The boy was spanked so badly that his mother screamed, \”It is natural to spank your own child.\”

Please answer me a question honestly first: Have you ever physically punished your child? Recently, a mother was at the forefront of public opinion for beating her son severely. Not only did the severe physical and mental damage she caused to her children make everyone indignant, but her remarks were even more incredible… She said, \”It is natural to beat your own children.\” According to the \”Guangzhou Daily\” report, at about 11 noon on June 5, A security guard at Wanda Community in Houjie, Dongguan met a 4-year-old boy. The boy told the security guard that he was hungry and wanted to eat. The security guard was shocked when he saw the little boy\’s appearance. Not only were his eyes bruised and swollen, but his body was also covered with scars… The boy explained to the security guard that his mother Whenever he is in a bad mood, he will beat himself to vent his anger, and after the beating, he will be locked at home. The reason why he was able to escape this time was because his mother forgot to lock the door. When the owners who lived nearby heard about this, they all took out food and water from home. But not long after, the boy\’s mother came back. As soon as the boy saw his mother coming back, he immediately hid behind the neighbor. When the mother saw this, she loudly rebuked the neighbors who came to help the boy, claiming: \”It is natural for me to beat my own child, and no one can care about it!\” During the dispute with the neighbors, the mother also revealed that the boy weighed 7 pounds when he was born. It was so heavy that she almost died from childbirth. \”If I had known that he would be disobedient, I might as well have strangled him to death. If he disobeyed, he would have been beaten,\” she said. At the insistence of the neighbors, the boy was sent to the hospital. The doctor found that the child had a 3-centimeter-long wound on his head, with pus oozing from the wound. His eyelids were swollen and congested, and his limbs and trunk had multiple wounds. There were old and new scars on the area, and even the genitals were swollen. Later, the boy\’s mother, Xue, was taken away by the police. After investigation, it was found that she was 27 years old and a native of Nanchong, Sichuan. She divorced her husband six months ago and would beat her children severely whenever she was in a bad mood. Currently, the child has been placed in the care of his grandmother. Dongguan Houjie Community Comprehensive Service Center has provided him with psychological counseling. Relevant social agencies and other resources are also contacting him to provide support for the child\’s recovery from injuries. He said, \”Your child is actually not your child.\” What do you think of this mother\’s actions and remarks? The poet Kahlil Gibran once wrote a well-known poem – \”Your children are not actually your children\”, which wrote: Your children are not actually your children. They are children born of life\’s desire for itself. They come to this world through you, but not because of you. They are by your side, but they do not belong to you. This mother who claims that \”beating her own child is natural\” should also understand – the child is an individual worthy of respect. Although you gave him life, you have no right to destroy his body and mind! According to Article 260 of my country\’s Criminal Law, \”Whoever abuses a family member, if the circumstances are serious, shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years, criminal detention or public surveillance. Whoever commits the crime in the preceding paragraph and causes serious injury or death to the victim shall be sentenced to not less than two years.\” Imprisonment of not more than seven years.\” Although the law to protect children from abuse still needs to be improved, every effort made by all sectors of society should be an impact on the misconception that \”beating one\’s own children is natural.\” . In psychology, there is a kind of \”kicking\”The \”cat effect\” refers specifically to the chain reaction of venting dissatisfaction on objects that are weaker than oneself or lower than oneself. The original story describing the \”kicking cat effect\” is as follows: A father received criticism from his superiors in the company, \” He was so angry that he had nowhere to vent his anger. As soon as he got home, he scolded the child who was playing. The child became very angry because of this. When he saw the cat rolling around him, he kicked it hard. Innocent The cat fled to the street after being kicked. In order to avoid it, a truck driver accidentally hit a child on the side of the road… Anyone who continues to promote the \”kicking cat effect\” vents their negative emotions on something bigger than themselves. For weak people, although they are violent, they are also truly weak. The mother in the news became the child\’s \”seeker\” because she did not know how to handle her emotions correctly after the divorce and vented her negative emotions on her young son confidently. The devil is like \”trying to escape as soon as you get it\”. In real life, if parents are trying or want to try to use force to establish authority, then in the eyes of their children, you will be useless except for a \”tyrant\”. The child says, \”You take me You raised me like this and you beat me.\” Some time ago, a video \”Six-year-old Girl Reasoning with Mom\” ​​went viral on the Internet. In the video, a six-year-old girl who was beaten by her mother cried and cried: \”You raised me like this. Big, hit me! \”If you say something and I don\’t listen, you have to say it properly. You can\’t hit anyone!\” \”You hit me, scolded me, and screamed in my ear. What\’s your point?\” \”You still beat me when I am six years old. How old are you going to beat me?\” \”The little loli with a milky voice makes people feel distressed, and her reasoning is indeed worthy of our reflection. The damage caused by hitting a child is deep, far-reaching, and difficult to heal. Physical injuries caused by spanking a child are harmful to the body. The physical and mental harm caused by it can be large or small: In January 2018, Xiao Chen, a mother who lived in Huangqiao, Taixing, Taizhou, accidentally beat her 8-year-old son to death while educating him, and was arrested by the Taixing Procuratorate. April 2018 In August, a father in Huangliang Village, Ma\’an Township, Pingchang County, Bazhong City tied his son to the bed and beat him because he made a mistake but was unwilling to admit it. The next day, the child stopped breathing… The bloody case is shocking and continues to Ground has proven to us that \”stick education\” must be abandoned. Damaged IQ In 2010, experts in the field of \”Discipline and Domestic Violence\” in the United States announced the results of a four-year study involving more than a thousand children. The results showed that in Among 806 children aged 2 to 4 years old, the average IQ of those who had not been subjected to corporal punishment was 5 points higher than those who were often spanked. Chronic low self-esteem The 76th Oscar Best Actress – Charlize Theron In an interview with a British magazine, she also talked about her childhood experience of being beaten by her mother. One time Theron came home from school and went to drink soup before she changed out of her school uniform. As a result, her clothes were stained by the spilled soup. , this scene was seen by her mother who was ironing clothes, and her mother picked up a metal clothes hanger and beat her violently… Strict tutoring made Theron\’s character become inferior and closed-minded. When she was a student, she rarely made friends. , has been staying in his own corner, and stillI encountered bullying at school. Although later on, a strong mother also became the motivation for Charlize Theron to become an actress in a sense, but who knows how many children who failed to become Charlize Theron were affected by this harsh What if the educational methods are so suppressive that you can’t move?