Success of parents: If you pay less attention to your children in these matters, your children will become better and better.

In the process of children\’s growth, the role of parents is crucial. However, as children grow up, parents need to learn to let go at the right time and let their children learn to be independent and take responsibility. 1. Self-decision-making ability Parents should encourage their children to make their own choices in small things, such as choosing what clothes to wear and what to eat for breakfast. This helps children develop the ability to make independent decisions. When I buy clothes for my children, I ask them for their opinions and let them choose the style or color they like. Once they choose, I just pay. Last night, I saved hundreds of dollars because of my child\’s words. I have always wanted to buy a trampoline for my child to exercise. It is said to help the child grow taller. 😊 I have never bought it because of the price. I think it is expensive. Last night I talked with my children about toys and inflatable toys. I said that when I have money, I will buy you inflatable toys to play with. My child asked me to search for inflatable toys, and they were not cheap. After giving up the purchase, we talked about the trampoline again. My son saw the trampoline in my shopping cart and said it was nothing. It was just like jumping rope. It was obvious that he didn’t like it. I was glad that I didn’t buy it on my own initiative. Come back, otherwise the child will not play and it will be a waste of money. 2. Exploration of personal interests Every child has his or her own interests and hobbies. Parents should support their children in exploring their own interests rather than forcing them to follow their parents\’ wishes. I didn’t enroll my children in any interest classes. He doesn’t like dancing or playing the piano. In fact, the main reason is that I don’t have money. Haha, I didn’t let him learn anything. I used to sign up for online science experiment classes for my boss. He liked it very much and studied for a long time. Later, due to economic reasons, The reason is that I didn’t continue studying. I once stepped on a trap and enrolled my children in a programming class. After studying for a while, I didn’t want to learn. I refused to learn no matter what. Later, I learned from experience and be cautious. Children\’s interests and hobbies should be considered. 3. Development of social skills. Children need to learn how to interact with others. Parents can provide guidance, but children should be left to navigate their own relationships with peers. Let children learn to communicate and solve problems with other children on their own. 4. Making mistakes and learning Children will inevitably make mistakes as they grow. Parents should allow their children to make mistakes and learn from them, rather than taking all the responsibility for them. Once my son\’s science experiment failed, I asked him to find the reason by himself. If the child finds out the problem by himself, he can reflect on the matter and learn from his mistakes. 5. The concept of money can be improved by giving children pocket money or letting them Participating in a family budget teaches them the value of money and the importance of managing their finances. My son has to keep his New Year gifts by himself. Sometimes he asks me to buy toys and he will give me the money to buy them. 😊I sometimes tell him how much household expenses such as water and electricity bills cost. 6 Housework Assigning appropriate chores to children can teach them responsibility and the value of labor. In terms of housework, I often ask my children to help me with housework, because doing it by myself is really tiring. 😊If you don’t let your children help with housework when they are young, they will not have this habit of doing housework when they grow up and will not take the initiative to help. The greatest success of parents is not to controlnot to control everything about children, but to train them to become independent and responsible adults.