In the evening, grandma led Mingming back from the supermarket. Grandma was carrying a lot of things in big and small bags, and Ming Ming was holding a big banana in her hand, which she ate while walking. After a while, the banana was finished, and the banana peel flew to the path with Ming Ming\’s little hand. . At this time, my mother happened to come back from work and witnessed this scene. She quickly stopped Mingming and said, \”You obviously can\’t litter. This is bad behavior. Pick it up and throw it into the trash can.\” Mingming said disapprovingly: \” I won\’t go, it\’s so dirty!\” \”That\’s right, you can\’t let your children touch unclean things.\” Grandma helped Mingming speak. Mom still wanted to educate Ming Ming, but grandma said to her mother with a straight face: \”You have this time, why don\’t you help me get something, go home and prepare delicious food for Ming Ming, and prepare to celebrate my eldest baby\’s birthday.\” He gave his mother the food in his hand and took Mingming directly home. After returning home, Mingming was eating snacks and watching cartoons. Grandma and mother were cooking dinner in the kitchen. Today is Mingming\’s birthday, so they prepared the meals that Mingming likes to eat. On the surface, everything is happy, but in the mother\’s heart, there are mixed feelings. How can she educate her son about such uncivilized behavior without causing friction between her mother-in-law and her son? So, the mother thought hard, and suddenly a clever idea came to her mind. She quietly approached the room and made a mysterious phone call to the child\’s father… In this way, with the efforts of the mother and mother-in-law, a sumptuous dinner was ready in a short time. All I need is the birthday cake my dad brought after work. Mingming kept looking at the door, hoping that his father would come back quickly. He wanted to eat cake. At this time, there was the sound of the door opening. Ming Ming suddenly jumped up and ran to the door to open the door for his father. When dad entered the house, the whole family was shocked. Mingming\’s father was empty-handed, but his face and clothes were covered with cake crumbs. Mom quickly asked: \”Dad Mingming, what\’s going on?\” Dad said: \”When I came home, I was carrying a cake and didn\’t pay attention to my steps. I stepped on a banana peel thrown by someone, and the whole thing slipped. The person fell down and the cake was broken.\” At this time, mom and grandma, you look at me, I look at you, neither of you can say anything. The grandma was obviously embarrassed and avoided the child\’s damn eyes. The mother looked at her son who was standing there with his head lowered in thought. Her face could not help but tremble slightly, and a knowing smile appeared at the corner of her mouth… Before going to bed, her mother took Mingming to her father\’s study, with her head down and her face red. He said in a low voice with a straight face: \”Dad, I threw that banana peel away. I know I was wrong and I will never litter again.\” Dad was not angry after hearing this. Instead, he took Mingming\’s little hand and said, \” It\’s obviously great. People who can realize their mistakes and correct them are amazing. Littering not only damages public sanitation, but sometimes also poses certain dangers. What if it was an old man who fell after stepping on a banana peel today? What to do? That\’s so dangerous.\” Ming Ming nodded with a red face. After this incident, Ming Ming realized that littering was a very uncivilized and bad behavior, and he never littered again. When he went out to play with his grandma, he would say something like \”Littering\” when he saw garbage on the ground. Because others don’t care about hygiene, sometimesAlso helped clean it up. And grandma got along better with the family because of this little thing. Many times we will find that behaviors such as littering are more likely to occur among children, because many children have not yet developed some living habits in their early childhood. Therefore, at this time, parents need to be required to provide correct education to their children in daily life and urge them to develop good living habits. However, parents should also pay attention to certain methods when teaching their children about littering, because in many cases if the method is inappropriate, it can easily backfire. Under normal circumstances, you need to pay attention to the following points when teaching children. The first is that parents must set an example in this aspect in daily life and do not litter. Sometimes some behaviors of parents have a great impact on their children. The second is that when you see children littering, you must give correct instructions in a timely manner. Those who teach must be careful not to be too impatient. You should calmly reason with your children about the effects of littering. What is the right thing to do, so that when the child encounters a problem again, he will have the corresponding impression and know what to do. The third aspect that needs to be done is that parents can provide timely encouragement to their children in daily life. Some children can be encouraged when they take the initiative to throw trash into the trash can. On the one hand, this can put the children in a better mood, and on the other hand, they can also know that such behavior is correct.
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