Should we let parents take care of their children for free?

First of all, it is definitely best to take care of your children yourself, but due to the pressure of life, many people are caught between work and life. Therefore, in order to provide better living conditions, it has gradually become a product of the general trend to bring children to their elders… So the question is, if parents help take care of their children, do we, as children, need to provide some \”living allowance\”? Or should we give an extra portion of the child care expenses every month? Faced with such a naked \”realistic\” problem, there is no need to feel shy. Let\’s first see what people who have experienced it say! @Sister In fact, I don’t think it’s important whether it’s paid or not, but whether it can handle the conflict between raising children between two generations, so that parents don’t feel that they have invested time and energy and are heartbroken! @leiH: My mother-in-law lives on her own and occasionally comes to the house to look after the baby, or she helps take care of the baby when we have something to do. She usually has to pay the price for reimbursement when buying things for her baby. Although I am embarrassed to be a daughter-in-law, I think that I will also be a mother-in-law in the future, and I feel that doing so is really excellent. Will also follow suit. @小雅: Parents have no obligation to take care of their children. There are really many conflicts between parents and their children. When old ideas collide with new ideas, conflicts arise. I\’m afraid that the old man insists on taking care of the baby, and when he opens his mouth or shuts up, he always says \”I\’m from here\”, \”I brought up your husband like this\”, \”You will suffer the consequences if you don\’t listen to the old man\”, \”You shouldn\’t do this, you shouldn\’t do that\” \”In the end, I was physically and mentally exhausted! @Vicky: I have been struggling with this issue recently. I cannot point out my mother-in-law’s family. My parents are willing to help take care of the children, but I must give them money, otherwise my husband will treat my parents as free nannies. I don’t understand. cherish. @豆豆: My parents help me take care of my children. I give them 3,000 yuan every month as living expenses. How can I give it for free? This is just for our family to eat, drink and buy groceries. I think I will need to pay for it after the Chinese New Year. It is really hard to thank my mother for a big red envelope of six thousand, seven thousand or more, although she is also happy to take care of the baby. @龙庄: My parents help me take care of my children. I give them thousands of dollars every month for living expenses. How can I take care of them for free? We spend our own money on milk powder tuition and clothes. What I give to the elderly is just for our family to eat and drink. , for shopping for groceries and so on. @木木: If the finances allow, I will hire someone to take care of the baby, but now the conditions are limited. I ask my mother to help take care of the baby during the day on weekdays, and I take care of the baby myself at night and weekends. We should be grateful when parents help us. If we don’t help, we have no right to complain. Finally, what is the parenting model of the sisters’ families? If you are a parent helping to take care of your child, do you think you need to provide some \”living allowance\”? Welcome to leave us a message in the comment area~