School has started, and a mother’s 15 house rules have gone viral: If you don’t teach some things, your children will never learn them.

School has started for several days. But my child doesn\’t sleep at night, falls asleep in class, takes a long time to write homework, and can\’t read a word in the textbook… It\’s really worrying. However, Sister Ling\’s son next door has quickly entered a learning state since school started. After school every day, he would study, do homework, exercise, and rest step by step without being urged by his parents. He was energetic every day when he went to school, always focused on class, and was praised several times by the teacher. That day, I couldn\’t help but ask Sister Ling what is the secret to making children so self-disciplined. She told me that since her children were in elementary school, she has set 15 house rules to regulate their children\’s behavior. I specifically asked her to share these 15 house rules with you, hoping that we can all benefit from them. Regarding learning for children, you can have fun and relax during the holidays, but after school starts, learning will be the main theme of your life. In this world, no one\’s success is achieved overnight. Behind all excellence, there is ascetic self-discipline. Remember, how hard you want to get depends on how hard you work. 1. Preview new lessons in a timely manner. As the old saying goes: Everything is done in advance, otherwise it will be ruined. Warming up before exercise can wake up the body. Similarly, previewing before learning is equivalent to warming up the brain and activating learning goals. It can help you understand and familiarize yourself with the course content in advance and prepare for classroom learning. Only by previewing new lessons in time every day can you \”know what you are doing\”. 2. When you encounter a problem, think more about your usual homework. Don’t give up or ask for help when you encounter a problem. If you encounter a word you don\’t know, please look it up in the dictionary and don\’t call it mom; if you don\’t know the question, read the question several times and analyze it carefully, don\’t call it mom. Don\’t always think about relying on others. Only by thinking more when you encounter problems can you develop your problem-solving abilities. 3. Make a study plan. Many times, the reason why you procrastinate and dawdle in studying is because you have no plan. I hope you can make a daily study plan, including weekend arrangements, and complete them on time. As long as you complete the study tasks within the stipulated time, the remaining time can be used as you like. When everything is done in an orderly manner and proceeds smoothly in planning, better results can often be obtained. 4. Sort out wrong questions. Why is it so easy for this top student to review? The secret is-organize the wrong question book. It\’s not scary to make mistakes, but it\’s scary to make mistakes again and again. Wrong question books can help you better master the questions you have done and avoid making the same mistakes again. At the same time, it will also help you focus on the application of learning methods and strategies to improve learning efficiency. About mobile phones Mom knows that a mobile phone is a necessity for you, an indispensable learning tool and entertainment partner. But the mobile phone is a double-edged sword. It will make your life convenient, and it may also make you addicted. Regarding mobile phones, I will not ban you from using them, but you must pay attention to the following points: 1. Do not use mobile phones while doing homework. All top students have one thing in common: they are particularly focused when studying and never half-hearted. If you look at your phone while studying, your concentration will be distracted and your efficiency will be reduced. From now on, when doing homework, write carefully and focus on it. Only after completing the homework can you play with your mobile phone. Until then, I will keep the phone for you. 2. Mobile phones cannot be brought into the bedroom because many childrenHe is addicted to playing games and often plays on his mobile phone all night long. If I don\’t sleep at night, I can\’t get up in the morning. During the day, I feel like I\’m in a haze and have no interest in doing anything. If you bring your cell phone into the bedroom, it will attract your attention and make it difficult for your brain to relax into sleep. Therefore, it will turn off exactly at 9:30 every night and turn on again at 7:30 the next morning. 3. Play less games and fragmented entertainment such as short video games and short videos, which are invisible time killers. Maybe you get short-term fulfillment and happiness from it, but in the end it only brings you endless emptiness and degradation. If you want to be a valuable person, climb over the mountains and see more beautiful scenery in the world; then don\’t waste your best time in illusory happiness, and waste your time. 4. Do not use mobile phones while eating. Playing with mobile phones while eating is not only impolite, but also prone to dependence on mobile phones. You know, eating is an important moment for family members to reunite, and it is a place where the family communicates emotionally. If everyone is playing with their mobile phones while eating, the distance between each other will become farther and farther. Only by putting down your mobile phone and cherishing every moment with your family can you experience personal happiness. Regarding children of habits, life is just the sum of countless habits. Many times, what widens the gap between you and others is not your family background, but the following habits. 1. Go to bed early and get up early every day. There is a question on Zhihu: Why do outstanding people set their alarm clocks at 5:57? Gao Zan\’s answer is: Because how you spend your morning is how you spend your day; how you spend your day is how you spend your life. Regular work and rest, going to bed early and getting up early are the best medicines to cure your laziness and replenish physical and mental energy. It may seem like a small thing, but it can refresh you throughout the day and give you more time to enrich and perfect yourself. 2. Keep practicing calligraphy. As the saying goes: writing is infinitely elegant, practicing calligraphy is endlessly charming. Practicing calligraphy can cultivate your sentiment, temper your mind, and help you exercise your willpower. When practicing calligraphy, you don’t necessarily need to create a certain font, but you need to ensure that it is beautiful and neat. Practice your calligraphy stroke by stroke, and learn how to be a good person every stroke. Calm down and develop the habit of writing one stroke at a time, and you will benefit from it throughout your life. 3. Exercise for half an hour every day. Principal Tang Jiangpeng said: A good education should be to become a lifelong athlete. No matter how good your grades are, no matter how dazzling your future is, without a healthy body, everything is in vain. Life lies in movement. Only by exercising more can your body be energetic and have endless energy. Set aside half an hour every day to do some exercise, such as running, playing ball, taking a walk, etc. Remember, a strong body is the foundation of all your efforts. 4. Read at least one good book every month. Li Xueqin once had a \”plastic bag\” theory: many people often save some plastic bags for takeout and grocery shopping at home. Those plastic bags may seem useless, but one day they will come in handy when you need them most. Reading is such a process of accumulating little and making more. Books can broaden your horizons, increase your knowledge, enrich your thoughts, and change your temperament. While studying, read two more good books every day. It will nourish you bit by bit and help you become the best version of yourself without even realizing it. Regarding life children, the results are veryIt\’s important, but your grades never mean everything to you. No matter how busy you are, please don’t forget to relax and live a good life after studying. Living a good life is our most important practice and our ability to learn and live happily throughout our lives. 1. Have a hobby of your own. Mom hopes you can get good grades, but I don’t want you to become a nerd. There is only learning in the world. There is a saying that goes like this: \”When you have a hobby in your life, you will never be lonely or desperate.\” Mom hopes that you can have a hobby of your own, which can heal your boring and dull life. Mind, gain happiness. Only by combining work and rest can you go further in life. 2. Do your own housework. You are also a member of the family and have the responsibility to share your housework. From today on, you have to wash your own clothes, wash your socks, make your bed, clean your room, and occasionally wash the dishes after meals. Children who often do housework not only have strong hands-on skills, but are also more likely to be focused and self-disciplined. It is not only a kind of ability, but also a wealth that will accompany you throughout your life. 3. Go out for a walk more often on weekends. Don’t stay at home all day long with your phone in hand. Go for a walk in the park, enjoy flowers, listen to the chirping of birds, or chat with people, go shopping, and be in a daze. God has given us a pair of eyes, and we use them to discover the beauty of life. When you raise your head and look more at the world around you, you will find that life is so beautiful. A senior teacher once said: The beginning of school is a very important node for children. If you grasp this critical period of school, your children\’s performance will be able to reach a higher level. School has started, and it is the children who go to school, but it is the parents who are tested. Only when parents are determined, set rules for their children as early as possible, and push them at the right time can they achieve a bright future for their children. Only by allowing children to grow up with love and rules can they have a chance to shine. Click \”Like\” and wish our children can sweat as much as they can in the new semester, bloom gorgeous flowers, and bear fruitful fruits.