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The child is tired of doing homework, either because he is thirsty, hungry, or needs to go to the toilet. No matter how much he is urged, it does not work. No matter how anxious the parents are, the child is not anxious at all. I believe that this phenomenon occurs in many families. Before I read the book \”Children, Learning is Your Own Business\” by the author Ishida Jun, our family often heard the sounds of children grinding and breaking down and roaring. But after reading this book, I realized that it’s not that children are reluctant to do homework, but that there is actually a reason why children don’t want to write. The book explains 47 children\’s learning problems and how to deal with them. When my children were doing their homework, I applied the methods in the book and used them on my children, and their bad habits of procrastination and dilly-dallying disappeared. For example, Dabao used to play for a while and do his homework. However, after playing for a while, when he went to write again, he felt that there was too much homework and he didn\’t want to write. Based on this situation, I made an agreement with Dabao to do my homework first when I get back from school. At the same time, when there is too much homework, I will split it up. Divide it into three parts for her to write, and don\’t let her finish it all at once. When she finishes writing the first part, take a 5-minute break while writing. Not only did Dabao not feel like there was too much homework, he also developed a habit of self-discipline. No need to urge you now, just ask, honey, what are you going to do soon? She would say, have something to eat, then go do your homework and finish it first. Therefore, many times, it is not that children are unwilling to do homework, but that there is a problem with the ways and methods of parents educating their children. What impressed me the most and gained me the most was the ABC model. I used the ABC model in the book, which not only liberated me as an old mother, but also helped my children develop good habits of independent learning. A Prerequisite: Behind a child\’s good grades, there is often a parent who is good at creating a learning environment. Only in a good environment can he study well. 1. Before children develop good habits, do their homework in the living room. 2. Clean your desk promptly after studying and keep it clean and tidy. How to learn Chinese language learning methods well, methods and techniques for learning Chinese well in primary school.pdf The book mentions that when children study, if their desks are messy but their grades are very good, such children are rare. 3. Develop a reasonable study plan to keep the child in the learning zone, rather than the comfort zone and panic zone. The learning zone is where the child can complete as long as he works hard to get a foothold. It won’t feel easy in the middle, and it will easily make children lose the challenge. But if it is too difficult, it will easily enter the panic zone, making children lose their fear of learning. 4. Develop the habit of making a list when you go out. Take an item and check it off. If children develop the habit of making lists, they will not only get rid of the habit of forgetting things, but if they persist for a long time, they will also develop the habit of making plans. Behavior B 1. Give children clear instructions instead of ambiguous words. 2. Let the child learn within the specified time. Let the child practice for 10 minutes every day. Don\’t worry about how much the child has done. Just look at how much the child has done correctly within the specified time, and encourage this behavior. Develop the habit of answering questions first, and then study the content you will study later. 3. Pay attention to the first 5 minutes of learning so that your concentration can last longer. If the questions are difficult at the beginning and cannot be invested, it will be difficult for the children to be engaged later, and they will be dilly-dally, dilly-dally, and procrastinate. 4. Focus on whether the child understands or not, rather thanDid you do it or not? When your child has been working on a problem for a long time and has not finished it, do not rush to yell at the child, but ask the child gently, did he encounter any problems? If the child says he can\’t, help the child in time and strengthen training on similar questions until the child understands. Parents\’ patience and encouragement will make children dare to face difficult problems. C Result: As a parent, you must promptly guide your children to gain a sense of achievement and satisfaction, and improve their learning motivation, that is, internal drive. 1. It is important to set up a clear reward mechanism and use a monthly achievement list to improve children\’s learning motivation and internal drive. Only when children can clearly see their own progress and growth will they be more motivated. 2. Don’t compare with others, let your children compare with their past selves. Regardless of whether your children’s grades are good or bad, don’t compare your children with other children. As long as today’s children are better than yesterday, it’s good. 3. Use chat methods to learn subjects that you are not good at with your children. The best education is chatting. In chatting, you can guide your children to express their shortcomings and shortcomings, and learn and grow with them. 4. Enforce house rules with your children and help them develop the habit of independent learning. Communicate with your children, formulate house rules together, and implement them with your children. 5. Recognize and encourage children more. When you see a child taking the initiative to do homework or making a little progress, affirm and encourage the child in a timely manner so that the child can regain a sense of accomplishment. 6. Dismantle big goals and break them down into small goals. Once you have a general direction and goal, your children will feel much better! At this time, we must observe the child\’s situation in time and make adjustments according to the child\’s situation so that the child can see the results and feedback in time. Therefore, we need to break down the goals into small goals. When children see their goals completed one by one, their sense of accomplishment and ability to act will become stronger and stronger, and their learning ability will also increase. Written at the end: When children are too lazy to do their homework, it is actually not because they don’t want to write, but because they lack correct and systematic methods. At this time, parents need to use correct methods to guide them. When the correct method is used, children will not only become more self-disciplined, but also love learning more and more, and parents will become more and more worry-free. On the contrary, when using the wrong method, the child will become more and more frustrated and even more resistant to homework. Therefore, it is especially important for parents to master the correct method. If at this time your child is not interested in studying, is struggling with homework, and has no obvious results from tutoring classes, I suggest you guide your child in the right way. Only in this way can you truly help your child. Only when children master the correct method will they feel that learning is effortless.