The biggest generation gap in the world is between those with children and those without children

There are two types of women: one has children, and the other does not have children. There is a galaxy between them and it is difficult to have fun. Never say to a mother: \”Why don\’t you just raise a child~\” \”Raising a child is about the same as raising a pet.\” Trust me, When sister Zhiling heard that she could explode on the spot and gave birth to a child, she realized how difficult it is to raise a child. She goes to bed later than a ghost and wakes up earlier than a chicken. She wakes up 300 times and is coaxed to sleep for 2 hours. She is on duty every day, all year round. I asked you how sad you can be. It’s like you have to take care of a child all day long. Since I had a baby, I am no longer me but a child. I used to have to put on eyeliner when I went out to take out the garbage. Now, let alone putting on make-up or face cream, I worry about being caught. How can the baby eat clothes in his belly to facilitate breastfeeding and how to improve his image? who care~ I couldn’t lift my shoulders before, couldn’t lift my hands without touching Yangchun water with my fingers, and couldn’t even unscrew a water bottle. Now, with my “sick body” with back pain, I can hold my baby with one hand and cook with the other. In the past, as long as I wanted to, I could start from dawn Even if I wake up, I have to stay in bed until the next dawn. Now I enjoy the early morning night every day. I cycle through 1 o\’clock, 2 o\’clock, 3 o\’clock, 4 o\’clock, and 5 o\’clock to coax the baby, feed the baby, and change diapers. The big room is not a chance. The bed ~ I used to like looking up at the sky at a 45-degree angle. I wrote sad words in my diary to compose new words and express my sorrow. Now the diary is filled with children’s daily routine. The aroma of the soul has turned into shit and piss. “How many times did you poop?” How much? What color?\” In the past, my daily life in the circle of friends was selfies, food, and travel. Now I am proficient in P-picture skills. Now all the posts in my circle of friends are babies. The children are my inspirations, muse, burps, and all photo materials. In the past, it was double ten every day. I bought endless lipsticks, shoes, and bags, and my salary was gone in the blink of an eye. Now I only see maternal and child products. I hesitate to buy things for myself, and I don’t even blink when I watch TV dramas. Romantic dramas and idol dramas are calling for various idols. Watch one to change my husband. Now I am chasing cartoons such as Peppa Pig, Qiaohu, and Bald Qiang. Jiazhen, even if she is hopelessly childish, will cooperate with her children and laugh out loud. In the past, every Holidays are all about romantic flowers, gifts, and candlelight dinners. If there is less than one, I lose. Now I go out to watch a movie with my children every day, and I have to finalize the schedule with my family in advance. \”Honey, you go to bed first, I will take care of the baby\” has become the most beautiful love words. After having a child, eating without being disturbed, taking a poop in peace, and taking a bath comfortably have become a luxury. As long as the child falls asleep, I will not be willing to sleep even if I am sleepy to death, because this is the only time that belongs to me and I don’t use anything. No matter what you do, you don’t have to think about it. If raising a baby is so hard, why are you still moving forward? I once saw an answer in a book: In order to participate in the growth of a life, you don’t have to fight for me, you don’t have to carry on my family lineage, and you don’t have to help me take care of my old age. I just want this life to exist and walk around in this beautiful world, giving me the opportunity to walk with him for a while. …The child came naked with a demanding attitude. I couldn\’t refuse or escape. I suddenly became a useful person. I got all his trust and love without doing anything. He only called me in his dreams. He lay quietly on my bed. His arms were so soft, and his little face had the same contours as mine. When he smiled, the corners of his mouth raised the same arc as mine, as if something of me had continued in him. It was the first time that I felt how great life was. More respectI tried hard to overcome my bad temper and grew up with him. The first time I heard him call mom, the first time I watched him walk. The first time I waited for him to trot up to me. The joy it brought me was endless, as if I was following him. I also replayed my childhood. It was children who taught me how to grow and love. They made me become a better adult and gradually made me realize the meaning of life. One day I will say goodbye to this interesting world because I have children and I feel more reluctant to leave. But she is no longer afraid. Song Dandan said to a young mother in the show: \”When I was young, I asked myself every day why I had children. Now I regret why I only had one.\” I sat by the child\’s bed late at night and saw the child sleeping soundly. The smiling face felt that all the hard work was worth it and said softly to him, \”Mom loves you so much.\” The child turned over and I immediately said silently, don\’t wake up! Don\’t wake up! Mom won’t love you anymore when you wake up~