the teachers in both classes asked us to sew the child’s name on the child’s quilt and pillow. I bought name stickers for my child online. I bought 5 at a time. They were very beautiful, including KT cat stickers, bunny stickers, car stickers, etc. After sewing the quilt and pillow, I sewed the remaining one for her. On the small schoolbag……Although the child now attends a small class and does not carry a schoolbag every day, she likes this small schoolbag very much. Occasionally, when she goes to the supermarket or wanders around on weekends, she will ask to carry the small schoolbag. Imagine if someone called Xiao Nuo\’s name accurately in a park or supermarket, how would she react? Would she regard him as an acquaintance, a friend of her parents? Will you accept the snacks he offers? Will you go with him? It’s scary to think about it! ! ! So, last night I decisively took off the name sticker on Xiaonuo’s schoolbag. If your child’s schoolbag also has class and name information on it, please get rid of it immediately! If you must stick it, please stick it in a hidden place on the inside of your school bag. As I write this, I am reminded of my experience with a doctor many years ago. That time I went to the hospital to see an otolaryngologist because I had a sore throat. While I was waiting, I felt the lobby was a bit stuffy, so I went for a walk on the green space outside the hospital. At this time, I met a couple holding a baby. The woman looked at me several times and said, isn\’t this a colleague of Zhang Ping (Zhang Ping? Zheng Ping? The pronunciation is very vague)? I saw you last time when I went to see him! I am his fellow countryman, do you remember? When I heard this, I thought, my fellow colleague, you should be more enthusiastic, why can’t I remember them? I blame myself! Asked her: \”Are you talking about Zhang Ping?\” We happened to have a colleague named Zhang Ping (both this surname and this name are highly probable). The other party immediately nodded and said yes, yes! So he started chatting with me and asked me what was wrong with me. I said my throat was uncomfortable, dry, hoarse, and painful, and it had been there for a long time. They started to say in a serious manner, you need to see a Chinese medicine doctor for treatment. A friend of mine has a very similar situation to yours and was cured by seeing a Chinese medicine doctor. I know that old Chinese medicine doctor and he happens to be not far from here. We are planning to I\’m taking my child to see a doctor. On the way…BALABALA, in short, let me go with them. I really wanted to go with them to have a look. Considering that the hospital had already registered me, and I still believed in big hospitals in my heart, I hesitated for a while before deciding not to go with them. After returning to the company, I talked about this matter with my colleague Zhang Ping. She said with a confused look, \”I don\’t have any fellow countrymen who have come to see me!\” Then we were confused together, what\’s going on? A long time later, I went to the hospital again and saw a notice posted on the wall, reminding patients and their families to beware of medical fraud and avoid being deceived. I suddenly realized, could it be that the person I met last time was a doctor? ! You see, this stranger just called my acquaintance by name, which immediately made me relax my vigilance and treat them as an acquaintance of an acquaintance. I almost got deceived! What if they were targeting children? What if they could call the child by his or her name? The consequences are simply unimaginable! So again: never put your child’s name on a school bag or jacket! We always tell our children: \”Don\’t eat from strangers\” and \”Don\’t go with strangers\”… However, we often forget to tell our children the definition and category of strangers. Who are the strangers? People with whom we have no connection at all are strangers, and no one has any objection to this. However, the sameAre the uncles, aunts, grandparents who live in the same community strangers? Are the classmates’ parents strangers? Is the teacher in the next class a stranger? Are your parents’ classmates and colleagues strangers? Are the relatives you rarely see in your hometown strangers? Or even, is the owner of the small shop where he often goes shopping a stranger? I think every family may have different standards and answers to these questions, but no matter what the standards are, please help your children clearly define them to avoid confusion. The following are the standards I tell my children for your reference. From a safety perspective, people can be divided into the following groups: 1) Family and relatives Family: parents, grandparents, grandparents, relatives: uncles, aunts, uncles, aunts and uncles… These must be very close and the children are familiar with them. people, and you need to tell your children which specific people they are. Not everyone with this title can be counted. By the way, my uncle suggested calling me \”brother-in-law\” and his wife suggested calling him \”aunt\” in order to distinguish him from the \”uncles\” and \”aunties\” all over the street. 2) People you can trust include teachers in your own class, all uniformed police and security guards, PLA uncles (although you rarely encounter them), and uniformed staff in public places. 3) People you know include: teachers in the next class, uncles, aunts, grandparents in the same community, parents of classmates, classmates and colleagues of parents, distant relatives… You should say hello when you meet, and you can ask for help when necessary, but don\’t take advantage of them. Things cannot go with them. 4) Except for the above types of strangers, all others are strangers. Don’t say hello, don’t listen to them, talk to them as little as possible, never eat their food, never lead them, never follow them! May all children in the world grow up safely in their mothers’ arms!