The 6-year-old nephew is shockingly skinny! After going to the hospital to find out the truth, the cousin was scolded by the doctor

I went to my cousin\’s house for dinner some time ago. Before I went, I bought some toys and a bunch of food for my eldest nephew Lele. As soon as we arrived at my cousin\’s house, the toys were taken apart by my eldest nephew Lele. Lele saw the toys he liked and played with them happily. He didn\’t notice the snacks I brought at all. Originally, I wanted to give Lele snacks and play with them while eating. Unexpectedly, my cousin stopped me from doing this and hid the snacks instead. I\’m curious, why doesn\’t my cousin let Lele eat snacks? Is it just that they are afraid that snacks are junk food and will eating them be bad for Lele? So I asked my cousin: \”Why don\’t you let Lele eat snacks? The snacks I bought are all delicious and regular snacks, not junk food.\” Unexpectedly, my cousin answered me and said: \”You don\’t know, Lele has a problem. He never eats well. He is usually very well-behaved. He gets into all kinds of tantrums when eating. Now he is 6 years old. My neighbor’s 3 or 4-year-old baby is chubby. Every time I see other children’s chubby babies, I blame myself for not taking good care of the baby.” After hearing what my cousin said, I took a closer look and realized that it was really like this. Although Lele is a 6-year-old child, she is really too thin compared with other people of the same age. Not an exaggeration! It feels like children from poor families in India who are malnourished or have no food to eat. To be honest, I know that Lele is my cousin\’s heart and soul. In order to take care of Lele\’s life, my cousin quit her job and takes care of the children at home wholeheartedly. But when I see that the focus of my life is all on my family, but still seem to be unable to meet my ideal expectations, especially when I fail to take care of my child, I will have a lot of complicated emotions. At that time, I thought twice and told my cousin that it would be better to take Lele to the hospital for a check-up. Maybe it was because of some gastrointestinal problems or lack of trace elements that caused Lele to become like this. After hearing this, my cousin felt that there was currently no other good way to change the situation, so she had to give it a try. So I immediately said to Lele, who was still playing with toys happily: \”Baby, mommy will take you to the hospital to check your health tomorrow?\” Maybe it\’s because Lele is too sensitive to hospitals and thinks it\’s safe to go to the hospital. It\’s no good, I don\’t agree with anything. After persuading him for a long time, Lele refused to agree. In the end, he could only \”tempt\” him with toys and delicious food, and Lele reluctantly agreed to follow his cousin to the hospital. The next day, I went to the pediatrician and asked an expert to examine Lele. After all the examinations, I discovered that there was nothing wrong with Lele\’s body. So why is Lele so skinny? Later, after careful questioning, I realized that it turned out that my cousin was using the wrong intention, being too \”attentive\” and not grasping the essentials. Because of this, the doctor shamelessly scolded my cousin, but he could only swallow his anger. This is indeed your own problem. Because Lele had many problems and had a bad temper during meals, her cousin could only obey Lele\’s wishes every time and did not dare to make strict demands on Lele, let alone any \”three-part agreement\”. Eating while watching TV, eating while playing with toys, chasing after children… these picturesIt happens every day, and sometimes it even takes 3 hours to finish a meal. The doctor finally told my cousin with sincere words that at the age of 5 or 6, children have no awareness of the importance of eating and are easily attracted to external things while eating. Therefore, it is necessary to create a good atmosphere for children to eat. This includes not letting children watch TV while eating, or playing while eating, etc. We should let children develop the habit of eating well. Only in this way can the child\’s attitude towards eating be changed. Only when the child eats seriously can food be promoted to the greatest extent. The digestion and absorption of food have fundamentally changed Lele’s current situation of losing weight. After hearing what the doctor said, my cousin realized her problem. From then on, she no longer allowed Lele to play and eat while eating, and made a \”three-part agreement\” with Lele: As long as Lele eats seriously when eating, then after eating You can play to your heart’s content. After working hard like this for about two weeks, Lele\’s temper tantrums gradually disappeared, and she ate quietly and conscientiously every time. Gradually, Lele gained more and more flesh, and was no longer as thin as before. At this time, her mother finally showed a long-lost smile… In fact, Lele is just one of the many people who \”do not eat for a long time\” Lele\’s problem is just one of the children who eat \”meat\”. Looking at many examples, you will find that many mothers try their best to make their children eat well and grow up healthily. Measuring meals may seem very scientific, but in fact there are many misunderstandings. Even though the meal is eaten, the child is still so thin and not tall. In fact, feeding is not as simple as making children full. In fact, it will also affect the healthy growth of children, and it includes both physical and psychological healthy growth. If the child does not develop a good habit of eating independently, it will not only be hard for the mother, but also affect the way the child interacts and communicates with other children in the future growth process. So how should mothers feed their children so that they can eat well and at the same time help his mental health and growth? Don\’t watch TV or play while feeding. In order to distract the children and make them less resistant to eating, some mothers will show cartoons to their children while feeding them. The food is eaten, but it is only passed through the mouth. It is not eaten in the stomach at all, and the nutrients do not enter the body. According to medical analysis, the digestion and absorption of food is a very complex physiological process. During the eating process, we must chew slowly and taste carefully so that our stomach can secrete gastric acid well and the intestines can secrete various kinds of food well. Digestive juices allow the nutrients in food to be fully absorbed. When children are playing or watching TV, they don’t pay any attention to eating, so why don’t they eat but not grow at all? Don\’t use coercion or inducement. In order to get their children to eat, mothers say all they can to say good things and never say bad things, and they show off their various martial arts skills! A gentle mother will say: \”The rice is delicious! The baby eats it well!\” \”If you eat this mouthful of rice, I will buy you a doll.\” A strict mother will say: \”If you don\’t eat, the big bad wolf will come. Bite you!\”If you don\’t eat it, mom won\’t want you anymore.\” \”The mother is the most important person to the child. It is said that the mother is the best teacher of the child. What the mother says is very influential to the baby. It is recommended that you only talk about food-related things when eating, and nothing else. Rewards and punishments are factors that should not be added. In this way, the child\’s attention is not on eating, but on the gift that the mother said. If it is given to the child, the child will mistakenly think that as long as I don\’t eat next time, the mother will agree to give me a gift. , and if you don’t send it, no matter how you coax it next time, it will not be credible; in addition, if the mother scares the baby with a serious attitude, it will be very damaging to the child’s mental health, and many children will be worried As long as I don\’t do well, my mother will not want me. Over time, I will form a psychological state of being unconfident and insecure. Can the baby still grow up healthily? Let nature take its course. Eat when you are hungry and don\’t eat when you are not. Children have their own judgment. He has a sense of when he is hungry and when he is full. Mothers have read a lot of books for scientific parenting and listened to many experts’ advice, so they begin to make their baby’s eating plan according to their own opinions. This will actually lead to When the baby is not hungry, you have to force her to eat. If she is hungry and it is not at the meal time, the mother will give it to the baby again when she cries, and she will not be able to eat until the next meal time. So, it is usually best not to let the baby eat in such a situation. When the child sees eating, let the child experience hunger and take the initiative to eat. Mothers put aside the so-called plans and cultivate the good habit of independent eating in their children!