The child is disobedient and talks back, \”You are not my teacher!\” What should parents do in this situation?

It’s the end of the month again, and my money is getting tighter and thinner, including mortgage, living expenses, insurance premiums, water and electricity bills, childcare fees… I can’t help but feel a little annoyed. Summer noon is always extremely long, the sun exerts all its power tirelessly, and there is not a trace of wind. I wish my daughter could take a nap quietly, but she was playing in full swing, so I told her: Kindergarten The teacher said that the children had to go to bed at noon, but she actually told me quietly: \”You are not my teacher, you are the teacher of your students!\” I stayed there for a while, feeling that life was very powerless. When my daughter was born, I was still teaching in the mountainous area, which was really far away from home. I didn’t want to give up accompanying my daughter, and her grandmother was not in good health, so it was impossible for her to go to the mountainous area with me. It was very difficult to hire a nanny at that time. The tight finances and the inseparable love made me resolutely choose to ride the tram for more than two hours every day. Thinking of my daughter reaching out to me with her fleshy little hands, I became motivated, and I didn\’t hesitate even on rainy days. I take the materials used in class and students’ homework home and read them after my daughter falls asleep. Sometimes I wonder: “Is this worth it? Such hard work, but only a monthly salary of 1,400 yuan.” .\” But I seem to be born into this industry. Whenever I stand on the podium and see those pairs of expectant eyes, I forget that life is not easy. I hope that my class is happy, and I hope that my students will be in my class. What you learn in class is more than just knowledge! \”Mom, when will my birthday be celebrated again?\” my daughter asked innocently, raising her little face. I came back to my senses, looked at my daughter\’s longing eyes, and couldn\’t help but smile. This child, she wants to eat birthday cake! My daughter’s wish is not extravagant. When I promised to give her a cake, her smile was brighter than the flowers, which dazzled me. The child is so kind, I feel the happiest when I have a cake to eat! But my smile stopped at the numbers on the computer in my hand. \”With such a low salary, where can I find happiness?\” I couldn\’t help complaining! Post something to vent about! I turned on my phone and unexpectedly discovered that people in my circle of friends were posting about it. If you reach 58 likes, you can get a free birthday cake! My heart skipped a beat, and I scratched my finger slightly, thinking that whether it was true or not, I would give it a try. Then I put my contented daughter to bed and finally get some rest! It was already evening when I turned on my phone again. At that moment I thought there was something wrong with my eyes. The person who received the cake for free actually had 336 likes. I rubbed my eyes and there was no problem. It was indeed more than 300. Here are some more There was a message: \”Teacher, you can receive several cakes!\” You must not imagine the ecstasy in my heart. At that moment, the happy current quickly flowed through every cell in my body. I know that most of these likes It was given by the students. When I replied thank you, their reply was: \”Who made you our teacher?\” I picked up my daughter and told her that she had cake to eat, it was given by her brother and sister! She jumped up too! I kissed her little face excitedly, and the unspeakable satisfaction and pride surrounded me! The bitterness when my daughter said that I was not her teacher at noon suddenly disappeared. What a lovely group of students I have! The daughter looked up with a smile and said thank you to her brothers and sisters, saying that she also loved her mother. Happiness comes too muchSuddenly, I forgot the troubles of life and saw the gorgeous sky. When the summer vacation was about to begin that year, the children in the mountains gave me many peaches, which they carefully selected and carried their full friendship. They did not blame me for neglecting them because of taking care of the children, they just remembered It\’s good to live with me. Is there anything more precious than this? That time I replied to a message from a college classmate saying that students might scold me behind my back. Our students actually commented on the post and discussed with my classmates that I was their favorite teacher, so they would not scold me behind my back! How innocent this child is! On that birthday, when the students wrote happy birthday to their teacher on the blackboard and shouted out together, their eyes got wet, that was the taste of happiness! Because I did the cleaning myself, when the students all stood up and shouted to the teacher for their hard work, that was the sound of happiness! That time…I suddenly understood that the reason why I have been sticking to the three-foot podium is because I really like to be with students. Although I will be upset and angry, and even though I will complain about my salary, this cannot cover up the benefits that students have brought to me. Happiness and joy. Why can\’t it be as simple as my daughter? Simple joy, simple happiness, this is the way to live an exciting life! Use our faith to convey happiness. One day, happiness will draw a big circle and come back to us!