Sun Li highly recommends! \”Miracle Boy\” 5 educational revelations worth pondering for parents

Last weekend, I went to see the movie \”Miracle Boy\”. Although its box office was not as good as \”No Questions\” and \”Mysterious Superstar\”, its reputation was extremely high. Authoritative North American media predicts that \”Wonder Boy\” will become a dark horse at the 2018 Oscars! In China, many actors and directors are promoting this movie. Miriam Yang said she cried almost from beginning to end when watching the movie. Director Pang Haoxiang also praised it as \”a rare good movie this year\”. Sun Li even said on Weibo that she would take her children to watch it a second time. The plot of the movie is actually very simple. It tells the story of Auggie, a boy who was disfigured due to a congenital disease. With the help of his parents and teachers, he went from being ridiculed by his classmates to being accepted and loved by his classmates. However, the views on education and life contained in it are worthy of deep thought by parents and everyone. 1 Loving a child means giving him a sense of security and then ruthlessly letting him go. Auggie was diagnosed with Treacher Collins Syndrome as soon as he was born. This disease caused Auggie\’s entire face to be deformed. The doctor concluded that he would not survive more than three months. Faced with Auggie\’s facial deformity and various complications throughout his body, his mother was extremely grieved. She was just one thesis away from getting a master\’s degree and becoming an illustrator. But for Auggie, she sacrificed her dream and stayed with Auggie. After one operation after another, Auggie was taught all the knowledge before the fifth grade. When Auggie was 10 years old, his mother made a difficult decision: send Auggie to school! Auggie\’s parents had a big fight over this, but his mother was extremely determined. When he met the principal for the first time, Auggie was nervous and scared. It was his mother who grabbed Auggie\’s hand. She knew that Auggie must be allowed to face the world alone. . However, when the family officially sent their children to school on the first day, many people cried. When she saw Auggie being stared at by his classmates with strange eyes, her mother wanted to stay with Auggie, but she couldn\’t, so she had to hug her father and beg God. After returning home, my mother had to face another hard day of waiting. \”Are Auggie\’s classmates nice to him?\” \”Can Auggie face everyone\’s strange eyes?\” Mother\’s love is a difficult and graceful exit. For the sake of the child\’s growth, those around him who love him the most will not let go of him cruelly, but turn away and cry at the same time. The same goes for Auggie\’s father. He loves Auggie so much. He has played games, played sports, and told jokes to his children with Auggie since he was a child. They are like brothers. When Auggie\’s mother decided to let Auggie go to school, his father was extremely worried. He, who was usually good-tempered, couldn\’t help yelling at his mother: \”You are just letting Auggie be slaughtered by others!\” But when Auggie actually went to school, He cruelly took off Auggie\’s helmet and hid it in his office. True love is to give your children a sense of security when they need you, and to let them go when they need to grow. Parents who know how to let go are really brave, because they give more affection. 2 The way to make children confident is to accept them unconditionally. Just as Auggie’s father expected, Auggie was laughed at by his classmates on the first day of school: “He looks as ugly as a monster in “Star Wars”” “You should learn from the Jedi in “Star Wars” The pigtails are really ugly and outdated!” During lunch, all the students were chatting and laughing while eating, but Auggie was alone.people. During the physical education class, all the male students in the class threw balls at Auggie, while the female students in the class whispered behind their backs: \”Whoever makes friends with this \’monster\’ Auggie will be infected.\” Angry and embarrassed Auggie returned home gloomily, rushed into his sister\’s room and cut off the braids that had been in place for ten years. Then he hid his head in his helmet and refused to eat or speak. Faced with this situation, what should parents do? Auggie\’s mother said to Auggie: \”You are not ugly. I am your mother and I know you best.\” \”Everyone has marks on their face. Every operation you performed left a wrinkle on my face, but The face is just a map of the past, but the heart is the map of the future.\” Auggie\’s father said to Auggie: \”Maybe you hate your face, but I like it very much, because this is my son\’s face.\” These two scenes in the movie I believe many people cried when they saw it. How many people hope that their parents can love and affirm them as much as Auggie\’s parents. Auggie, who was initially flustered by the ridicule, healed his pain in an instant. In the eyes of his parents, he saw the most real version of himself that was fully accepted. He began to stop feeling like a monster and accepted that he was a special child. It didn\’t take long for Auggie to make his first friend, Jack, with his confidence, kindness, and intelligence. Compared with material satisfaction and attentive companionship, heartfelt acceptance can always transform a person at critical moments. The way for children to accept themselves and become confident is for their parents to accept them unconditionally. 3. Only when a father loves his mother, can the mother love the whole family. Most of the laughs in \”Miracle Boy\” are taken by the father, because his \”cowardly\” fear of his wife in the movie is very cute. For example, he would whisper to Auggie: \”If someone bullies you in school, you can fight him back.\” After Auggie beat the senior classmate who bullied him, he would quietly say to his son, \”Well done.\” If When the child asks him why he speaks so quietly, he will naturally say \”I\’m afraid of your mother.\” Seeing these scenes, many people laughed, but at the same time they were moved inside. In fact, Auggie\’s father is not afraid of his mother, but respects and cares about her. He knew that caring for and educating a special child like Auggie was countless times more tiring than ordinary children. What\’s even more valuable is that Auggie\’s father not only respects his mother in attitude, but also supports her in action, fulfilling the responsibilities of a father. He would send his son to school when he was free; give his son manly encouragement; play games with his son and his friends; fill in the spot in time when Auggie\’s mother forgot to ask her daughter \”how was your first day at school\”;…all He has never been absent from the children\’s important occasions. It is precisely because his father often accompanies Auggie that when he is with his friends, Auggie will be as optimistic and humorous as his father. When Jack asked Auggie why he didn\’t have plastic surgery, he flipped up his hair coolly and said, \”I have had plastic surgery. I worked hard to be so handsome!\” 4 After having the second child, don\’t ignore the eldest son Auggie. There is an older sister, Via. From the moment Auggie was born, Via fell in love with her lovely brother. On his first day of school, she would encourage him and say, \”You are born to be different from others.\”Different, destined not to be lost in the crowd. \”When his younger brother was \”betrayed\” by a friend, he would comfort him by saying: \”Not everything happens because of you, and the world does not always revolve around you. \”But Via is actually a little jealous of her younger brother and resentful of her parents. In their family, Auggie is the sun, and the whole family is asteroids revolving around Auggie, and she is the most inconspicuous one. The first day of school , Auggie was laughed at by her classmates, and Via\’s best friend suddenly alienated her, but her parents\’ hearts were with Auggie, and no one asked her \”how was her first day of school.\” Many second-child families have a Such \”sensible\” children who don\’t let their parents worry about them, in fact, they have been longing for their parents\’ love. I once heard a story about a mother of two children who wanted to hold a full-moon party, so she called all her relatives and friends in advance. Remind them to bring two gifts. One of the friends forgot and only brought one gift. Just when the friend was about to give the gift to the baby, she immediately interrupted and said: \”Oh, boss, this is for you.\” Yes, this aunt forgot to buy a gift for her little brother. \”Every child should be the sun in the family galaxy and should receive the same attention and care. 5 When faced with the choice between right and kind, please choose kindness. Ogi can be accepted and loved by his classmates and cannot do without the guidance of the teacher. Mr. Brown, the head teacher, has long seen what happened to Auggie in school and was anxious in his heart. He planned to guide the children with mottos. He wrote this sentence on the gang: \”When faced with the choice between right and kind When the time comes, choose kindness. \”It was because of this sentence that Summer was no longer afraid of the rumor that \”being close to the \’monster\’ Auggie will lead to infection\”, and extended a hand of friendship to Auggie. It was only after Summer\’s reminder that Jack realized that Auggie had misunderstood Jack was just afraid of offending the rich second-generation Julian (the leader of the campus clique, who took the lead in bullying Auggie), so he deliberately said bad things about Auggie in front of his classmates. In fact, Jack liked Auggie\’s humor, confidence, intelligence and kindness very much. Finally, Jack remembered the motto on the blackboard. Maybe it is \”right\” to give in to power, but he must choose \”kindness.\” He beat Julian and won back Auggie\’s friendship. The most touching thing is that for this matter , the principal did not fire Jack, but said: \”Everything has two sides, I know the reason for your fight. Friendship is worth protecting, protect your kindness and pay tribute to you. \”When Jack held Auggie in his arms against the sunset by the river at the summer camp, I couldn\’t help crying again. Because when faced with choices, adults are always accustomed to choosing \”right\”, and only children will choose \”kindness\” The thinker Havel once said: \”We insist on something, not because it will be effective, but because we firmly believe that doing so is good.\” \”The soul hiding in the bedroom yearns for the blue sky most, and the face hidden in the helmet longs to be seen. Every \”Auggie\” hopes to be treated gently by the world, and the parents behind every \”Auggie\” hope that teachers and classmates Be kind to their children. “When faced with the choice between being right and being kind, choose kindness. \”This sentence is not only what teachers say to children, but also what the original author of the movie hopes parents will teach their children.reason. If you can, be kind because everyone is struggling with life. In real life, our children may not have such bad congenital problems, but when our children are growing up, do our parents have a correct view of education? Does the child have a good peer relationship environment? Such various conditions determine whether the child is in a healthy state of mind and body.