Taking her 5-year-old son into the women\’s restroom, the young girl subconsciously said something, and the mother cursed: What should I be afraid of if the restroom has a door?

A few days ago, I took my daughter to the mall to play. She needed to use the bathroom, so I rushed her to the bathroom in a hurry. As a result, I heard an argument before I even entered the door. It turned out that a little boy of about 5 or 6 years old was brought into the women\’s toilet by his mother. The little boy seemed to be preparing to open the door of the stall. The girl inside had just pulled up her pants when she was startled by the little boy standing in front of her. The young girl subconsciously reminded her: You are a boy and cannot enter the women\’s restroom. Unexpectedly, the girl\’s reasonable and normal words were heard by the mother in the other cubicle, and she immediately cursed: \”Which woman is talking about my son? What should I be afraid of when the toilet has a door? He is still a child, so he can What did you see…\” Seeing the mother\’s troubles, the young girl didn\’t want to say anything more, so she turned and left. After the girl left, the boy\’s mother was still cursing. This quality was really shocking. 01 It’s a helpless move for a mother to take a boy into the women’s restroom. In fact, there has been a long-standing controversy about the topic of “mother taking a boy into the women’s restroom”. Some people say no. From a rational point of view, it is common sense that girls go to the women\’s restroom and boys go to the men\’s restroom. Some people say yes, but from a practical point of view, mothers who are raising their children alone have no choice but to take their children into the women\’s restroom. On the one hand, boys aged 2 or 3 cannot go to the toilet independently, and on the other hand, they are afraid that the child will get lost. In fact, I think most women can understand when a 3- or 4-year-old boy is taken into the women\’s restroom by his mother. But I really don’t agree with the comments of some boys’ mothers. What do you mean: What’s so good about you? What are you afraid of if there is a door blocking you? What do children know… To be honest, the women\’s restroom is for women. If a mother brings a boy into the women\’s restroom, she should at least be apologetic and embarrassed, so that female friends can be tolerant and tolerant of the matter. Although it is unreasonable for a little boy to enter the women\’s restroom, most people do not care about the difficulty of an old mother raising a child alone. I have a friend Yuanyuan who has a 3-year-old boy at home. Her friend works 996, and she really can’t be with her every time the child goes out to play. Yuanyuan once brought her son into the women\’s bathroom. The little boy was very active and kept knocking on the door of the stall. Yuanyuan discovered her son\’s behavior. She first apologized to everyone, and then patiently said to her son: \”You are a boy. There are differences between men and women. Boys cannot enter the women\’s bathroom. Because you are too young, your mother is worried that you will get lost, so she has no choice but to do so.\” I just brought you into the women\’s bathroom. This is already causing trouble to the aunts. You shouldn\’t move around. You should wait for mom at the sink. \”Look, if mom takes the boy into the women\’s bathroom, if others question it, or If your child behaves inappropriately, you should say sorry to them. The child is still young and please forgive me. Everyone can understand each other and the matter will be over. 02 Why do many people dislike \”mother taking a boy into the women\’s bathroom\” and \”mother taking a boy into the women\’s bathroom\”? Why does this cause controversy among many people? The trigger was not the boy entering the women\’s restroom, but if the boy\’s mother spoke kindly and said a few nice words, everyone would understand each other. It\’s not right for a boy to go to the women\’s restroom, but he still has the guts to quarrel with others? Make boys feel like going to the women\’s restroom is natural? The main reason is that you still curse people when you are being unreasonable. Isn’t that offensive? We are mothers too, and we have never objected to little boys entering the women’s restroom to save them.Urgent, but we also need to trouble mothers to take good care of their sons, okay? Going to the toilet is like a gangster patrolling the streets, either breaking in or picking at the cracks in the door. In fact, what many people dislike is uncivilized behavior. When a mother takes a boy into the women\’s bathroom, try to tell others about her difficulties and say more polite words, and they will usually understand. Many times, it is the attitude that some boys’ mothers take for granted that deepens the resentment of others. Many people also use the theory of \”what can children understand\” to accuse others, so I have to ask, would you let your father take your daughter into the men\’s bathroom? Definitely not! As for someone who wants to ask, after what age a little boy can’t enter the women’s restroom, to be honest, there is really no specific rule on this. However, those of us who have children know that after the children enter kindergarten at the age of 3, the teachers will teach the children that boys and girls should go to the men\’s and women\’s toilets separately. Teachers will also teach children how to use the toilet independently. My daughter, who is 3 and a half years old, attends kindergarten. She cannot take off or lift her pants by herself, and she often pees on her pants. In just half a semester, under the slow guidance of the kindergarten teacher, she was able to take off and pull up her pants smoothly, and she no longer needed help from the teacher when going to the toilet. In my opinion, mothers of boys can start training their children to use the toilet independently when they are 4 or 5 years old, so that they can slowly learn to go to the men\’s toilet alone. It’s impossible for a boy who is 6 or 7 years old to follow his mother to the women’s restroom. This is outrageous! When a child learns to go to the toilet independently, there will always be a process where the child will feel uncomfortable even if he wets his pants. Take your time and your child will eventually learn. Whether it is because of differences between men and women or for privacy reasons, mothers of boys should consciously train their children to use the toilet independently as early as possible.