A principal saw his daughter crying because she was criticized and said something to her: My child, have you ever seen a knife sharpened? The knife that was sharpened by the whetstone must have hurt, but it didn\’t cry. Because it knows that only through such tempering can it become a good knife. My mother just had a phone call with the teacher. She said that today\’s criticism is equivalent to sharpening a knife, which means you will be sharpened repeatedly. Because I believe you can do better, you will be stricter. On the road to education, parents and teachers are the ones who care most about their children and wish them well the most. Parents and teachers are the guardians of children as they grow up, and they are also indispensable educators. As educators who stand on the same front, if we cannot be responsible for the future of our children and cannot stand shoulder to shoulder and be heart to heart, who can we trust? Only when parents do not protect their shortcomings can education be powerful. A child was punished by the teacher for being late, but the parent said: Mind your own business. A child was detained by the teacher because he did not listen to class, but the parent said: It is taking up my time. Teachers can ignore their children, but parents cannot give up on their children. In the process of educating children, the parents should not be pampered, and the children should not be pampered. There is a saying that goes well: There is no greenhouse outside the campus, and there is no child\’s play when you grow up. No matter now, the outside world will punish those lawless children sooner or later. Children must be educated as early as possible, must be strictly controlled, must be punished, and cannot blindly give in to children in the name of love. Students will have a future only if the teacher does not tolerate them. There is an old saying: \”Anyone who is kind and fearful has a correct mind and body, has rules for speaking, and has stopped correcting. Occasionally, he violates the rules and cannot make a big deal.\” Many children think that the teacher is a \”bad person\”, and the teacher also agrees. . Because only when children have a sense of awe can they revere the classroom, revere knowledge, and revere the future. No one wants to be a bad person, but in education, for the sake of children, teachers are willing to be such a \”bad person\”. Teachers cannot be too kind or gentle to children, because the background of education is never one of absolute laissez-faire and happiness. The essence of education is the formation of good habits and the eradication of bad habits. The popular happy education now is leading children astray. There must be an element of pain in education. Education without punishment at all is not real education. It is dignity to be a teacher, and teaching and educating people is a bounden duty. Negligence is inevitable. Sorry, we can\’t satisfy all parents. Although teachers are not omnipotent, they must have ideals and enthusiasm for educating children, and do their best for all students. Although children are the children of their parents, they are also the students of their teachers. Being responsible for students is a teacher\’s responsibility, a teacher\’s morality, and a personal morality. Therefore, parents should not complain when their children are detained in class; parents should not shirk when they need to contact parents to solve their children\’s problems. Our starting point and end goal for our children are always the same. Teachers are actually very simple, so simple that they just want their children to have a good future. On the road to professionalism, teachers never forget to work hard. Teachers are not the \”king of children\”, let alone the \”iron rice bowl\”. Nowadays, society\’s requirements for teachers are becoming more and more strict. Teacher qualification certification is strictly conducted one year at a time. This is no longer the age of mixed success and failure. The demands put forward by students, parents and society are becoming more and moreCome more and more, prompting teachers to continue to grow and make progress. The peaceful years before becoming a teacher have turned into the turmoil after becoming a teacher. Teachers are around the children 24 hours a day, more than ten hours a day. Why I choose to be a teacher: I just want to use my own meager efforts to reclaim the barren wasteland, apply the fertilizer of knowledge, water the sweet spring of wisdom, and make the trees addicted and prosperous. Becoming an excellent teacher is the wish of all teachers, and it is also out of a sense of responsibility for educating children. Not embarrassing teachers and not disturbing education is the best support for children. More and more teachers are powerless to discipline children: \”I really want to teach children well, but I dare not manage them!\” \”Treat teachers as students, treat students as ancestors\”, this is the current trend of education Two major disadvantages. \”People\’s Daily\” once commented: \”Teachers dare not criticize students, who is to blame?\” 》Students are like saplings. If they are not pruned and pruned in time, they can easily grow into \”crooked-necked trees\”. If the son does not teach, it is the father\’s fault; if the teaching is not strict, it is the teacher\’s laziness. In this world, teachers are the ones who should not be harshly criticized, and children are the ones who should not be coddled. Education is a career that helps children achieve success. In any case, it should not turn into a tug-of-war between schools and parents. Being quiet is what education should be like. Teachers are not afraid of working hard for their children, but they are afraid of parents’ lack of understanding and support. Only responsible teachers will take care of their students, and they may even go to war or criticize students earnestly. Teachers are willing to manage, teach, and criticize, all because the children are worthy! However, no matter how good the teacher is, he cannot completely replace parents; no matter how responsible the teacher is, he cannot do without the cooperation of parents. Educationist Suhomlinsky said: \”The effect of school education depends on the consistency with family education.\” Teachers and parents are like two oars. Only by working in the same direction at the same time can children move towards the goal. We sail in the direction we want and reach the other side of success smoothly. Therefore, when disagreements and misunderstandings arise, both teachers and parents should remember: First, do not vent your emotions and communicate gently. Second, we need to face up to the educational environment, and the most important thing is to solve the problem. Third, don’t argue about right or wrong. Prioritize everything that benefits your children. Teachers with farsightedness are a little ruthless, and parents who love their children are ruthless. No parent is really willing to let their children endure hardship, otherwise there would not be so many tragedies of pampering their children. But we cannot protect our children for a lifetime. If we don’t force our children to learn the “72 Changes” now, who will help them withstand the “81 Difficulties” in the future? All far-sighted teachers know that only by being ruthless in managing children can they truly become successful. Far-sighted parents understand that if they force their children now, they will have no regrets in the future. Towering trees cannot grow in a greenhouse, and thousands of troops cannot be trained in an alley. If you are reluctant to let your child endure hardship, don\’t blame him for not living up to expectations. Education requires strict and determined strength, the same throughout the ages. Only when home and school are harmonious can students truly benefit. A senior teacher once said: \”The better the cooperation between parents and the school, the more successful the education will be. I can say very responsibly that if parents do not cooperate with the school, the result will be a tragedy. This is true in my educational experience.\” Without exception.\” Education is a trinity, family education is the root, and school education isEducation is the leaf, and social education is the stem. Only when home and school are harmonious can education proceed more smoothly and students can truly benefit. Excellent parents will not argue with teachers about right or wrong, but excellent teachers will take the initiative to communicate with parents. On the road of education, teachers and parents should be the best partners. Teachers know how to seek help from parents, and parents trust teachers enough. Every time a child makes progress, parents and teachers are working hard behind the scenes to support them.
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