The 10 most famous stories of mothers educating their children in Chinese history

Mother, this word is always great! Today’s mothers are feeling this great happiness and the difficulty behind it. In history, there are many stories of great mothers. Why can they be remembered for centuries? Today, Doudehui will take you to take a look at 10 outstanding mothers in Chinese history. Take a look at their stories. Is there anything worth learning from them? How to raise children who can appreciate the sense of responsibility and mission 20G[mp4+mp3] The most virtuous mother – Tao\’s mother Zhan (Tao Kan\’s mother) Tao Kan\’s mother Zhan was a famous good mother in ancient China mother. She was known for her ability to teach her children and her generosity towards others. Tao Kan was an orphan when he was young, and his family was poor. Tao\’s mother worked hard to make a living by spinning and weaving linen, and supported Tao Kan in his studies. Allusions such as Tao\’s mother \”cutting off the banquet guests\” and \”closing the altar and withdrawing the fish\” are widely spread, and everyone respects her as a \”virtuous mother\”. When Tao Kan was young, it snowed heavily, and Tao Kan\’s friend Xiaolian Fan Kui from Poyang came to visit. Tao Kan was very anxious because his family was poor and he was worried that he would neglect his friends by not entertaining them. His mother saw this and comforted him, saying, just keep the guests, I will try to entertain your friends. She cut off the long hair on her head and replaced it with food and wine; she \”cut the pillars of the house\” for firewood; she also rolled up the hay spread on the bed, cut it into fine pieces, and fed Fan Kui\’s horse. When Fan Kui learned about it later, he said with emotion: \”Only a mother like this can educate a talent like Tao Kan!\” His mother\’s virtue of \”treating people like a banquet guest\” was deeply engraved in Tao Kan\’s heart. After Tao Kan became an official, he always maintained a style of treating others that was \”respectful and courteous\” and \”welcoming guests who were far away and never stopped at home\”. The allusion of \”closing the altar and withdrawing the fish\” is that Tao Kan once worked as a county official in Haiyang, Zhejiang, supervising the fishery, and his subordinates often gave him things. Once, a subordinate gave Tao Kan a jar of pickled fish. The filial Tao Kan immediately thought of his loving mother who had lived in poverty in the countryside all his life, and asked the villagers to bring it to his mother. Unexpectedly, my mother returned the jar of fish bream intact and wrote in the letter: \”You are an official now. Giving me official gifts will not only fail to make me happy, but will also increase my worries.\” Tao Kan was shocked and felt extremely guilty when he received the return letter and the reply from his mother. This incident gave Tao Kan a great education and laid the foundation for Tao Kan\’s integrity as an official later. Tao Kan was a man of great learning, upright, impartial and law-abiding. He became a chief official, a lieutenant, a governor general, and a governor of Changsha, becoming a model for ancient Chinese scholars and officials. And all of this is inseparable from Tao Mu\’s education. Later generations praised: \”If a mother like Zhan can teach her son, why should the country suffer from having no talents to use? And why should the world use evil for evil?\” The mother who understood her son best – Oumu Zheng (Ouyang Xiu’s mother) Ouyang Xiu’s mother, Zheng, had only studied for a few days, but she was a persevering, knowledgeable and willing to endure hardship. Ouyang Xiu\’s father died when he was 4 years old, and his mother worked hard to raise him alone. Ouyang Xiu\’s father had been a local official. After his death, his family gradually became poor, and the life of orphans and widowers was very difficult. When Ouyang Xiu was five years old, his mother taught him how to read, read, and behave. It’s just that my family was poor at the time and had no money to buy pens, inks, paper and inkstones. Ou’s motherHe had to use reed poles instead, spread some sand on the ground, use the ground as paper, and teach Ouyang Xiu to write stroke by stroke. This is the \”Hua Di Godson\” that has been passed down as a legend. Zheng often used Ou\’s father\’s achievements as an official to warn Ouyang Xiu that he must be honest and dedicated to the public and be willing to help others. When Ouyang Xiu was an official, he actively supported Fan Zhongyan in maintaining the new law, and was later demoted for this. But Ou\’s mother did not complain about her son\’s poor career, but comforted her son and said: \”You were demoted for justice, which cannot be said to be disgraceful. Our family is used to living a poor life. As long as you are not burdened in your mind and your spirit is not weak, I\’m happy.\” With a mother like this, how can a son not be great? The wisest mother – Empress Xiaozhuang Wen (Mother of Shunzhi) Empress Xiaozhuang Wen, surnamed Borjijit, was the daughter of Beile Zhaisang of the Horqin tribe in Mongolia. She was born in February of the 41st year of Wanli in the Ming Dynasty, thirteen When she was young, she was escorted to Shengjing by her brother Wu Keshan and married to Huang Taiji. After Huang Taiji led his troops into the pass, he started the Qing Dynasty, and Empress Xiaozhuangwen also began her wise life. He successively supported and assisted his son and grandson, namely Emperor Shunzhi and Emperor Kangxi. After the death of Huang Taiji, the 6-year-old little emperor Fulin ascended the throne. In order to protect her son and keep his throne, Empress Xiaozhuangwen did not hesitate to marry the regent Dorgon, who held military power. She also taught Fulin how to understand Bear the humiliation and bear the burden. After Shunzhi\’s death, the 8-year-old little emperor Xuan Ye came to the throne. In order to protect her grandson, Empress Xiaozhuang Wen tried her best to mediate with the four ministers Sony, Suk Saha, E Bilong and Ao Bai. Teach Xuan Ye how to endure humiliation and bear heavy burdens. As a single mother, Empress Xiaozhuangwen was worthy of being the wisest mother. She can be credited with half of the credit for opening up the prosperous age of the Qing Dynasty. The most patriotic mother – mother-in-law (Yue Fei\’s mother) Everyone has heard the story of mother-in-law\’s tattoo since she was a child. Yue Fei was diligent and studious when he was young, and developed good martial arts skills. At the age of 19, he joined the army to fight against the Liao Dynasty. Soon after his father died, he retired from the army and returned to his hometown to observe filial piety. In 1126, the Jin army invaded the Central Plains. Yue Fei was persuaded by his mother to join the army again and began his military career against the Jin army. Before leaving, his mother tattooed the four words \”Serve the country with loyalty\” on his back. Later, we all knew Yue Fei\’s achievements. He was the most capable military strategist in the Song Dynasty. The most loving mother – Deng Yingchao (Li Peng\’s adoptive mother) Zhou Enlai and Deng Yingchao are a pair of professional revolutionaries with special views on marriage and love. During her more than 70 years of revolutionary career, she has devoted herself unreservedly to the cause of Chinese revolution, construction and reform. own everything. She is an outstanding representative of Chinese women in the 20th century and the pride of Chinese women. She enjoys a high reputation at home and abroad and is deeply respected and loved by the entire Party and people across the country. Throughout their lives, especially during the difficult period of the New Democratic Revolution, their farewells were as common as three meals a day. This commonplace contained many intriguing implications of life, arousing people\’s beautiful reveries and heartfelt sighs. . She and Zhou Enlai never had any children. However, they adopted and took care of many children of the Chinese Communist revolutionary martyrs, including artist Sun Weishi and Li Peng, who later served as Prime Minister of the State Council. The most knowledgeable mother——Meng Mu (Mengzi’s mother) It is said that when Mencius was a child, his father died, and his mother, the Jin family, kept the tradition. The place where he lived was very close to the cemetery, so Mencius learned some things about funerals and crying bitterly. The mother thought: \”This place is not suitable for children to live in.\” and left. Mencius moved his family to the street, close to the place where pigs and sheep were killed, and Mencius learned some things about business and slaughter. The mother thought again: \”This place is still not suitable for children to live.\” She moved her family next to the academy. On the first day of every month in the lunar calendar, officials entered the Confucian Temple, bowed and bowed, and bowed before advancing or retreating. Mencius remembered everything when he saw it. Mother Meng thought: \”This is the place where the child should live.\” So she settled down here. This story of Mencius’ mother moving three times has been passed down to this day. When Mencius skipped school when he was young, his mother cut the threads on the loom and said to him: \”If you don\’t study hard, you will be like these broken threads and you will not be able to make cloth.\” Mencius studied diligently from then on and eventually became a famous scholar. Meng\’s mother did not use sticks to force her son to practice etiquette, nor did she scold and slander her son who must study hard and establish a career. Instead, she tried to \”train\” Mencius. Another single mother, Meng\’s mother\’s clever methods of raising her children are not outdated at all from today\’s perspective. The strongest mother – Zhe Taijun (mother of Yang family general) Zhe Taijun (misnamed She Taijun), named Saihua, was from Datong, Xijing. Zhe Taijun guarded Fuzhou with his father Zhe De (Hu Yi) since he was a child. He was good at riding and shooting, and was married to Yang Ye, a famous general in the Northern Han Dynasty. Taijun Zhe was intelligent by nature, proficient in bow and horse martial arts, and knew the art of war well. He assisted Yang Ye and made many military exploits. He was an official in Yunzhou as an observer, and was known as Yang Wudi. Later, during the campaign against Liao, Pan Mei took command and Yang Ye served as the vanguard. Unexpectedly, Pan Renmei harbored personal grudges and harbored evil intentions, forcing the army to be alone and in danger. They were all trapped, and Yang Ye was captured and died without eating for three days. After Yang Ye died for the country, Taijun Zhe assisted his eldest son Yang Yanzhao to make meritorious service in the fight against the Liao Dynasty. From Yang Xin, the father of Yang Ye, to Yang Wenguang, his grandson, four generations of the Yang family fought on the battlefield, bravely killed enemies and sacrificed their lives for the country. They can be called \”a family of loyal martyrs\”. Zhe Taijun was the mainstay of the Yang family. Although there are no more records about Taijun Zhe in official history, the image of Taijun Zhe as a heroine who is well versed in military art, has been on the battlefield for a long time, is loyal and patriotic, has the overall situation in mind, and understands righteousness is deeply imprinted in the minds of the people. . Her heroic deeds of commanding the generals of the Yang family to heroically kill the enemy have reached a level that is well known to everyone, young and old. The most respectable mother – Xu Mu (Xu Shu\’s mother) In order to make Xu Shu surrender to him, Cao Cao, on Cheng Yu\’s suggestion, rather invited Xu Shu\’s mother to Xuchang. Then, Cheng Yu used a forged letter to deceive Xu Shu into Xuchang, where he met his mother. Xu\’s mother scolded: \”My son has been wandering around the world for several years. I thought you have made progress in your studies, but why are you not as good as before! Since you are studying, you must know that loyalty and filial piety cannot be both. Don\’t you know that Cao Cao is a thief who deceives the emperor and ignores his superiors? Liu Xuande is benevolent and righteous. In the four seas, there is also a Han Dynasty. You have done something and you have found its owner. Now, with a piece of forged paper and no detailed inspection, you abandon the light and turn to the dark, bringing a bad name to yourself. You are really a fool! What face do I have with you? See you! You have insulted your ancestors and were born in the sky between heaven and earth!\” Xu\’s mother finished scolding her son., turned behind the screen and went away. After a while, the family reported: \”The old woman hanged herself in the beams.\” Later, Xu Shu felt sorry for his mother. Although he was always in Cao\’s camp, he never offered advice, so there was \” The allusion of \”I am in Cao\’s camp but my heart is in Han\”. The least understood mother – Mi Yue (mother of King Qin Zhaoxiang) Mi Yue, also known as Mi Bazi and Queen Mother Qin Xuan. During the Warring States Period, the Queen Mother of the King of Qin, the concubine of King Qin Huiwen, and the mother of King Qin Zhaoxiang. When King Zhaoxiang of Qin came to the throne, Queen Mother Xuan took charge of the government as the Queen Mother. During her reign, she attacked Yiqu State and eliminated Qin\’s western troubles in one fell swoop. Later, Mi Yue was mostly viewed as a power controller who interfered with politics, but in fact, as a mother, Mi Yue is worth talking about. As for Gong Ziji, he had been at odds with his mother Mi Yue since he was a child and could not receive her mother\’s tiger mother-style discipline. However, Mi Yue knew that she was only the eighth son (titled, that is, concubine). In the Qin Dynasty, there were the queen and Prince Yingdang and King Qin Huiwen were suspicious by nature and didn\’t like people doing anything behind their backs, so they always warned their son not to compete for the throne. Later, Mi Yue\’s mother and son were sent to Beiyan, a bitter and cold place, as hostages. During this period, one person took care of and taught his son Ying Ji. It was through this process that his son Ying Ji also learned to endure humiliation and bear heavy burdens. After he ascended the throne, , who had been suppressed by Mi Yue, also helped him grow rapidly, and finally gained real power, deposing the Queen Mother and expelling Wei Ran (his uncle). Of course, during Mi Yue\’s reign, she was indeed dazzled by the taste of power, but as a mother, Mi Yue ultimately failed to make her son understand her. The most domineering mother (Wu Zetian) As the first and only female emperor in Chinese history, no one would object to saying that Wu Zetian was the most domineering mother. In many film and television dramas, Wu Zetian came to power partly because her children were murdered one after another, and she climbed to the top of power step by step in order to avenge her children. In the first year of Tianshou (690), Wu Zetian announced that she would change the name of Tang Dynasty to Zhou Dynasty, establish herself as emperor, and designate Luoyang as the capital, calling it the \”Shen Capital\”, and establish the Wu-Zhou Dynasty. When Wu Zetian was in power, she had many powers and strategies and was able to employ people, so there were many talented people. He also rewarded farmers and mulberry trees, reformed the administration of officials, and paid attention to the selection of talents. In the first year of Shenlong (705), when Wu Zetian was seriously ill, Prime Minister Zhang Jianzhi launched a mutiny and supported the restoration of Tang Zhongzong, forcing him to abdicate. There are more than ten virtuous mothers in Chinese history, including Taijiang – the mother of Zhou Gongji; Taiyi – the mother of King Wen of Zhou; Taisi – the mother of King Wu and Duke of Zhou; Yan Zheng – the mother of Confucius etc.; too many to count. They not only raise children, but also use their own virtues to teach their children how to be a good person, so that they can become people with noble moral character and be praised forever.