She got pregnant hastily and unexpectedly made her regret it like a bolt from the blue!

Ms. Liu is 39 years old and works in a foreign company with good profits. After hearing that the \”two-child policy was fully liberalized,\” her husband suggested that she have another child, and she readily agreed. She indulged in the fantasy that after becoming pregnant with her second child, she would relive the happy time when she was pregnant with her eldest child: her husband took care of her a hundred times, and her mother-in-law and mother took care of her meticulously. However, the reality was not what she expected. The most obvious feeling is that her energy has dropped significantly since she became pregnant with her second child. Sleepiness has been plaguing her like a demon that cannot be driven away. She almost struggles with sleepiness during work hours. Less than three months later, the pregnancy reaction was very strong. I couldn\’t eat anything, and I was in danger of vomiting even a few mouthfuls of porridge. Her mother-in-law was busy, her mother was in poor health, and her husband often went on business trips, so she had to go hungry to pick up her eldest son. Sometimes she felt her legs were shaking. What she didn\’t expect was that as soon as she entered the classroom that day, the teacher kept saying that her boss\’s performance was getting worse and worse. He was distracted in class, didn\’t complete homework, got into fights with classmates, and failed several exams. The more Ms. Liu thought about it, the angrier she became. In the past, her boss often scored 100 points on exams. Why did it suddenly drop? Just when Ms. Liu came back and was about to criticize her boss, the boss burst into tears and yelled at herself in an \”aggressive\” voice: \”It\’s all your fault! I hate that you are pregnant with a younger brother. If you have a younger brother, you won\’t like me.\” Ms. Liu suddenly became stupid. I was stunned, but I asked myself that since I became pregnant with the second child, I have indeed had less and less time to tutor and care for the eldest son, so I had to promise that my mother would pay attention to the eldest son in the future. She had no choice but to do it, but who could understand her difficulties? Ms. Liu\’s tears fell down. The next day came another bolt from the blue: the company wanted to transfer Ms. Liu from the business supervisor to the editorial clerk she had been when she first came here. She had worked hard for more than ten years to become the \”Business Manager\”. How could she not make him sad if she lost him? Ms. Liu had to work very hard to suppress her overwhelming anger. After finally returning home, she didn\’t expect that her husband ignored her and didn\’t say a word of comfort. Ms. Liu finally couldn\’t bear it anymore and broke out. She yelled at her husband and took all her anger out on him. Doudehui reminds: Actively respond to the country\’s \”two-child policy\” and have another child. It is a good thing, but \”having a second child\” is a major event for the family and cannot be accomplished by the wife alone. It requires the concerted cooperation of all members. Before conceiving a baby, you must make some necessary preparations. The first task is to prepare the first child for the second child. For a long time, the first child has been accustomed to the life of an only child. Coupled with his young age, accepting the arrival of his younger brother (sister) requires a process. For example, parents can seize the opportunity when their first child has no children to play with and take advantage of the situation: \”Mom, it would be great to have another younger brother (sister). When they grow up, they can play with you. When you encounter difficulties, They will also help you.\” You should also dispel the child\’s concerns: \”Even if you have a younger brother (sister), your parents will still love you as before.\” After the resistance of the first child is eliminated, it will be very I am happily looking forward to the arrival of my second child. Family members should pay more attention to pregnant womenHeart and care. Pregnancy is a very hard thing, especially for mothers with high collars. They tend to feel unwell, irritable, sensitive, and irritable during pregnancy. The husband should suspend the work at hand, give his wife more comfort, and share more tasks of tutoring the children and housework, so that the wife has more relaxed time to adjust her body and mind, which is conducive to the healthy growth of the baby. You can also hire a nanny to help if necessary. Pregnant women themselves must also learn to adjust their body and mind. Pregnant women should carefully understand that having a second child is a great blessing in life. Even if it is necessary to delay working for one or two years, as long as they work hard after giving birth, they can still achieve great achievements at work. You also need to learn to communicate with your loved ones and seek help from them. In fact, most relatives and friends are enthusiastic, but they just don\’t realize that pregnant women need help. Companies should actively respond to the country\’s call and formulate relevant policies to provide relaxed and superior conditions for female employees to have a second child. After female employees receive preferential conditions from the company when they are pregnant, they often feel grateful and dedicate themselves to the development of the company and make greater contributions.