Summer vacation is the golden period for children to develop good habits, and good habits will benefit them for life.

Summer vacation is a golden period for cultivating children\’s good habits. After being at home for so long, what should you urge your children to do? What good habits can be developed quickly during the summer vacation, and what habits need to be corrected in time? Children\’s emotional intelligence training + explosive learning ability + the power of good habits + thinking ability training series of parenting courses [Audio + PDF + Materials] [01] Children who are independent and have the habit of doing things by themselves will have no problems wherever they go. Such children will exude a unique personality charm in the future. Whether in thought or action, you have your own judgment and can do your own things in life without relying on others. We should continue to cultivate the habit of children doing their own things. That way, when it\’s time to let go, you won\’t be too worried and your child won\’t be filled with fear. [02] The habit of finishing today’s things today. Many adults have procrastination and do things in a hurry until the last minute. That is because they lack the habit of “finishing today’s things today”. We need to cultivate children\’s awareness of \”doing everything sooner rather than later\”. This will give you plenty of time to deal with possible emergencies and develop a calm mind. For example, let your children finish their homework before playing, and try not to postpone the day\’s affairs until the next day. [03] When it comes to the habit of participating in housework, don’t always think that your children are still young and can’t do any work. Letting children do housework to the best of their ability is mainly to cultivate children\’s sense of family responsibility and let them understand that they are a member of the family and have the obligation to help share some things with the family. It is also very beneficial for children to develop the habit of doing housework when they grow up and build a new family. 【04】The habit of reading must be to encourage children to read a lot. There is no need to limit children to reading classics. Start with the children’s interests. As long as the children develop reading habits, they can calm down and read books. At the same time, parents’ precepts and deeds are also very important. We can often accompany our children to read. A well-read and well-informed child has endless potential. 【05】Have regular living habits. Regular living is one of the factors of good health. Reversing morning and evening, having irregular meal times, and staying up all night to play are all signs of a lack of self-control. Help children develop regular living habits, such as what time to get up, eat breakfast, do homework, read, and go to bed every day. Children who grow up in a regular life will spontaneously make plans for everything and have more endurance. 【06】The habit of listening to others. Parents must first be patient and listen to their children. Listening to your child is the greatest respect for your child. After parents listen to their children, they should also tell their children to listen patiently to others and understand others. Let children learn to respect other people\’s opinions and help others. Children who know how to listen to others and are willing to help others will be very popular in interpersonal communication and have more connections when they grow up. 【07】The habit of introspection Everyone needs to introspect. Through introspection, discovering your own shortcomings and improving them, you will continue to make progress and become perfect day by day. Tell your children that it’s okay to make mistakes, but don’t make them again. The key to requiring children to correct their mistakes is to cultivate the habit of self-reflection and often reflect on their own words and deeds. 【08】Dare to doubtSuccess requires the courage to try. In an uncertain environment, the spirit of adventure is the rarest resource. Encourage children to try, but also encourage children to doubt, ask teachers, classmates, and parents with knowledge and doubts, and cultivate children\’s courage, self-confidence, courage to take responsibility, and the spirit of independent thinking. Questioning is a manifestation of active learning. Children who can ask questions are mostly children with strong learning ability and innovative spirit. 【09】Habits of controlling emotions Don’t think that when children are young, they should cry when they want to cry, laugh when they want to laugh, and lose their temper when they want to lose their temper. In fact, controlling one’s emotions is a lifelong matter. Children should have space to vent their emotions and have the habit of regulating and controlling them. For example, when a child encounters a problem and becomes irritable, telling the child that it is useless to be irritable or lose his temper is useless. It is better to do something else to relax and calm down first, and then go back to solve the problem. [10] The habit of self-study and preview. Previewing in advance is an important way to cultivate children\’s independent learning spirit and improve the efficiency of listening to classes. Preview the teaching materials in advance, search for information independently, study the main points and key points of new knowledge, find difficult problems that can be solved in class, take the initiative in listening to the class, and make the listening to the class targeted. During the summer vacation, you can take your children at home to briefly preview the content of the next semester and cultivate the habit of conscious preview in your children. [11] The habit of doing homework independently. Some parents are afraid that their children will fall behind in learning, so they have implemented \”full monitoring\”. Not only do you watch your children do their homework every day, but you also teach them immediately when they encounter difficulties in learning. In this way, your children\’s academic performance may always be ahead, but their independent learning ability has not been improved. . Parents can stay with their children for a period of time, but they must find a way to withdraw from it. If you don\’t withdraw, the child\’s independence will never be generated. Then he will become more and more distressed and unconscious, and the effect of \”accompanying\” will become smaller and smaller. 【12】Habit of review and induction Review is to digest knowledge, deepen understanding and memory, and achieve the effect of drawing inferences from one instance to other cases. Reviewing means refining and summarizing knowledge and ideas for solving problems. Let the children try to review everything that day every day, summarize it every week, and review it after finishing a chapter. It can not only deepen the impression, but also help form a system. 【13】Exercise habits Parents should encourage their children to exercise more. The more you exercise, the less likely you will get sick. Studying or other things should not be a factor that prevents children from exercising. Parents can take their children to exercise, walk, and go on outings more often. This is not only for the health of the children, but also a good opportunity for the children to broaden their horizons and communicate with others, which has a huge impact on the children\’s lives. [14] The habit of frugality. Everyone’s frugality not only shows personal morality and life ability, but is also closely related to the survival and development of the entire human race. A person should develop the habit of saving from an early age. The essence of saving every penny is to save resources and experience the noble emotions and profound wisdom of human beings. It is a virtue not to waste, spend money that should be spent, and control what should not be spent indiscriminately. 【15】The habit of doing things according to plan. A successful career is inseparable from careful design and unremitting struggle. We allEncourage children to succeed, but tolerate their whims and whims. If when a child makes a request, we gently ask: Where is your plan? Changes begin as children become accustomed to planning before taking action. If we patiently tell the child about his plan and make the plan feasible, then the child will quietly mature. To do big things, start with small things. For example, before going to bed every day, putting the clothes or things you will wear for the next day in order is one of the necessary trainings for children to plan things.