After the summer vacation, Ms. Wu picked up her 5-year-old niece from her hometown. When they first arrived, my niece and son often cried over toys, but these days I rarely hear their crying. Ms. Wu simply thought that the two children should get along well with each other after getting familiar with each other through play. \”My brother is the father and I am the mother. We gave birth to a child.\” The children\’s words did not attract Ms. Wu\’s attention. She just thought that the children were playing house, and she even found a rag doll for the children. \”Wife, I will love you forever!\” The son\’s voice sounded milky. \”Husband, I love you very much too!\” The niece\’s voice was slightly sultry. The children’s conversations sometimes surprised Ms. Wu! Until one day at noon, when Ms. Wu entered the house to call the children to eat, she was furious: her son actually climbed on top of her niece, clamped her legs tightly, and kissed her mouth to mouth. The niece was still holding her son tightly. Ms. Wu was anxious and angry, so she pulled her son down and beat him severely. My niece also cried after being yelled at by Ms. Wu. \”Bacteria in the mouth can infect each other. Why don\’t you have a stomachache?\” Ms. Wu then lectured the children with reasons that she thought were far-fetched. Until dinner, the son was still very aggrieved. Not only did he refuse to admit his mistake to Ms. Wu, but he also said plausibly: \”I didn\’t make any mistakes! Don\’t you and dad always do this? Don\’t uncles and aunts on TV often do this too?\” Ms. Wu regretted that her son was in such a situation, and she had an unshirkable responsibility. Because there were not enough bedrooms, their son had lived with the couple since he was born. Considering that the child was still young and immature, she and her husband did not avoid her son during sexual intercourse. I sometimes put books with exaggerated love pictures on my bedside table. My husband sometimes likes to watch pornographic TV series. Ms. Wu\’s bowels were filled with regret. She had harmed her son. In the above case, the physical development of the two children has not reached a certain stage. Their imitation is just out of curiosity and they do not understand the meaning. It will not cause harm to the body. There is no need for parents to panic. But it has been exposed that parents have very serious problems in educating their children. If left unguided and allowed to develop, the child is likely to do outrageous things in the future. Here, Doudehui carefully reminds all parents: 1. Younger children have weak discernment abilities and cannot deeply understand things between men and women. It is best for parents not to let their children see sexual activities in books, movies and other media. Couples should not be overly affectionate in front of their children. It is best for children over 3 years old to sleep in separate beds with their parents. Otherwise, it will not be conducive to cultivating the child\’s independent ability and may easily cause the child to imitate blindly. 2. Once a child imitates adult sexual behavior, parents must handle it with caution. First, parents can tell their children that this is impolite and unhygienic, and then divert their children\’s attention and let them play with other toys or play with them. Don\’t overdo it by creating an atmosphere of mystery and fear. Many children are very curious. The more mysterious the parents make the matter, the more interested they will be and they will want to try out their ideas. If the child is beaten and scolded excessively, it is easy for the child toThe child will have a psychological shadow and a fear of imitation, which may even affect the child\’s future interactions with the opposite sex. 3. Parents and teachers should teach their children basic sexual moral knowledge in their daily lives. Men and women are different and they must know how to respect each other. For example, boys and girls should be different when going to the toilet. They should learn to protect their private parts and not watch the opposite sex use the toilet.
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