She even let her daughter be deceived even though she knew it was a scam. After talking about it carefully, she understood her mother’s painstaking efforts.

Every time a friend and his daughter visit People\’s Square, the friend always prepares some change in his wallet. I remember the first time I saw this scene, I asked her why she prepared so much change if she didn\’t take the bus. However, my friend smiled and told me that it was for her daughter. I thought at the time that this guy was really good. He knew that the children were young and had limited cognitive abilities, so he used small change to coax them. But when we went out, I realized that my idea was really wrong. It is true that pocket money is prepared for children, but instead of buying them small toys or snacks, the children give the pocket money prepared by their friends to some beggars. I felt sour when I watched a six-year-old girl run up to her mother and happily tell her that she had helped another person after giving her pocket money to the beggar. The child\’s compassion and care for others are so natural and sincere, and she is happy that she has helped others! But what about this recipient? When you see your child’s sincere smile and innocent eyes, do you feel guilty? My friends and I all know that many of the beggars in People\’s Square are professional beggars. Their embarrassment is all staged. The purpose is simply to make their misery win the sympathy of others and get help. So every time if a friend does not bring her children out, she, like other adults, will not give a penny to these professional beggars. It is not that adults are too cold and heartless, but that these professional beggars are really too hypocritical and take advantage of people\’s kindness. Sympathy deceives. Adults have experienced too many such deceptions. There is not much kind sympathy left, and the nerves become numb. But as long as you bring your child out, your friend would rather be deceived than protect your child\’s innocent compassion, because your friend often teaches your child that when others have difficulties, don\’t laugh at them, but rather help them and help others according to your own abilities. Just help yourself and help others is doing a good thing. Helping others will make you feel happy. So when the child goes out and sees some poor beggars, she always feels that she has to help. Even a little help makes her feel happy. At that time, I once asked my friend, since I knew that the beggar was a professional liar, why didn\’t I explain it to my children? In this way, the child\’s compassion will not be deceived. I quite agree with my friend\’s answer. She said that she was very happy that her child was now willing to help others, which at least showed that she had to teach her children to have love and compassion. If her children did this, her education was not in vain. If you tell your child now that the people she helps are big liars and bad guys, because she is too young, she cannot understand why these people pretend to be professional beggars, and if she does not help these people now, she will I felt that what my mother said and what she did were completely inconsistent with what she said and what she did. I tell myself that I want to help people in need, but when I do meet them, I refuse to help them. In this way, the original good educational effect is lost. After thinking about it, I think it would be better to prepare some pocket money for the children to help others, because the children\’s innocent compassion is far more valuable than the pocket money. But being deceived is alsoThere are limits, and the child\’s innocent compassion will not always be hurt in this way. I think some of my friends’ practices are worthy of reference by parents with children: First, tell your children that having a kind and pure heart is beautiful, and that being able to help others is a happy and joyful thing. So when others need your help, you can lend a helping hand. Children\’s compassion is innate. As long as their parents guide them correctly, every child is an angel of love. Secondly, as children grow older, we need to let them know some real cruelty, let them learn to give their love without being hurt, and understand that some sad scenes are all staged, just like the story \”Little Red Riding Hood\” Generally, the big bad wolf sometimes pretends to be grandma, so you must see clearly whether it is the big bad wolf or grandma. Finally, teach your children some tips on self-protection. For example, if someone else is in trouble and needs your help, then it depends on the content of the help. When classmates are in trouble or disaster areas need donations, children can use their pocket money to donate and help others. But if a strange adult asks a child for help, there are two words: refuse. For example, if a stranger needs you to lead him to a place, you should not only refuse, but also leave quickly. Even if a stranger asks you to help him retrieve something, refuse to do so. There is a lot of little knowledge about self-protection. As children’s ability to identify improves, timely education and guidance can be provided to make children more vigilant. Having kind and pure compassion is a child\’s virtue and the foundation of our beautiful society. But beauty and ugliness, kindness and evil always go hand in hand, so in order to let beauty and kindness exist, it is the right thing to teach children how to have beautiful qualities from an early age and also teach them how to defeat ugliness and evil.