The best time is not when the baby is asleep, but when someone shares your time with you

I felt this way a long time ago. Every time I take my son to play, my wife always has a smile on her face. That smile looks like the peach blossoms are in full bloom in March, so beautiful! Feng Tang said, \”Spring breeze ten miles away is not as good as you.\” He liked this feeling. This is completely different from when I was \”trained\”. Especially when the weather gets hot recently, I take my son to take a bath together. After washing, it would be better to make a cup of milk for the little one and tell him a story. Then I said good night to my son, turned off the lights and put him to sleep. At this time, a woman who has been busy for a day can wash her face well in the bathroom. You can have time to look in the mirror and sort out your little things. You can even apply some skin care products quietly in front of the dressing table. When the son was sleeping soundly in bed, the whole family became quiet. At this time, the two of them were talking and it felt good. And if you meet me when I am busy. My wife has to do countless housework when she comes home, and she also has to do this and that for the baby. Then there is no good scene to be seen. Sometimes I am so tired that I have no time. The two of them were speechless. They were most afraid of too much silence after marriage. Many people say that the best time for a mother is after her baby falls asleep. In fact, this is not the case. Although the child is noisy during the day, he cannot stop for a moment. And the same is true for children who fall asleep. Kicking the quilt, tucking the quilt, kicking the quilt, tucking the quilt again. It takes several twists and turns in a night. Some mothers talk about buying sleeping bags for their children. We have also bought some, but either our children don’t like them or they make us sweat when we wear them. A friend even gave us a sleeping bag that she sewed for her daughter out of towels. In the end, it didn\’t work. My kid is not the master of using this thing at all. Still open and sleep soundly. I guess every mother who sleeps with her has a handful of bitter tears. What makes mothers even more miserable is that fathers don\’t know how to share. Every time I talk about the time when my son was born, I feel ashamed. As a first-time father, I always spend time with my children after get off work. Then it’s time to work overtime and go on business trips. For a while, I didn\’t put my heart on this newborn baby. Later I learned that there was actually another person who needed more care. That is the young mother who is a first-time mother. At that time, I thought she was capable and sensible, could cook, breastfeed, and hold and coax the child. I will just work hard to earn money for milk powder. Years later, she mentioned that she didn’t know how to hold and feed the baby at first. What\’s even more helpless is why the child is crying so loudly. Is it because you feel unwell, are you hungry, or is it due to other reasons? Often when a child cries, the mother is also anxious to cry. Many people think that since a child comes out of the mother\’s belly, the mother should be able to take care of it. But no one is born to be a mother. How much helplessness and pain there will be without anyone to share it with! My wife said, \”When I first gave birth to a child, I felt that the day of delivery was the most painful and painful. Later I learned that raising a child is the most painful and tiring. Especially in the first year after the child is born.\” This is also the feeling of many mothers. With deep respect and love, I understand the difficulty of every mother. In fact, on the road to raising children, the best comrades are not the parents-in-law. But the person who brought the child into this world together. Some people say that the time when a woman is most timid is when no one helps you take care of your children. Someone will tell you when is the most embarrassing time in a marriage? The answer is when there is no one to help take care of the children. But really don’t point the finger at the old man. You must know that children come to you, not to their grandparents or grandparents. You gave birth to your child by yourself, and you have to take care of it no matter how difficult it is. So, when you are ready to have a baby. Parents need to take responsibility and start learning. Don\’t wave your hands and say, Mom will take care of you, don\’t worry. Often old people come. The three views are inconsistent, the habits are different, and the concepts of upbringing are also conflicting. The mother said that the child should eat by himself, but the grandmother said that if the child is young, he will naturally eat it when he grows up, making a fuss out of a molehill. The mother said that the child had to get up on his own, but the grandmother said not to suffer the child, and the little ancestor got up quickly, it was all the fault of the floor. This tense situation makes the atmosphere at home tense all day long. Of course, it is a good thing to have an old man who is willing to learn and accept new knowledge to share the burden. But such old people are rare. What\’s more, the old man himself has his own life, his own ideas, and his own habits. I don’t want to think that I will still wrong myself when I am old. Therefore, the best comrade is the child\’s father, and this is also the responsibility of every father. With a baby, making milk and changing diapers should be a must-have skill for dads. When your children are young, hug them more and play with them more. Tell your children picture book stories and do something out of the ordinary together. Some fathers will say, I don’t understand children. Without company, of course I don’t understand. If you often accompany your child, the child will be able to guess a lot from just a pout. Even if you are busy at work, you should still focus on your children and your family. In this way, it is good to be able to communicate with each other even when we are not around. The reality is that many mothers call their fathers “pig-like teammates.” Fathers are naturally rougher in character and definitely not as careful as mothers. The temperature has changed a lot in the past few days. We were wearing two outfits the day before, and the coat was a little thicker. The next morning, I dressed my son according to the previous day\’s standards without saying a word. As a result, he always said it was hot that day. And I still felt cold even though I had a cold, so I didn’t take it seriously. My wife criticized me when she came back. It\’s almost 20 degrees today. If you put him in two pairs of pants and two pieces of clothing, he won\’t be afraid of getting sick. Don’t even look at the weather forecast. I can only accept the training obediently. Moreover, when fathers take care of their children, they often get hurt. This is where many mothers are dissatisfied. I didn\’t spare the child any injuries either. I remember last month, after my son took a bath, I took a bath towel and hugged him. I was in a good mood that day, so I made big moves and hit the little guy\’s head against the wall. Bang, very scary. My son was crying in pain at that time. I quickly checked the situation and apologized to him. And my wife started to blame me. However, she is generous enough to accept the small mistakes I make occasionally. In fact, which father doesn’t feel sorry for his children? Therefore, we should pay more attention to these \”pig-like teammates\” and give them more opportunities. Dads, please share more. A man who loves his family will not have bad luck and his career will not be bad either. Because you will gain a wife who loves you and a child who loves you.