The 4-year-old son asked with tears on his face: Do mom and dad really want a divorce?

\”Mom, where are you going?\” My four-year-old son jumped from the bed to the ground and grabbed my clothes. \”Do you want to divorce your father?\” he asked immediately. I stopped going to the kitchen to make breakfast, turned around, and carried my son, who had a frightened face and tears on his cheeks, back to bed. I gently stroked the tears on his face with my right hand and comforted him: \”No! Mom is going to the kitchen to make breakfast for you!\” \”Then you had such a fierce argument with Dad just now. I thought you didn\’t want us anymore. Are you going to divorce your father?\” It seems that the dispute between my husband and I just now really scared my son. I leaned down and kissed his forehead, \”Baby, don\’t worry, mommy won\’t divorce daddy, mommy won\’t leave you and daddy!\” The son was no longer so frightened, but he still seemed a little worried: \”Then Why did you have such a big quarrel with Dad just now?\” I simply sat down and gently held his two small hands with my two big hands. I further explained to him and gave him an explanation, \”It\’s not that Mom hates Dad and wants to divorce him. It\’s just that sometimes some of dad\’s behaviors make mom very angry, and he doesn\’t obey when mom talks to him properly, so mom can\’t help but quarrel with him.\” The son\’s face gradually improved and relaxed. I took advantage of the situation and pushed forward, \”Have you noticed that sometimes when my mother is more aggressive, my father will do the housework obediently, so that my mother will not have to work too hard from doing more housework and age faster!\” My son understood this time, The worries just now were completely blown away by my mother\’s warm words. \”Son, mommy promises you: mommy will try not to quarrel with daddy in the future, but if she quarrels, you don\’t have to worry about mommy divorcing daddy. This is just a trick mommy uses to make your daddy more diligent. You can do your job with peace of mind. Things will be fine. Remember?\” I gave my son a sly wink, and my son happily returned my sly wink. \”Okay, you can get dressed. Mom is going to prepare breakfast!\” I gave my son a warm hug and walked out of the bedroom. It was hard for me to calm down while standing on the balcony cooking: I didn’t expect that the argument my husband and I had just had, or the frank admission that it was an argument, would so deeply hurt that young and fragile heart, that fear, that worry, that sadness. , oh, I really went too far! Am I considered your biological mother? Is this what my mother can bear to do? Further reflection: What I did to my husband just now was too much. How could I be a goddess? She was just a crazy woman! Am I almost as good as the vixen? How could I do this! Isn’t my husband just not as diligent as I require? It’s not a principled mistake! Besides, it can be seen from my husband\’s anger just now that he is also very aggrieved. Maybe my request is a bit too much! Despite multitasking, the quality of breakfast was not affected. Okay, the meal is on the table. I took a deep breath, made a face to relax my facial nerves, and prepared to use my actions to apologize to my father and son: \”Husband, son, it\’s time to eat!\” My husband came over with a look like My voice just now was also unnatural, but fortunately, he still gave me face, haha! The son saw that his parents had reconciled and the family of three sat down to eat together again. He was in a great mood and looked very happy. The golden morning sun shines through the transparent glassThe glass window filled the dining table, and my heart was filled with brightness. This is the life I want to live! This was four years ago. Later, fortunately, my husband and I quarreled less and less. Not only did we learn to care for our young and sensitive hearts, we also learned to understand the partner with whom we entered the marriage. Zhang Ailing said: \”Because I understand, I am compassionate.\” Fortunately, it’s not too late for us to understand! Every father and mother, you love your children. I have no doubt that you want to give your children the best gift in the world. I just want to remind you: Do you understand what your children want most? Yes, the music is playing and the child is singing: \”If you love me, hug me, if you love me, kiss me\”, but if you only hug and kiss him and never hug or kiss his father or mother, , TA still probably won’t really feel happy. Therefore, the best gift a father can give his child is a mother who loves him deeply, and the best gift a mother can give her child is a father who loves him deeply. Of course, it is difficult for an upright official to deal with household matters. If you have no choice but to leave his or her father or mother, please at least do not slander his or her father or mother in front of him or her. I once read an article that said: True prosperity is when parents love each other. This sentence has been accepted as truth by me. It would be the saddest thing for a child if both husband and wife curse and tear each other maliciously, but do not care at all about the pitiful eyes hiding timidly in the corner. They would not have thought: \”The harm of a person\’s native family far exceeds the pressure and shackles caused by poverty, poor grades, lovelorn, unemployment and other hardships.\” How can the native land of a family full of wounds grow healthy and strong? young crops? Therefore, for children, their requests are simpler and their dreams are humbler. They just want to tell you loudly – \”If you love me, don\’t quarrel!\” The happiest home in the world is when dad loves mom and mom loves you. dad. Dear reader, if you love your children, you should first love your partner and the person who enters the marriage hall with you. This is the happiest thing in the eyes of children. Bai Shijun encourages you to love your significant other even more from today on.