The awakening of a student who failed the college entrance examination: My dream was taken away by my mobile phone

A small mobile phone often hides the philosophy of parenthood and the future of a child. This year’s high school and college entrance examinations are over, and it’s heartbreaking for children who delay their studies because of playing with mobile phones. I can\’t seem to let it go at all. Just thinking about this score makes me sad. I failed the college entrance examination by dozens of points. I played with my phone every day instead of studying. If I didn’t repeat the exam, who would have repeated it? If I had avoided playing with my phone for a few months, maybe my grades would have been better. Unfortunately, there was no such thing as… I once saw a middle school student’s daily routine on a real weekend. They are addicted to mobile phones without knowing it, and always like to make excuses for themselves: 8:00 – Open your eyes, scroll through Weibo, WeChat, and Moments in bed to see what news was last night, and added a few likes , after seeing this, I got up and went to study. 14:00 – Taking a nap. The movie was so good that I couldn’t stop watching it. I watched it right away. What to do if you feel a little sleepy? Take a nap first, set three alarm clocks, and then sleep for half an hour. 18:30——Brushing questions, it’s still growing all night long, the day has been wasted, I have to make full use of now. If you don’t know how to solve this question, search it online on your mobile phone. My favorite celebrity\’s Weibo has been updated. Congratulations to her for being named the Goddess Harvester! 21:00——Take a break. I’m so tired. I’ll take a break after playing two games. A complete set of videos and PDFs on primary school essay writing skills for improving scores. Day after day, only when they see the disastrous results with their own eyes will they realize: being addicted to mobile phones will pay a higher price than they imagined! Stop saying that mobile phones can help learning! Stop playing with your phone when you should be studying! Stop letting your kids play with their phones! In reality, for the vast majority of students, mobile phones can help study, but it is often an excuse. There are only a few students with strong self-discipline and a clear bottom line: \”Mobile phones are just tools and cannot be controlled by them.\” For such students, mobile phones may be helpful to learning to some extent. But the proportion of such students is very low. No one, whether children or parents, can afford the consequences of being addicted to mobile phones. Being addicted to mobile phones is a drug that cannot be quit. A teenager in Tangshan was addicted to mobile games and neglected his studies. Because he refused to obey his father\’s discipline, he immediately wrote a \”guarantee letter\” to sever the relationship between father and son; a child in Jiangning likes to play games, but his grandfather confiscated his mobile phone and ran away from home. , trying to \”scare\” the old man, but he got lost and couldn\’t find his home; an 11-year-old boy in Hangzhou refused to do his homework, and his parents smashed his mobile phone. He jumped from the 12th floor and committed suicide… Similar incidents happened one after another. , more and more children are being abused by mobile phones and games. In the electronic age, every child is faced with the temptation of \”junk happiness\”. Some children go to bed in the morning and stay up all night watching videos at night; some children secretly use their parents\’ money to recharge their money for games, and in the end even pay for it with their lives. In order to enjoy the short-term happiness brought by mobile phones and games, a group of children spent day after day in a daze. They are willing to become captives of fragmented entertainment and allow themselves to be overwhelmed by unbridled sensual enjoyment. Although I gained short-term satisfaction, I lost my self-control and learning ability in this happiness. They are too lazy to think, too lazy to make progress, and let their future be ruined by thisThe happiness is stolen little by little. A survey was launched abroad and 100 children were selected and divided into two groups: 50 children who had no access to mobile phones and 50 children who were obsessed with mobile phones. Then follow them up. Ten years later, the survey results are as follows: only 2 of 50 children who are obsessed with mobile phones have been admitted to college. Almost all of the other 50 children who did not use mobile phones were admitted to college, and only three children chose to help at home after graduating from high school. Of these children who were admitted to college, 16 received full scholarships from the school. The impact of being addicted to mobile phones on children lasts a lifetime. Maybe it won’t take until 10 years for children’s lives to change dramatically. How does playing with mobile phones affect performance? So, how much impact does playing with mobile phones have on learning? How does it destroy concentration and affect performance? 1. Influence on brain development. Playing with mobile phones may have adverse effects on the brain. Playing with mobile phones without moving for a long time will produce fixed stimulation to the brain, which will put the human brain in a state of fatigue for a long time. Over time, it will affect people’s memory and cognition. Intellectual ability has a certain impact. 2. Destruction of concentration, inability to concentrate for a long time, and lack of in-depth and lasting understanding and thinking about a certain issue. This seems to have become a \”common problem\” among modern people controlled by mobile phones, and the state of \”focus\” is becoming increasingly rare. The satisfaction brought by mobile phones is too easy to obtain, and once you get used to this \”easy-to-get\” satisfaction, you will no longer want to do those \”high investment\” things. For example, completing homework and thinking about problems with a high degree of self-discipline. When answering the question \”What is the most important thing in a person\’s life?\”, Buffett said, my answer is focus, and Bill Gates\’s answer is the same as mine. For a student, the key to whether he or she can develop the abilities required for the high school entrance examination or college entrance examination lies in the strength of concentration rather than low-level time investment. It is difficult for students who are addicted to mobile phones to think continuously and deeply about their studies; without in-depth thinking, just dabbling in content is not conducive to mastering difficult content. 3. Taking up valuable time. Luo Zhenyu said in his 2018 New Year\’s Eve speech: The King of Glory produced by game giants can make people excited in ten minutes, while the chicken-fighting game needs to have an exciting point in three minutes, and even more. Pursue one point of excitement every minute. To put it bluntly, as long as you sit in front of the game, you won\’t be able to get off it at all, even if you want to. If you get off, it\’s the failure of the person who made the game. And who is smarter, you or the game makers? They are a public relations team, you are just minors, how can you possibly compete with them? Others are studying hard after class, but you are looking for every opportunity to find ways to stay up late and play with your phone; others are listening intently in class, but you are thinking wildly and dozing off; others are resting or preparing for preview after class, but you are excitedly following them. When people in the same profession talk about upgrading to fight monsters, their hands are itchy and their hearts are unbearable. Who can get good grades, needless to say? 4. Destruction of relationships with people around them. Once a child loves to play with mobile phones, parents will be afraid and worried, get angry in anger, or interfere directly, pull out network cables, smash mobile phones, argue and scold them; or look for solutions everywhere, and cry secretly when they think about it. , take care of your children’s futureThe teacher was angry that he didn\’t fight, and after repeated persuasion was useless, he simply let it go. Students under pressure, no matter how much fun they get on their mobile phones, will immediately feel extremely stressed once they face reality. This is the living condition of most children who are addicted to mobile phones. The conflict between ideals and reality, and the conflict between their own wishes and their parents and teachers, puts them in a disharmonious relationship. It is impossible to be happy from the heart, and it is impossible to make real progress in a high-pressure environment where you are forced to study. In these few words, parents must tell their children that students who are addicted to mobile phones will undoubtedly destroy their future. It is recommended that parents must tell their children these few words: The first sentence: children! When you want to play with your mobile phone, you first need to think about whether you can get into high school/university with your current grades? As we all know, junior high school will face the fate-changing high school entrance examination and college entrance examination. You can look at the students around you who have failed over the years. A large part of the reason is because they are addicted to games. A class teacher with more than 20 years of experience once sternly warned these junior high school students who are addicted to mobile phones and do not study: games take away your knowledge, games take away your study time, and games take away the most precious youth in your life. , the game takes away your admission notice, leaving you with nothing left! The high school entrance examination is not a game for you to play. If you fail, you can start over. You only have one chance to study. If you don\’t work hard in junior high school, you will be sad in the high school entrance examination! If you don’t work hard in high school, then the college entrance examination will be even more sad! Second sentence: Children, there will always be mobile games, but the exam only gives you one chance. Where will you go if you fail to get into the ideal school? The third sentence: You should understand that it is your parents and knowledge that can make you survive, not games. It is impossible for your parents to support you for a lifetime. In this world, only sunshine and air are free and can be obtained for free. Everything else requires your ability to obtain it, not your mobile phone! Your parents can support you before you reach adulthood, but they cannot treat you as a \”giant baby\” and support you for your whole life. Therefore, your parents\’ greatest hope and responsibility is to train you to gain the ability to survive! This ability comes from studying, achieving self-reliance in learning, then going to college, getting a bachelor\’s degree as a stepping stone to finding a job, becoming self-reliant in work, and finally being able to achieve self-reliance in life after leaving your parents. The fourth sentence: Students who are weak in subjects must quickly check and fill in the gaps to make up for the lack of knowledge in each subject. Poor grades indicate that there are many loopholes and gaps in knowledge in each subject, so they must hurry up and seize the time. Make up for it, otherwise it will accumulate more and more and it will be difficult to get back! You will become less and less able to learn the more difficult knowledge later, because the knowledge in each subject is closely connected, and the knowledge you learn later needs to use the previous concepts, formulas and laws. If this knowledge is blank in your mind, what can you do? Maybe you can understand the teacher\’s lecture? Finally, I would like to remind all parents: To prevent children from being addicted to mobile phones during holidays, rules must be established. Instead of waiting until the child becomes addicted and then using violent means to stop it, it is better to make a three-part agreement with the child at home during the holidays. Specify the time and content for fun on mobile phones, and in the event of violations, there must be punitive measures. Before, I saw a mother doing something very worthwhile.Gotta learn from it. She stipulates that for every hour her children play with their mobile phones, they must practice calligraphy for one hour. The child agreed in order to play with the phone for a while, but after a long time, he found it a bit too much. No matter how hard he tries to cheat and practice calligraphy, this mother doesn\’t agree. Over time, children also consciously reduce the time they spend playing with mobile phones. The purpose of the three-chapter agreement is actually to return the right to choose and the right to know the consequences to the children, so that they understand that if they break the rules, they will have to bear the price. How do middle school students stop being addicted to mobile phones? Even during the summer vacation, you should focus on studying. The following eight suggestions are recommended for children: 1. Turn off the new message reminders on WeChat and QQ when studying. Believe me, most of the instant messages on WeChat and QQ are chatting or do not require immediate reply. information. If someone really comes to you with something important, they will definitely call you or contact you through the teacher! 2. Turn on the message do not disturb function of the group. Many people have various groups. Some groups are very active, with constant messages every day, and rich people send red envelopes from time to time. Constantly checking group messages and grabbing red envelopes of a few cents will seriously affect our concentration in study. Therefore, I suggest you: streamline the groups you own, exit the groups that are just meaningless chats, and open messages in the surviving groups so as not to disturb them. You can directly close WeChat or QQ during study time. 3. Cancel the photo update reminder for Moments. Many people open WeChat and see the little red dot for updates in Moments. They can’t help but click on it to check it out, for fear of missing something important and not keeping up with their friends. But when you get used to not looking at Moments, you will find: In fact, what you miss are all irrelevant news. Eye contact between people, sharing daily joy face to face, are no more important than likes in Moments. Can it enhance feelings? 4. Reduce the frequency of updating Moments and restrain yourself from posting to Moments to ask for likes. Happiness is a real feeling in life. You can share your joys, sorrows and joys directly with the people around you. You don\’t need to deliberately \”show off\” to gain a sense of existence, nor do you need to rely on other people\’s approval to gain self-satisfaction. 5. Uninstall most (or even all) mobile games and entertainment apps 6. Clean up e-books on your phone 7. Turn on the Do Not Disturb function on your phone when you need to focus. When you need to focus on studying, it is recommended that you disconnect yourself from the Internet. , the do not disturb function should also be turned on on the mobile phone (several important calls can be whitelisted) 8. Do not touch the mobile phone when getting up early and before going to bed. Going to bed and waking up in the morning are the times when our mobile phone dependence is most likely to develop, so Here I would like to remind everyone: during these two periods, don’t play with your mobile phone, don’t play with your mobile phone, don’t play with your mobile phone! ! ! We can cultivate the habit of reading for a while before going to bed. It is recommended that everyone take a good rest during the rest time to get high-quality sleep. A small mobile phone often hides the philosophy of parenthood and the future of a child. Summer vacation is here. I hope more parents can put down their mobile phones, throw away their iPads, forget about electronic products, and take their children for walks, travels, and read books. The children will observe insects, birdsong, grass dew, and perceive mountains, seas, and clouds in nature. , the beauty of fog, expand your horizons and mind in the book. Children who have been irrigated by nature, infiltrated by humanities, and influenced by books since childhood have endless interests and a big world in their hearts. How can they be addicted to mobile phones and other electronic products? Only by sincerely accompanying children and taking the initiative to care for and get close to them can children gain true happiness under the protection of love and forget the \”beauty\” brought by the virtual world.