She made a video asking for help claiming to be Jackie Chan’s daughter! His parents divorced but happily painted the whole process

Recently, Wu Zhuolin and his girlfriend posted a video asking for help online. The first sentence said: \”I am Jackie Chan\’s daughter.\” It turned out that she and her girlfriend lived a penniless wandering life in Canada. They slept under an overpass for nearly a month and asked for help. Various charitable organizations were rejected, so he posted a video to prove that his relationship with his girlfriend was as strong as ever and would not be broken up by outside forces. But his expression still reveals the exhaustion and helplessness of a down-and-out life. Her mother, Ng Qili, was not heartbroken by her daughter\’s embarrassment and bluntly said that the two of them should find jobs to support themselves instead of making videos. Jackie Chan, who has kept silent about his illegitimate daughter for many years, was revealed by Hong Kong media to fly to Canada on a private plane, possibly to take his daughter back to Hong Kong, but the truth is still unknown. As the daughter of Jackie Chan, a famous kung fu star in the domestic and foreign film circles, her current situation is really sad. Not only was he in financial straits, he also claimed to suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). He had a falling out with his family when he was supposed to be in college and was living in a foreign country. Wu Zhuolin has often appeared in entertainment news in the past few years, but it is always related to his mother\’s family conflicts. She exposed her mother\’s beatings on her several times, which led to Wu Qili being arrested for child abuse. She also cut her wrists and mutilated herself, ran away from home, and finally insisted on dropping out of school to live with her girlfriend who was more than ten years older. Many netizens attributed Wu Zhuolin\’s life experience to her unfortunate single-parent family life: she lived with her violent mother who smoked and drank all the time, and her father was in name only and never publicly acknowledged her. Growing up in this environment, Xiao Longnu has already experienced life that many of her peers have never experienced at a young age. Parental Responsibility of Single-Parent Families But will children of single-parent families definitely live unhappy lives? In fact, not necessarily. There is a 6-year-old boy in Indonesia who also experienced the divorce of his parents. He recorded the entire process of his parents\’ divorce with a paintbrush. Surprisingly, this is not a particularly sad thing. At first, the boy\’s parents fell in love, got married and had children, but gradually, the relationship between the parents began to break down, with more and more quarrels, and finally ended in divorce. Although the little boy was scared and worried about this matter, he unexpectedly discovered that his parents no longer quarreled after the divorce, and even often went on trips with him. His mother would often buy him delicious food and new clothes, and his father would Sleep with him. At this time, many people around him began to ask him: How does it feel to live in a broken single-parent family? The little boy told them that his parents were no longer a couple, but they were still his family. He liked his life now better than in the past, because as long as the children could still feel the love of their parents, the family would not be broken up. This 6-year-old boy used his limited life experience to realize a truth: lack of love is the main cause of inner unhappiness in children. Even if they live in an ordinary family, if their children are growing up with quarrels, indifference or even blind suppression by family members, they will also have psychological problems. Parents must pay attention to the following matters. There is no need for adults to torture children with conflicts. No matter what the reason is for the couple to break up, do not vent your anger on innocent children, and do not repeatedly instill hatred in your children that their father/mother is not a good person. After all, children have no rights.They cannot choose their origin, and doing so will only make them more miserable. Don’t give up your children because of divorce. Even if parents don’t get custody of their children, or have rebuilt their family after divorce, they should never give up their love for their children. Parental indifference can cause deep harm to children, and may even affect their future choices of spouses and starting a family. The Responsibility of Bystanders Regrettably, not all parents can be as open-minded and loving as the parents of the little boy in the previous article. There are also many couples who turn against each other after breaking up. It is difficult to even sit down and have a calm chat, let alone work together. Raising kids grown up. Even if they receive enough love from their families, children still have to face many external difficulties. The video below tells the story of two girls who grew up in single-parent families. They shared with their mothers their inner journeys that they had not spoken about for so many years. One of the girls with yellow hair told her mother that she had been in love with her ex-boyfriend for more than two years before she found out about him. The mother objected to the two of them being together because the girl came from a single-parent family. I\’m afraid similar situations are not isolated cases. When searching for the keyword \”single-parent family\” on the Internet, the number one pop-up association search is \”What psychological problems do children from single-parent families have?\” and among related hot searches, \”Men from single-parent families\” \”Is it worth marrying?\” has also become a topic of great concern to netizens. It can be seen that in many people\’s minds, children of single parents will have psychological problems due to family reasons, and these stereotypes even affect their criteria for choosing a spouse. But, is this the truth? You must know that there are many children who grow up in single-parent families. There are stars like Sun Li and Liu Yifei, players such as James and Butler, and great thinkers like Confucius and Mencius who lost their fathers when they were young, as well as those unknown people around us. Relatives, classmates, colleagues. Obviously, they are not exactly the same people. Instead, the prejudices from the outside world have affected their self-perception, and the road to growth has been filled with malicious eyes. Each person with whom we come into contact is part of an individual responsibility, the size of which depends on the relationship. Therefore, even if we do not come from a single-parent family, we cannot let our own prejudices go. A malicious word may affect an innocent child\’s view of himself. As bystanders, what can we do to avoid harm to single-parent children? To eliminate prejudice, not only do not treat single-parent children as people with psychological problems, but also do not show too much sympathy because you are worried about their lack of care. If you want to eliminate prejudice, you must first treat each other as equals. When the environment around them does not treat them as exceptions, they can gain dignity and kindness from social relationships. Timely aid and equal treatment does not mean standing aside. If they are in trouble, we still need to lend a helping hand. For example, when we find that single-parent children around us are being abused by their parents, or when we see other children humiliating them for not having a father/mother, we can all do what we can to reduce the harm they suffer. If single-parent children have unfortunately grown up in a family that lacks parental care and has not received goodwill and respect from the surrounding environment, these children may have relatively weak legal awareness and moral concepts. The Zhengzhou Municipal Procuratorate and the Chengdu Municipal Court have compiled statistics on the number of cases of failure to comply in recent years.The annual crime rate, among which many children come from single-parent families, does not mean that single-parent families cause crime, but that the lack of supervision and education in family life leads these children to go astray. The little dragon girl Wu Zhuolin mentioned at the beginning of the article is Jackie Chan\’s illegitimate child. Her mother Wu Qili is still unmarried. She also grew up in a single-parent family and has only met her father once. The reason why history is so strikingly similar is not without reason. Parents\’ emotional patterns and family concepts will subtly affect their children, making them repeat their parents\’ fate as if by \”coincidence.\” Even if they do not receive the care of the goddess of luck, children from single-parent families still need to grow up themselves, not only to avoid themselves going astray, but also to avoid future children from repeating their fate. Even if you\’re an adult, here are some tips. If you are a child and friends who read this article, you can tell the single-parent children around you: the kindness in life far outweighs the evil. I hope you can discover the small beauty and never give up trust and kindness to others because of temporary grievances. , if you encounter serious harm to others, remember to seek legal weapons to protect yourself. Last but not least, never turn to crime. If you are an adult, your childhood experience can no longer be repeated. I hope you can let go of your resentment as soon as possible. After all, if you\’re not at fault, why torture yourself. In addition, remember not to let the lack of security in childhood affect your attitude towards others. Don\’t be afraid of starting a family just because you have experienced a broken family. Only by having a longing for beauty in your heart can the wound heal and regain a new life.