Public kindergarten teachers tell you that there are many things you don’t know

1. There is no need to be too entangled in choosing a kindergarten. For most areas, high-end private > public > ordinary private. Public kindergartens are for education, and private kindergartens are for services. Therefore, ordinary families choose public schools close to home. It is more important to cultivate children\’s time management concepts, instructions and rules awareness early on, so that they will become more motivated as they learn. 2. Teachers have no prejudice against any child, but they do have a preference for parents. Parents who like to cooperate with education and teaching work do not like parents who are self-righteous and do not recognize the teacher\’s professionalism. This is the greatest harm to teachers. 3. You don’t have to go to kindergarten transition classes, but you have to prepare for kindergarten transition. If your child breezes through three years in kindergarten and has not learned writing, arithmetic, pinyin and English, he will struggle for a long time in elementary school. 4. You can start with the daily meals in the kindergarten and encourage the children to take the initiative to talk about what happened in the kindergarten. In this way, you can not only understand the child\’s situation in kindergarten, but also exercise the child\’s expression ability. 5. The first thing that really promotes the development of children\’s brains is large-scale exercise, and the second is the cultivation of aesthetics. This is to cultivate children\’s emotional intelligence and use calligraphy and painting to express emotions. Finally, the influence of music is the best medium for children to release dopamine. 6. Children need to dress, eat, go to the toilet, etc. by themselves in kindergarten. Parents should cultivate their children\’s self-care ability in daily life, so that their children can adapt to kindergarten life as soon as possible, and also make their children more confident and independent. 7. Don’t destroy your children’s concentration when they play with building blocks and Lego. Observe and provide appropriate guidance when playing with you, but don’t criticize. If you have time, you can do some concentration exercises and auditory concentration training. You will know how delicious it will be when you help your children with their homework in the future. 8. When buying picture books, don’t follow the trend. Discover what your child likes. In the early stage, find books that your child is interested in instead of books that you think are useful. When you read to your child repeatedly, exaggerate and treat yourself like a child. This will improve your performance. Once a child\’s interest in reading reaches primary school, it will be easier for him to learn Chinese. 9. Pinyin is the basis for helping children to read. Children must learn Pinyin before they go to elementary school. You must be able to recognize, read, and master two-pin syllables and three-pin syllables. This will be very helpful for reading in the first grade. 10. We must pay attention to literacy. Literacy in daily life cultivates children\’s awareness of learning and improves literacy in daily life and games. You can also start with the \”Preschool Literacy 3D Flip Book\”, which can help your children to learn literacy skills even if they don\’t go out. In various life scenes, such as zoos, parks… allow children to understand and learn faster. Children love to read books and look at pictures, and they will naturally understand after reading more. This learning method will be more attractive and interesting. I learned it unconsciously. 11. Keep reading ancient poems. Parents can read and recite ancient poems with their children to enhance parent-child interaction and expand their children\’s knowledge. They can also use the Himalaya or Baobao app to follow the reading, which allows for painless recitation. Let your children learn ancient poems and prose in advance so that they can accumulate some knowledge. It will be easier for them to learn after they enter elementary school. 12. Try to achieve mathematical enlightenment in games and life.Learning in middle school, such as taking children to the supermarket to buy things, teaching them to recognize and count coins, going to kindergarten to let children learn to recognize clocks by themselves, etc. These interesting ways allow children to learn mathematics without knowing it, and deeply understand the subject of mathematics. To serve life. 13. If you have the ability, learn mathematics in advance. Mathematics ability is closely related to the development level of a child\’s individual abstract thinking ability. Niuwa can learn in depth ahead of time. Puwa should also try his best to calculate within 50 before school. Small classes and middle classes can play some small games, hundred boards, etc. The senior class began to develop the habit of practicing a page of calculation questions every day. 14. English sharpening is similar to listening to ancient poems. Every day you can listen to SSS children\’s songs on Xiaoyouqu, or watch graded animations for a while, and you can also test your hearing. By “sharpening their ears” from an early age, children will acquire pure pronunciation and will be able to learn and understand English more easily. 15. Kindergarten to the third grade of primary school are the key ages to prevent and control myopia. If myopia occurs, it is likely to become high myopia, so you must do eye exercises seriously. 16. Insist on going to bed early and getting up early, get enough sleep every day, and develop a regular schedule. If you can wash your hands and button your clothes correctly, you won’t have to worry too much when you get to kindergarten. Tidying up the toys after playing every day can cultivate the habit of tidying up the children by themselves and free up the old mother\’s hands. 17. Nothing is complete without rules. Children must have rules at home, and they should abide by kindergarten rules in kindergarten, such as observing classroom discipline, queuing order, table manners, some basic courtesy rules, etc. During this period, parents consciously cultivate their children\’s rules, which will play a subtle role in their children\’s future. You can watch \”Educated\” with your children to guide them in the correct civilized etiquette in the form of comic stories. There is no preaching, and you can guide your children through daily details. 18. Don\’t get too close to parents with negative energy. If a parent often complains that the kindergarten food is not good, the teachers are bad, and the classmates are not high quality, then you must stay away from such complaining parents. Because it will disrupt your thoughts and make you feel anxious, and this anxiety may be passed on to the child invisibly, making it more difficult for the child to adapt to kindergarten. Key learning points for primary and middle classes [Sports + Play] ① Outdoor sports such as cycling/slide/running, etc., to exercise the coordination of children\’s limbs ② Parent-child time twice a week: mainly outdoor games, supplemented by parent-child interaction, ③ Playing puzzles and building blocks , Lego, magnets, science experiments and other games. 15-30 minutes a day. Cultivate children\’s imagination + concentration + stimulate the joy of exploration. [Language] ① When the sensitive period of literacy is reached, read the literacy pop-up books every day. Children love to flip through books, look at pictures, and learn in real life scenes. The key is for young children to be interested in literacy! ② Play a jingle with your children every day to enhance parent-child interaction and strengthen your children\’s habit of speaking clearly. ③ 10-15 minutes of parent-child reading every day, including picture books/simple stories, allows children to be exposed to more words and help develop interest in reading in the future. [Mathematics] ① Learn and practice logic, mathematics, observation, and puzzles while playing, and develop your brain. ②) Small class and middle class are availablePlay some mini games, including a hundred-number board, etc. to develop your number sense. [English] ① It can teach you to recognize some simple English words or phrases, such as good, nice, good morning, etc. ② English children\’s songs are ear-piercing and suitable for the enlightenment of young children. You can start raz\’s picture books when you are around three years old. Such as Oxford tree, Lisheng, big cat. All very well graded. Key learning points for large classes [Sports] ① Ensure at least 1 hour of outdoor play time every day. ②You can start learning rope skipping. After first grade, you will be required to check in for skipping rope every day. (Bamboo ropes are best for kindergarten children!) ③Running, basketball, badminton, swimming, usually practice 1-2 items to exercise physical fitness. 【Chinese】①Be proficient in at least about 800-1200 words before learning. ② Master the three-pin syllable and two-pin syllable of finals and initial consonants, and be able to recognize, read and write the tones and syllables. ③Write for 15 minutes every day, master the posture of sitting and holding the pen, and write neatly. ④30 minutes of parent-child reading time and 5 minutes of independent reading time every day. ⑥ You can read \”75+80 Ancient Poems Must Memorize for Primary Schools\” in advance because children have more time. Mothers can read it with their children and explain the meaning, so that their children have a certain foundation of language sense. [Mathematics] ① Know time, be able to read clocks, learn to read diagrams and equations, etc. ② Be proficient in addition and subtraction within 20, learn how to add ten, borrow ten, etc. [English] ① Listen to more English children\’s songs to sharpen your ears and increase your sense of English. ②Watch 20 minutes of English cartoons every day (\”Steve\’s Super Fun English\”, \”Despicable Me\”, \”Coco\”, etc.) Finally, we listen to what parents say. ❝ I passed by after retiring as a kindergarten teacher for six years and would like to talk about the phenomenon around me: In public schools, parents ask teachers to do things, while in private schools, teachers ask parents for cooperation. For example, if the children do not come to pick up their children after school, the teachers in public schools will immediately call the parents and say: What are you doing? If you don’t come to pick up your child after ordering, the private teacher will just say weakly: My dear, our baby hasn’t been picked up yet. Did you forget it? It’s okay. I’ll just take care of you for a while. Don’t worry. Slow down on the way. Oh! Public schools are not a little bit easier than private schools. If you can get into the program, who would still get such a salary in private schools and be so angry! Public schools are very tough, and many have bad attitudes towards children. The loss of students has nothing to do with teachers, especially Those who are more troublesome will be expelled from public schools. Private schools are eager to recruit more students and make more money. Some teachers will be forced to work overtime to recruit students. Private kindergartens have live broadcast surveillance throughout the entire process. If teachers are caught, their ethics will be improved immediately. Being kicked out of the industry (doesn’t mean everyone, just most of the phenomena around me) ❝ I’m worried recently. My child went to a public school. For the first two weeks, he was picked up at noon for dinner and sleep, and then sent there in the afternoon. Every day, the child was willing to go. The classroom was all happy. Until this week, the child has been in kindergarten all day. The child no longer wants to go to kindergarten. Every morning when sending the child to the kindergarten, the teacher no longer greets the child. He no longer smiles when he sees the child. When the child enters the classroom, he I am not happy, and my glasses keep looking at the teacher’s expression in the class. The reason is that my child hit a child.The teacher saw it, and my child said he didn\’t hit him, but I believed the teacher, so I came back and taught him hard. After all, lying is a big deal for children, so I also want the teacher to slowly guide him, and we adults should also guide him at home. , but I feel that now the children are very afraid of that teacher, and that teacher, when I send the children to school, there is no smile at all. The attitude has changed a hundred times from before. I don’t know if I am a blind person. Being criticized is normal, because he has never been criticized by a stranger and has no experience. We adults will be angry when criticized by leaders, not to mention children. 1. It is normal for teachers to criticize. .It is normal for children to be angry. 3. It is normal for children to avoid going to school because they do not know how to deal with it. You need to understand the existence of emotions and tell them the correct way, such as: apologize to the child and admit the mistake to the teacher. How to deal with the problem next time, don\’t use hitting. Also, the teacher will not hate your child just because he hits. She faces dozens of children every day, and countless incidents of beating will happen every day. She has long forgotten about it… As a result, you have been struggling here for a long time, fearing that the teacher will blame you and hate the children. The teacher is really not biased against the children, but is biased against the parents. of. For example, you clearly know that your child is not ready for school, cannot go to the toilet on his own, and urinates everywhere, but when the teacher communicates with you after school, he just hugs the child and leaves. The parents of other children will ask their children to go to school after school. Goodbye, teacher, you refused to communicate and just carried him away. The child kept coughing and vomiting. The teacher came to you and asked if you wanted to take him to have a look. You said: Teacher, we parents also have our own things to be busy with. How could I not be prejudiced against such a parent?