Seeing Chen Shifeng exchange 20 years for Jiang Ge\’s life, I decided that I must teach my children these things

After more than a week of trial in the Jiang Ge case, the verdict was announced yesterday afternoon. I have been staying in front of the computer, waiting for the final trial results to be announced. The moment I heard that Chen Shifeng was finally sentenced to 20 years in prison in Japan for intimidation and murder, I felt a little mixed. From the perspective of Japanese punishment, this punishment is already very severe. The inspector did his best to do so. The court also fully supported the prosecutor\’s appeal, so it also supported the prosecutor\’s appeal when sentencing. But the price of 20 years\’ punishment in exchange for Jiang Ge\’s life is still too light. If Chen Shifeng had performed better in prison, he might have been released without even having to serve 20 years in prison. Uncomfortable, desperate and helpless, as a mother, I completely understand why Jiang Ge’s mother shouted: “Mr. Judge, please acquit Chen Shifeng!” when she heard the prosecutor’s request for a 20-year sentence. If it were me, I would shout the same thing. Since the law cannot sentence him to death, let him be released as soon as possible and everyone can take matters into their own hands. I can also understand what Jiang Ge\’s mother said to the media at the press conference afterwards. She said that she did not accept the verdict and would go to court with Liu Xin after returning to China. Because Chen Shifeng and Liu Xin behaved so shamelessly in court, they used various shameless tricks in court in order to exonerate themselves. If they behave more sincerely, if they sincerely show remorse and regret, maybe everyone will feel better psychologically. But what is disappointing is that neither Chen Shifeng nor Liu Xin truly repented. There is only one thing they are trying to do, and they are desperately trying to clear themselves. Jiang Ge\’s mother said that Chen Shifeng kept laughing when answering questions, and even smiled happily when his lawyer asked him questions. His original thought was that he could be acquitted according to his lawyer. It was not until the sentencing that he shed tears and became so nervous that he was sweating profusely. Even though Chen Shifeng knelt down at the end of the trial to beg Jiang Ge’s mother for forgiveness, we all know that his kneeling was not because he truly regretted it, but because he just wanted to get a lighter sentence through this method. This is the most disappointing thing. Unforgivable. None of us are Jiang Ge’s mother, but we can all experience the sadness and helplessness in Jiang Ge’s mother’s heart the moment she received the verdict. As a mother, how can we accept that the child she worked so hard to raise was innocently killed like this? Every mother feels the same way Jiang Ge’s mother has been going through this year. When the results came out, our hearts were just as heavy and sad. Jiang Ge will never come back. This case has brought too many impacts to us. After a week of trial, I compiled a few key points, which I will definitely tell my children: 1. Stay away from weak bitches. The biggest reason why Jiang Ge was murdered was because she made a weak bitch friend like Liu Xin. The weak bitch shows weakness and pretends to be pitiful when nothing happens, and hides behind other people\’s backs when things go wrong. They use the excuse of \”I am poor and I am justified, and I am weak and I want to be taken care of\” to ask others to help them with peace of mind. He feels that it is appropriate for others to help him. If others do not help him, these people will be unhappy in various ways. After receiving help, not only do they show no gratitude, but they also become more demanding.More. This was the case for Liu Xin. After breaking up with Chen Shifeng, she moved into Jiang Ge\’s home. At Jiang Ge\’s house, she didn\’t clean or clean up the garbage. She didn\’t even buy daily necessities. She used Jiang Ge\’s for everything. She pretends to be weak and in need of care. She called Jiang Ge Third Uncle and let Jiang Ge call her girl. She enjoyed being taken care of by Jiang Ge with peace of mind. When Chen Shifeng came to her door, she asked Jiang Ge to pick her up at the station and let Jiang Ge face Chen Shifeng\’s cruelty. When Jiang Ge faced Chen Shifeng, she pushed Jiang Ge out who was already halfway into the house. Without Liu Xin\’s cruel push and her cold door lock, Jiang Ge might not have died. Liu Xin\’s behavior after Jiang Ge\’s death was even more chilling. He didn\’t feel grateful at all, but said Jiang Ge deserved it. This is the typical characteristic of a weak bitch. Once they rely on you, you can only keep giving and take care of them. They enjoy the fruits of being taken care of as a matter of course, and then they criticize, point fingers, and find fault with you. Even if you work hard all your life, you won\’t get any gratitude from these weak bitches, you will only get more dissatisfaction and criticism. If you become friends with such people, your energy will be exhausted and your entanglement with each other will become deeper and deeper. You will be entangled in these negative energies every day and start to doubt your life. So, kids, be sure to stay away from those weak bitches. It is necessary to give help and support to friends when they are in trouble, but this kind of help and support is not unlimited, nor is it a single contribution, but mutual. You give me support, and I give you aid. Only when we grow together can we be grateful. Get happiness. If a person is always looking for help and support, and will only hide behind others when encountering problems, rarely giving help and support to others, such a person is super selfish, and they will definitely not help you when you are in trouble. He might even step forward and step on you hard. You must stay away from such a selfish weak bitch. Everyone is an independent individual and must face his or her own life problems independently. You can help him for a while, but you can\’t help him for a lifetime. 2. Don’t make decisions for others. When encountering difficulties, people will inevitably be at a loss and complain to their best friends and friends, asking for help or advice. Appropriate helping hands are needed, but this helping hands are only to provide support and objectively analyze the situation and the pros and cons. You cannot make any suggestions for others, let alone help others make decisions, or help others solve problems. Some people ask you to help make decisions just to avoid responsibility. He may have already made a decision in his heart, but he does not have the courage to bear the consequences of this decision. So when he comes to ask you, on the surface he seems to be asking you for help, but in fact he is looking for someone to do it for him. Take the blame. He won\’t be grateful to you when things work out, because that\’s how he decided. And once something goes wrong, he will blame you and put all the responsibility on you, thinking that it was you who caused him such misery, and that you had to let him choose this way in the first place, which led to the consequences like this. It was obviously his own problem, but in the end it became your responsibility. This is the most chilling. Jiang Ge is so righteous, she deeply understandsXin wanted to stab her friend, but in the end the knife was stuck in her body. So don\’t believe in \”cutting your teeth at your friends\’ expense\”, that\’s the most meaningless thing. Good friends support each other, stay with their friends when they have no strength and encounter difficulties, and make them feel warm. Instead of helping friends make decisions, help friends face problems. Friends who need you to defend them from knives are definitely not real friends. 3. Never interfere with other people\’s feelings. It is normal for two people in a relationship to love each other, quarrel, and get back together. Some people quarrel with each other to the death, but they quickly make up after the quarrel. Quarrel is the spice of their love. Two people will develop a unique pattern of interaction that no one else can participate in. When a friend\’s relationship is in trouble, you must not get involved. When a friend complains to you, he may scold his lover until he is worthless. However, if you tell your friend your true opinion, you will be sad to find that your friend quickly reconciled with his lover, and you became They both have a common enemy. Therefore, never get involved in other people\’s feelings, let alone make irresponsible remarks about his lover in front of friends. Both people in love are blinded and unable to see the truth. You can stay away from your friend\’s lover if you don\’t like it, but don\’t get involved yourself. Friends should not interfere when they are in love, and they should not interfere when they are breaking up. They are two adults and should learn to deal with emotional entanglements rationally on their own. A person\’s greatest strength comes from himself, and all problems encountered in life\’s growth can only be solved by oneself. The same goes for feelings. If an adult can\’t handle his own problems, how can you, as a friend, help him solve them? So never get involved in your friends’ feelings. 4. You must not have the intention of harming others, and you must have the intention of guarding against others. Jiang Ge’s death makes people sad. In fact, Jiang Ge’s mother had foreseen the danger. So in the phone call Jiang Ge had with her before she died, Jiang Ge\’s mother reminded Jiang Ge many times to pay attention to safety. But Jiang Ge said that Japan\’s public security is very good, so don\’t worry. Jiang Ge is too simple. Good law and order does not mean that all people are good people. Bad people don\’t only appear in the dark, there are crimes under the sun as well. Don\’t assume that everyone around you is a good person just because you are a good person. Bad people don\’t have the word \”bad guy\” written on their faces. Therefore, we must have vigilance and awe. Don\’t doubt someone easily, but never trust someone casually. You must not have the intention to harm others, but you must have the intention to guard against others. 5. Don’t provoke an angry person. An angry person has no cognitive ability. They are completely trapped in their emotions and cannot control their actions. They themselves are not aware of their rage, let alone the terrible consequences that their actions may bring, so many people make serious mistakes in their rage. Afterwards, they themselves could not imagine why they were so impulsive. At that time their behavior was completely out of control. Therefore, do not provoke an angry person, and if a person is already very angry, do not try to show off your quick words. It doesn\’t matter if you suffer a little loss occasionally. When danger approaches, you must be wise and calm. Don\’t add fuel to the fire. When Chen Shifeng came to the door, Jiang Ge actually had a chance to escape. If she had been more alert and calm at the moment she discovered Chen Shifeng, and used a tactful way to calm Chen Shifeng\’s emotions first, and say a few more considerate words to calm down the angry Chen Shifeng, when the cognition returned, everything might have been completely no the same. 6. No matter how much you love a boy, don’t take nude photos or sex videos with him. This advice is for girls who are in love. Liu Xin was entangled by Chen Shifeng and was afraid to face Chen Shifeng. One of the key reasons was that Chen Shifeng threatened her and said that he would send revealing photos of her and him to her parents. These photos were taken by two people when they were passionately in love. When they were passionately in love, these were evidence of the sweetness of their love. However, when many relationships break up, these photos will become evidence of one party being blackmailed. So don\’t do things that are not good for you just to please a man. If a man really loves you, he won\’t let you do these things. Only those men who are selfish and want to satisfy their abnormal psychology will have such needs. If a man breaks up with you because you don\’t want to satisfy his desires, kick him out as soon as possible. He loves himself far more than he loves you. 7. Respect life, respect both your own life and the lives of others. I once wrote in the article \”Why do we hate Liu Xin so much, because we are all afraid that our children will become Jiang Ge\”. Liu Xin\’s biggest problem is that she only respects her own life and not Jiang Ge\’s. Chen Shifeng is the same, he regards his own interests as the highest priority, and other people\’s lives are worse than ants in his eyes. Isn\’t it because he laughs when his lawyer defends him that he thinks he has successfully exonerated him? He has never repented from the beginning to the end. Isn\’t it because he doesn\’t care about Jiang Ge\’s life at all? If Chen Shifeng respected the lives of others, he would not be so impulsive as to kill someone. Although he escaped the death penalty, he had to spend 20 long years in prison. Did he really not regret it at all? Doesn\’t he really feel long and hopeless? Therefore, children must be taught to cherish and respect life at all times. Respect the lives of others, and your own life will be more meaningful. Nothing is more important than respecting life. May Jiang Ge rest in peace!