Tell your children: The rest of your life is expensive, please stay away from people who are poor.

Wilde once said: \”When I was young, I thought money was the most important thing in the world, but now I know it is true.\” Yes, in the adult world, without money, you have no right to choose life; without money , there is no confidence and sense of security; no money, and sometimes even no chance to survive. But child, have you ever known that there is something more terrifying than poverty in this world, and that is poverty at heart. Material lack can be compensated with money, but if the heart is poor, it is doomed to a life of desolation. People who are poor believe that \”I am weak and I am justified.\” Last year, Ms. Huang’s BMW in Binjiang, Hangzhou, was hit by a courier’s electric car. He was playing with his mobile phone at the time and broke the left headlight of Ms. Huang\’s car. The repair cost was more than 10,000 yuan. Although the traffic police determined that the courier was mainly responsible, they also advised Ms. Huang that it was not easy for the courier to make money and let him pay less. Ms. Huang also agreed and agreed to only pay 4,000 yuan in compensation. But when the time for compensation was agreed upon, what Ms. Huang waited for was not an apology from the courier, but a direct accusation: \”You are so rich, and you are not short of this little money, why do you have to make compensation from me!\” Look at poor people, Always regard poverty as one\’s own confidence. He clearly made a mistake, but not only did he not have the courage to admit it, but he also used \”I am weak and I am justified\” as a shield to refuse to take responsibility. There are not many poor people in this world. It\’s just that some people are poor for a while, and some people are poor for a lifetime. Being poor is not scary, what is scary is being poor at heart. Not only do poor people have no idea of ​​changing the status quo, they even think that I am poor and weak, so people all over the world have to let me go. Even if I make a mistake, those who are stronger than me cannot punish me. Children, if there is such a person around you, please remember to stay away. People who are poor always refuse to grow. Such a person will either infect you with his negative energy, causing you to gradually lose your fighting spirit and become just like him; or, relying on his poverty and weakness, he will desperately take advantage of you and keep asking for things from you. Stay away from such people, this is not worship of money and utilitarianism. You have to know that in this world, as long as you have ambition and ability, no matter how poor you are, there is still room for change. But if you are poor, you will only blame society and others for your failures, and never blame yourself. Think about the reason. Such people are destined to be poor all their lives. Poor people are extremely selfish. Children, do you still remember that shocking news? In May this year, a Russian flight suddenly caught fire, killing 41 people and leaving only 37 survivors. In fact, the 41 people who died had a great chance of escaping. After the plane caught fire, the crew immediately organized an emergency evacuation of the passengers. While everyone was busy running for their lives, an uncle blocked the way of the people behind him and calmly took his luggage from the luggage rack. After the uncle took his luggage and escaped, the fire spread and the plane exploded. After him, only three people escaped. After the incident, the uncle not only showed no guilt, but actually asked the airline: \”I have been waiting for 40 minutes, why haven\’t I refunded the ticket?\” He had never thought about the unjust souls of those who died in vain at the end of their lives. How scary was that moment? Never thought about it,How painful are those who have lost their loved ones? Are there few such people? Children, do you still remember the \”poison nanny\” case that happened in Guangdong last year? The female nanny He Tiandai poisoned and killed her 70-year-old employer. She also confessed that she had committed 10 crimes in a similar manner within a year and a half. It turns out that He Tiandai believes that once someone hires her, if she works for less than a month and the old person dies, the employer must give her a full month\’s salary. So, she poisoned one employer after another for one reason: to get one month\’s salary. You see, this is the logic of poor people: \”If this world cannot satisfy me, then let this world die.\” What\’s the difference between such a person and a baby who just stomps on the ground and gets mad when he can\’t get a toy? Children, if there is such a person around you, remember to stay away. They are only self-centered and extremely selfish. They never take others into consideration. When they trouble others, they act confidently; when they hurt others, it is even more natural. Children, don’t think that you can influence such a person with kindness. It’s just like the story of “The Farmer and the Snake”. For a stupid and selfish person, no matter how much kindness you give him, what you will get is not gratitude, but gratitude. It is repaying kindness with hatred. Such people are destined to betray their relatives and alienate them. People who are poor at heart are extremely arrogant and extremely inferior. A recent variety show about 1V1 blind dates became a hot topic because of a strange man. When the male guest saw the girl, he came up and started asking questions like \”household check-style\”. One moment he asked, \”Did you pass the public examination?\” and the next moment he pursued the girl\’s academic qualifications. It started to rain during the walk, and the girl suggested going to a Japanese restaurant for dinner. The male guest invited the staff to eat with her. The reason was that the staff also had to eat at work, so why not pay the bill together? During the meal, he plausibly explained why he refused to spend more money on blind dates. The reason was that \”too many girls are attracted to me.\” He thinks that his conditions are very good. He is a graduate of a key university and a civil servant. His appearance is not bad, so he is very popular in the dating market. But after a while, he said that the girl he was dating now was too beautiful and she might not like him. If you treat yourself to such expensive Japanese food, wouldn’t it be a big loss if it doesn’t work? Look, an image of both arrogance and low self-esteem appears on the page. Just imagine, if this girl is really with him, what kind of life will she live for the rest of her life? Unfortunately, such men are not uncommon in life. I once saw a post where a man named Liu wrote an article to complain about his wife. The reason is that his wife often doesn\’t get off work until eight or nine in the evening, so the housework naturally falls on Mr. Liu. Mr. Liu is used to being lazy and often does not clean his home. He is too lazy to take out a bag of garbage from morning to night. As time went by, it was inevitable that there would be conflicts between husband and wife, especially Mr. Liu, who was full of complaints. Someone asked under the post: \”How much do you earn in a month? How much does your wife earn in a month?\” Mr. Liu replied calmly: \”I earn more than 2,000, and she earns more than 10,000.\” Netizens criticized him, but he said : \”Isn\’t a woman who earns over 10,000 yuan a month also a woman? Isn\’t it a woman\’s job to do housework? Besides, if I had to choose, I would rather choose a woman who earns 1,000 yuan to get married.You can still listen to me. \”You see, when you are with a poor person, he uses your money and asks you to do housework; he doesn\’t ask for progress and hopes that you won\’t make progress. Even if you are a hundred times better than him, he can still use his full wealth. Male superiority looks down on you. Allard said this in the article \”Inferiority and Transcendence\”: \”Behind every seemingly superior performance, there is a feeling of inferiority hidden. \”Marriage was originally a long confession of love between you and me, but when you marry a poor man, marriage becomes a competition. If he is better than you, he will look down on you; if you are better than him, he will also take care of you. You pull him down to a lower position than him, and then look down on you. No matter how deep the relationship between husband and wife is, it will disappear in the unnecessary competition. Such people are destined to not be able to support a marriage. The rest of life is very expensive, remember to leave Poor people. I still remember this question on Zhihu: “What do poor people lack? \”One of the high praise replies: Lack of broad-mindedness, lack of long-term vision, lack of ambition in the bones, and lack of interest in life. People who are poor have no courage to change the status quo, no ability to support a marriage, and even lack a sense of gratitude and kindness. Such a person is not even worthy of being a human being. He can destroy other people\’s lives just for a small profit. Children, poverty in life is not terrible. As long as you are rich at heart, poverty can often become a motivation for people to make progress. If you are poor, no matter how much money you give them, it will not change their life. Life is very expensive, please remember to leave those who are poor, let alone become a poor person. No matter what situation we are in in life , in good times or in bad times, we must always have a good heart, keep growing, and keep making progress. Only when you don’t blame others for your difficulties can you have the ability to not be afraid of wind and waves. May you have light in your eyes for the rest of your life. , inner richness.