Sad! A senior high school girl in Henan jumped to her death. You can\’t understand the \”suffering\” of the candidates in Henan

As the saying goes: Han Chuang studied hard for more than ten years just to get a name for the college entrance examination gold list. But the fierce competition in the college entrance examination is like thousands of students crossing a single-plank bridge. The pressure is crazy. Therefore, the road to the college entrance examination requires your efforts and perseverance, your persistence and self-confidence, and more importantly, your optimism about learning and life. But everyone has a different state when faced with difficulties or pressures. Some people rise to the difficulties, some are Buddhists and deal with it calmly, and some collapse and do stupid things. No, a high school girl in Henan did something \”stupid\”: jumping off a building. 01Sad! A senior high school girl in Henan Province jumped to her death from a building. A senior high school girl in a county in Henan Province jumped to her death. Her parents sat at the school gate and cried heartbrokenly. As a Henan native, I was brought to tears by this news report. I carefully read several related articles, and everyone was saying that this high school girl was \”not worth it.\” The white-haired man sent the black-haired man away, and the college entrance examination was only about a week away, but this high school senior girl chose to jump off the building instead of persisting in the college entrance examination. It was really not worth it, and I felt sad for the girl. We don’t know why a senior girl in high school chose to jump off a building. She probably made a sudden decision, or maybe she couldn’t bear the pressure and sought relief, but I think her jumping off a building must have something to do with the college entrance examination. A senior high school girl jumped to her death from a building, which aroused the attention and heated discussion of thousands of netizens. One of the netizens’ comments touched me deeply. This netizen left a message: \”Don\’t scold this girl. She is from a school and has already repeated her second or third year.\” I have been repeating the second or third year of high school. I can’t remember clearly. I just know that I have been in high school for a long time. This is not just a whim, but a fact. Especially in some counties in Henan, repeating the third year of high school is common. Re-reading will bring pressure, and if you can\’t bear it, it will make people collapse, so on the other hand, I understand the high school girls jumping off the building. If you are not a Henan candidate, you will never understand the \”Henan candidate\” bitter\”. 02 You can’t understand the “hardship” of Henan candidates in studying. You are among millions of candidates, and the undergraduate admission rate is around 38%. You can’t understand that after more than ten years of studying, you can’t The unwillingness and anger of not being able to pass the undergraduate degree. Let’s take myself as an example. I live in a county in the southeast of Henan Province. Although there were three high schools when I took the high school entrance examination, two were public and one was private, the competition was fierce. I didn\’t study well and failed to pass the high school entrance examination. Fortunately, I met a well-connected teacher in the third grade of junior high school and entered the second grade of high school at a high price (costing an extra 1,000 yuan). It is not easy for rural children to go to the county town to study, and they know the importance of studying. Therefore, from the first year of high school to the third year of high school, I have been studying in key classes, and my academic performance has been stable among the top 20 in the class. In a class of 70 people, my mock test score was among the top 20 in the class, and it was a key class. So at that time, I felt that my grades were pretty good, and I thought it would not be a problem to get into an undergraduate college. (At that time, there were one, two, and three grades.) But the college entrance examination was cruel. Only 5 people in our class passed the undergraduate level. Of the 70 people, only 5 have passed the undergraduate level, so we have three choices: junior college, dropping out to work, or repeating studies. When you reach high school, who doesn’t dream of going to college? Therefore, half of the students in the class chose to repeat their studies, and those whose families were financially disadvantaged went to work in the south. Entering the repeat class will make me biggerIt opened my eyes to a large classroom with 5 rooms, about 25 rows of tables and chairs, and accommodating about 300 people. Can you imagine this scene? Yes, repeating the course does not necessarily mean you will be admitted to university. In the second year of the college entrance examination, there were only about 30 people in the repeat class of 300 people who passed the undergraduate course. I am very lucky to be one of these 30 people. Later I learned that the undergraduate enrollment rate of the second high school is about 10%, 2,000 people take the college entrance examination, and the number of people who pass the undergraduate degree is about 200. With such a low passing rate, it is common to repeat the course for two or three years. This is just about the college entrance examination in the county where I live. By analogy, you can imagine how much pressure the candidates in Henan are under. Candidates with weak psychological quality are likely to collapse and choose to do stupid things. 03 Studying for an undergraduate degree is not the only way out, the most important thing is to stay motivated. According to online reports: the number of applicants for the 2024 Henan College Entrance Examination is as high as 1.36 million. I don’t know whether this data is true or false, but I know that Henan candidates are having a hard time. Everyone wants to go to an undergraduate university, but it’s not easy to get into an undergraduate college. But regardless of the results of the college entrance examination, I want to tell you two points. Point one: Undergraduate study is not the only way out. If you pass the college entrance examination and get into an undergraduate university, will your future development be good? Not necessarily, because future employment is related to your ability, expertise, and connections. Therefore, we need to open up our minds and avoid studying in non-211/985 universities or non-undergraduate universities. Choose a vocational college, study a technical major, improve yourself in college, and your future development will not be bad. To take a step back, if you study in a junior college and have strong learning ability, you can also \”upgrade from a junior college to a bachelor\’s degree\” or \”take a bachelor\’s degree and take a master\’s degree\”, and your development will be great. The second point: It is more important to stay optimistic and self-motivated. The college entrance examination is just a hurdle in life. If we can\’t pass it once, we can go several more times. But it is normal to encounter stumblings while walking. We should not give up when we encounter some setbacks. Instead, we should exercise our ability to withstand pressure and handle things in difficulties. Only by reviewing and summarizing can we sharpen our mentality and thinking. . There will be pressure, but please remember that \”there are always more methods than difficulties\”, so it is more important to stay optimistic and motivated in life and study. A senior high school girl in Henan jumped to her death, which made everyone sad. But it is not only about the pressure of the college entrance examination, but also about how we should solve the difficulties when we face them. I hope that we will reflect on what our predecessors have done, and I also wish the candidates to get into the university of their choice. .