Raising children rich: Parents who only spend money and don’t care are the most terrifying

Anyone who has watched the new episode of \”Metamorphosis\” on Hunan Satellite TV in the past few days must have been shocked by the protagonist Liu Siqi. At the age of 16, she has limited ability to take care of herself. She needs help from her family to put on clothes and socks, cut her nails, and even feed her! It simply blew everyone’s minds! Liu Siqi spends money lavishly, spending tens of thousands of yuan in pocket money every month, and the most he spent was 110,000 yuan in one day. Her famous saying is: If you have money, why don’t you spend it? The information also shows that in order to experience the pleasure of booming business, she resold the mobile phone case she bought for more than 20 yuan for two yuan, and also had late-night snacks to celebrate the booming business. In her eyes, as long as she looks good, she can buy it for 30 yuan or 30,000 yuan… Looking further, she found that Liu Siqi, a girl, has no major problems except her ability to take care of herself. Everything is pretty normal. Although some behaviors may seem \”silly\”, such as selling mobile phone cases, they are not doing it to make money, but just to have fun. For example, she went to eat oysters. She ate 100 but had to give 500 to the boss. The reason was that she ran for two hours just for this bite. This is nothing, people think it is worth 500, and it makes people feel quite kind. When she arrived in the mountains, the program crew asked her to hand over all snacks, cash and electronic devices, which she did without saying a word. It can be seen that she is actually a person who is easy to get along with and willing to cooperate. Of course she was unwilling to hand over the cosmetics because she said she was a girl and had to wear makeup. It’s understandable that girls love beauty. The more I think Liu Siqi has a good nature, the more I \”hate\” her parents for her: how abominable it is to raise such a smart and intelligent daughter into what everyone calls a \”giant baby\”! Liu Siqi\’s parents believed that their daughter wanted to be rich, so they \”raised\” her richly. Please click here to enter a description of the image. You must know that \”nurturing\” and \”nurturing\” are completely different. Nurturing, nurturing, nurturing means nurturing, which is only elementary and material, and can be achieved only with money; while nurturing is education, which is non-material, higher and more important, and cannot be achieved only with money. . On the other hand, in \”Metamorphosis\”, Liu Siqi\’s parents took their wealth to the extreme: they gave Liu Siqi lots of pocket money and supported her like an ancestor. Her mother helped her dress, her aunt cut her toenails, and her second aunt helped her feed her. She is using practical actions to show the world what it means to reach out with clothes, and what it means to open your mouth with food! She usually has an uncle who serves as her driver, bodyguard, and full-time companion. In fact, Liu Siqi\’s family is not incredibly rich. This can be seen from her mother\’s words: Although she could indulge her daughter in all kinds of unlimited spending in the past, now that Liu Siqi has grown up, she will soon enter the society. Now it’s only 10,000 or 20,000 yuan of flowers, but what will happen to 100,000 or 200,000 yuan in the future… In other words, Liu Siqi’s parents cannot guarantee that she will be lavish in food and clothing for the rest of her life. Then why haven’t you thought about letting your children learn to be self-reliant and self-reliant, so that they can create one hundred thousand or two hundred thousand in the future? Liu Siqi cannot take care of herself. Is it really \”unable\”? No, of course she can eat and dress herself, otherwise why would she go out to eat oysters and barbecue? she just doesn\’tShe was just willing to do it, or in other words, she was too lazy to do it when someone asked for help. This is like a child who doesn\’t say hello to anyone. Is it because his pronunciation system can\’t say \”Hello, aunt\”? Of course not, he just didn\’t want to say it. The elders help Liu Siqi wear clothes, socks, and even feed her because everyone thinks \”she is still young.\” This reminds me of many \”he is still young\” scenes: lazy children do not study hard, and parents comfort themselves that \”he is still young\”. When a naughty child makes a lot of noise in public, the bear\’s parents take it for granted because \”he is still young.\” When a child destroys things, his parents apologize on his behalf and say, \”He is still young.\” As everyone knows, all adjectives in this world are relative. 16 years old is still young when it comes to making a living and being independent, but it is really not young when it comes to taking care of oneself. Mother Liu sent Liu Siqi to \”Metamorphosis\” because she felt that her daughter was \”too willful\”. Has she ever thought that no child becomes willful overnight, and no child becomes non-willful overnight. It is an easy thing for rich people to spend money to raise their children, hire a few nannies and drivers, and \”raise\” their children. Isn\’t it just spending money? When your child has a problem, just throw it into \”Metamorphosis\” and let others help you transform the child. How simple would it be? ! It’s just money from beginning to end! Mom personally helps with feeding and dressing, which is just a waste of time! We saw that Liu Siqi’s parents spent a lot of money and a lot of time on their children, but we didn’t see that they put their heart into it. When it comes to raising children richly, parents who only spend money and don\’t care are the most terrifying! What does true prosperity, or “enrichment”, look like? It is by no means as simple as \”having enough money\”. Enrichment should allow children to have a rich heart, an independent personality, a broad vision, and their own opinions. Let your children read more. The ancients said: \”If you don\’t read for three days, your words will feel tasteless and your appearance will be hateful.\” Reading makes people elegant, fulfilling, open-minded and wise. To read more, you don’t need much money, you just need to be very diligent. It starts with the child\’s babbling, starting with the picture books one after another. Little by little, day by day, accompany the child to appreciate the wonderful things in the book, cultivate the child\’s reading habit, and make the child interested in books. It takes a lot of company time, and a lot of love and patience. Fan Yusu, who became famous on the Internet not long ago, is she rich? No! But she went to the recycling bin and bought more than a thousand kilograms of books for her children. On the other hand, do the families of countless nouveau riche have money? have! But there are very few books in their homes, and even if they have a few, they are mostly just for decoration. They would not think of buying books for their children, let alone read with them. As the old saying goes, it’s better to travel thousands of miles than to read thousands of books. The travel mentioned here is by no means tourism. The core of tourism is travel. Playing and having fun are a kind of consumption and entertainment. You can see beautiful scenery, eat delicious food, go shopping, and enjoy it. What I want is good food, good accommodation and good travel. The point of traveling is to go, experience, and experience. Go see different scenery, beautiful or not; taste different tastes, sour or sweet; see different customs and customs, get to know different people andthing. Travel makes people relax and enjoy themselves. Travel makes people gain knowledge and improve the depth and breadth of their thoughts. You must have money to travel, but it doesn’t have to be a trip. Going to a prosperous city or a remote rural area can be a trip. Parents who only spend money naturally love to let their children travel. For example, on a group tour of the \”get on the bus to sleep, get off the bus to take pictures\” type of tour, after playing for a while, the most profound impression on the child may be that he ate a ball of marshmallows at one time. Only parents who are willing to take their children to travel will do so. They will make full preparations in advance, learn about local customs, historical changes, and geographical features with their children, plan the route, and set off with questions. After this trip, the children gained a lot. To let children learn to enrich themselves in life, they must have a strong and rich heart, know tolerance, learn to be grateful, be strong and optimistic, elegant and wise… Where do these excellent qualities come from? It must be inseparable from life. In life, parents set an example and let their children learn subtly from their words and deeds. When parents forgive others for their unintentional mistakes, children learn to be tolerant. When parents face difficulties head on, their children learn to be strong and optimistic. When parents are grateful for the little help from others, their children learn to be grateful. If parents do not run away from their responsibilities, their children will learn to take responsibility. When parents take care of the elderly and treat them with respect and courtesy, their children learn to be filial. When parents participate in housework, children learn to do things on their own. If parents think hard and use their brains when dealing with problems, their children will have IQs. If parents manage their emotions well and don\’t lose their temper, their children will have emotional intelligence. With adequate companionship since childhood, children will have a sense of security. Give your children a lot of love, and your children will have self-confidence. All of these do not require parents to have a lot of money, but they do require parents to be attentive enough. No matter you have money or not, you can nourish your children spiritually!