The best family education experience is these 6 methods

\”Can you accept that your child will be an ordinary person in the future?\” Zhu Yongxin, member of the Standing Committee of the National Committee of the Chinese People\’s Political Consultative Conference and deputy secretary-general and vice chairman of the Central Committee for Democracy, once asked his friend! Parents, what is your answer? Family Education Instructor Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother Chinese version e-book + English version pdf + mobi + azw3 After the implementation of the \”double reduction\” policy, the burden on students has been reduced, but many parents who are used to \”chicken babies\” are at a loss. Always in a very anxious situation! Regarding these anxieties, Zhu Yongxin believes: \”Some of the anxieties of parents may sometimes be caused by themselves. Parents may have fewer worries by enjoying their children\’s growth, paying attention to their needs, and respecting their interests!\” Zhu Yongxin once said to parents, \”You First place in the Chinese language test, first place in my sports scores, first place in his math, someone first place in football, and someone first place in paper-cutting… Wouldn\’t it be great for everyone to be first? Why everyone We all have to compete for the only score, \’first place\’?\” After the \”double deduction\”, how can every child become \”first place\”, and how can parents give their children better family education? How to get rid of anxiety and quarrels, let love and wisdom go hand in hand, and cultivate happy and complete children? Adulthood is more important than success. Happiness is more important than success. Let’s learn from Teacher Zhu Yongxin’s views on parenting! The best family education is to give children these six kinds of happiness in childhood! The happiness of reading \”You may have unlimited wealth, boxes of jewelry and cabinets of gold. But you will never be richer than me. I have a mother who reads to me.\” Reading allows children to have a rich spiritual life An important source of education, the cultivation of reading ability, reading interest, and reading habits starts from the family. The initial reading was parent-child reading, with parents reading to their children. Because the children could not read, they started reading more from pictures. Children first learn about the world through pictures. Children\’s books not only have a valuable role in edification, but also have a healing effect. There are corresponding books for whatever problems children want to solve. After reading them, they are more useful than 10,000 words of lessons. The most important thing is that once children develop the habit of reading, they will actively look for books to read in the future. Accompanying happy parents and children eat together, talk together, communicate and learn all the time. If parents are talking about politics, their children may become interested in politics in the future; if their parents are complaining, their children may be in a mood to complain. Many parents think that there is no point in talking to their children. In fact, even if the children do not understand what their parents say today, they will become an important part of their brains. What\’s more, companionship and living together will determine whether the entire family has a shared destiny. A father is a well-known local entrepreneur who is very busy and has no time to spend with his children. After the children entered elementary school, the teachers of the new education experiment asked parents to read with their children, not only the mother but also the father. This father read 184 books with his children in 5 years. He said he didn\’t feel it at first, but after reading for a month, he found that reading was much more interesting than drinking, so he actively refused to socialize and read with his children. He said: \”In the past five years, my children have gone to elementary school and I have gone to college.\” LaterHe talks about everything with his children, and the medium is books. No matter how busy parents are, they should find ways to spend time with their children, even if time is tight, even if it\’s just a pretense. When we get home, many parents play games and watch TV. This is normal, but if you want your children to walk better, you must restrain your behavior. The Happiness of Good Habits Mr. Ye Shengtao once said that education is about cultivating habits. The success of education depends on whether good habits are formed. Sports are not about how high you jump, how fast you run, or how well you play ball. It is about whether you have developed good fitness habits. The new education reform has an action called One Thing Every Month, where children are asked to do one thing every month to develop good habits. For example, learn to eat this month. There are many habits to cultivate when eating, not only etiquette but also many things related to habits. For example, when you learn to walk, walking also has habits. Of course, there are many normative things behind habits. When we say not to run a red light, it means that we must abide by the rules. Obeying the rules is a habit. Psychological research has found that developing a good habit requires continuous training for 21 consecutive days, and families must help children develop good living habits. How to Be a Wise Parent and How to Carry out Family Education Complete Collection 51 Lessons MP3 Download to Achieve Self-Happiness We want all children to become heroes, and the only possibility is to help them and let them become themselves. Family and school should be a place to help children discover themselves and achieve themselves. Give children as much space, stage and opportunities as possible, so that it is possible for children to become themselves. As a parent, you must not expect all children to be the same, and all children to be the same. Helping children build self-confidence and helping children find themselves is the most important thing. Parents always have the urge to help their children, but they can\’t stand it and worry about it. They often like to do everything for their children and help their children take care of everything. However, children always have to face the world independently. Children do what they want to do by themselves, which not only cultivates their ability to do things, but more importantly, allows them to learn to enjoy the process of doing things, and cultivates their concentration and other important qualities. The secret of a happy and respected childhood is far from being discovered. We know that in the long history of mankind, children have never been treated as human beings! Even today, many of us still do not treat children as human beings! It was after the Renaissance that children were truly discovered and treated as human beings. People began to respect children and respect human status. Especially since the United Nations\’ \”Children\’s Charter\” stipulates that we must respect children and love them. But, with the Children’s Charter, do we really treat children as children? It seems not! Not to mention treating him as an independent person. I think we don\’t know enough about children. We must consciously realize: respect childhood. Childhood itself is a most magical stage. With respect for children\’s current lives and respect for children themselves as human beings, many of our education methods will naturally change. Therefore, to a certain extent, education is a kind of belief. The establishment of some basic concepts, a basic understanding of children, or a correct view of children is a starting point for our education.This is also the starting point of our entire family education. Believed to be happy parents, don’t easily compare your children with other people’s children, let alone compare your children’s shortcomings with other people’s strengths. Believe that your child is a unique work of art. Every child is different, and parents should be good at discovering the shining points of their children and helping them become the best versions of themselves. Appreciation leads to success, complaining leads to failure. If you want your children to be successful, then cherish every opportunity for your children to grow, appreciate their growth, and appreciate their words and deeds; if you want your children to be unsuccessful, then complain and blame them. A child\’s potential is always greater than what has been achieved. Modern scientific research has long proven that human potential is huge. Let us have unlimited faith in the potential of children’s development! These 6 kinds of happiness harvested in childhood will become the happiness and luck of the child\’s life! In addition to giving children these six kinds of happiness, what other family education guidelines should parents know? Zhu Yongxin also said these words to his parents. Every parent should take a careful look! 1. Many parents think that their job is to make sure their children are well fed, clothed and healthy, and that education is the school’s job. In fact, no matter where the children are, they are always inseparable from their parents\’ influence and education, including every word they say at the dinner table, the children will remember it in their hearts. 2. For a long time, we have regarded growth as a matter for children, but it is not. Growth is something that parents and children share, and it is a problem that parents and children must face together. Without the growth of parents, there will never be the growth of children. 3. In the dictionary of adults, mistakes always belong to children. Because they are the standard. Adults can judge, criticize, or even abuse children at will. In fact, it is often the adults who make mistakes, the parents of the children, and it is difficult for children to defend themselves and complain. 4. Many parents are self-centered, but they meet their own needs in the name of love instead of truly thinking from the long-term perspective of their children. Entering into the heart of a child, paying attention to the child\’s true growth, helping the child, and meeting the child\’s needs is true love! 5. Among the factors that affect lifelong development, scores are not the most important. What restricts one is moral character, the happiness of being a human being, and being popular and respected. Paying too much attention to children\’s learning and paying little attention to their moral character is worrying. Such educational concepts and methods are worrying. 6. Mr. Ye Shengtao said that education is about cultivating habits. The success of education depends on whether good habits are formed. Sports are not about how high you jump, how fast you run, or how well you play ball. It is about whether you have developed good fitness habits. Is Sun Luhong’s course worth buying? Download the full set of his family education lecture videos 7. There is nothing wrong with hoping that your children will become successful, what parent doesn’t? But the problem is the standards. We parents always use the standard of scores. In fact, this direction is wrong. The child should be allowed to be himself. Only by becoming himself can he live a happy life and realize his potential.