Teachers won’t explain the “hidden rules” in primary school, but parents shouldn’t pretend not to know.

There are many \”unspoken rules\” in elementary schools that teachers will not state explicitly, but as parents, we must understand them. 1. Communicate properly with teachers. Some parents leave their children to school and ignore them. They don’t meet with the teacher until the parent-teacher meeting. Children’s growth requires parents and schools to cooperate with each other. We cannot be the hands-off shopkeepers and take everything away. The responsibility falls on the teacher. Some parents go to the other extreme and want to contact the teacher every day to ask about their children\’s situation, down to the smallest details. To compare with others, a teacher has to take care of dozens of classmates, how can he only pay attention to your child all day long? Therefore, we must communicate with teachers appropriately. If we want to chat with the teacher alone, it is best to make an appointment with the teacher in advance, at the teacher’s convenience. Don\’t stop the teacher to talk to your children when you pick them up from school. 2. Don’t be overly aggressive with others. Some parents like to talk about “who do you look at and how they do it?” When their children hear these negative comments every day, do you think they will be happy? Can you still be positive? If you envy others for their good English, that is the result of others insisting on hearing about it every day. If you envy others who jump rope a lot, that\’s because they jump rope every day. If you envy others who study well, that is the result of them developing good habits. Wherever you spend your time, there will be results. Maybe others are envious of your child for reading so much and knowing so much! Every child has his own shining points and growth rhythm, as long as he makes progress compared with himself. 3. Active participation in group activities does not mean that as long as you study well, you can turn a deaf ear to what is happening outside the window. After all, children will enter the society in the future, and it is also important to learn to communicate and cooperate with others. The group activities organized by the school are a good opportunity to cultivate children\’s social skills. We should encourage children to actively participate, but do not force them. 4. Teach children to respect teachers. A good teacher-student relationship is crucial to children\’s learning and growth. You can have doubts about what the teacher says and does, and you can have your own ideas, but you must respect the teacher in attitude. 5. Achievements are not everything. We cannot only focus on children’s academic performance, mental health, living ability, and interpersonal communication. These are equally important. Every child has their own strengths. Some children are just not good at learning. Don’t think that your child’s poor performance is hopeless. 6. Don’t follow the trend in interest classes. Interest classes are not just necessary, but the icing on the cake. It is recommended that only one or two interest classes be reserved for children who are talented or really like them. After all, during the exam, the teacher will not listen to you singing or playing the piano, but will only look at your test results.