The child was crying and rolling around in the mall, and the father actually did this…

Every time I take Chenchen to a shopping mall, I must visit the model shop inside. The little boy likes all these. I don’t allow him to buy more. He can only pick one at a time. Gradually, Chenchen has developed this rule. Every time he buys toys, he will pick the one he likes the most. Yes, if there are other ones I like, I can bear to buy them next time. That time, Chenchen spent a long time choosing in the model shop. He initially chose several toys and compared them over and over again. In the end, there were two left, one was a car and the other was a gun. He held both of them in his arms. Inside, I couldn’t put it down and touched it here and there, unable to let go of any one of them. \”Didn\’t you just buy a gun last time? Let\’s buy a car first this time.\” I suggested. \”This gun is different from that one!\” Chen Chen retorted, but he still put down the toy gun, sighed like a little adult, and patted the model gun, \”Okay, I\’ll take you home next time .\” At this time, there was a little boy next to us who was also choosing toys with his mother. He also liked several models and wanted every one of them. However, the little boy\’s mother did not allow him to buy so many, so we heard the following Dialogue… \”Baby, you just bought one for your birthday last week, and now you can only buy one more. Which one do you want?\” \”I want it all! I want them all!\” \”Baby, you already have a similar one to this one. , I\’ve only played it once or twice.\” \”This one is different from that one!\” \”Baby, pick the one you want the most, and we\’ll buy the others next time.\” \”I want them all! I want them all! Wow…\” What happened next was shocking. The little boy lay on the floor of the model shop and cried loudly, rolling around while crying. The clerks and customers all looked over, and the passers-by outside the door also looked over. I pulled Chenchen to stand aside. Chenchen looked at the little boy on the floor, a little surprised, as if he didn\’t think he could do this. \”This is so embarrassing!\” Chenchen whispered, \”His parents will definitely not allow this.\” However, the reality is… the boy\’s father called back from outside the door. When he saw the child crying, he immediately The domineering CEO said: \”Aren\’t they just a few toys? How much do they cost? Why are you crying and making trouble here? Dad bought them for you.\” The boy immediately wiped his tears, laughed through tears, and hugged the toys Went to the checkout counter with dad. Chenchen looked at the little boy and his father with envy, then reluctantly looked at the model gun he had just put down, and glanced at me secretly. \”No,\” I said, \”We agreed to only buy one, and you have to be trustworthy.\” Chenchen put down the model gun with some frustration. When he went to the checkout counter to pay, his son looked at the father and son in the front row. Looking back, he said enviously: \”I wonder if his family still needs a son, who only needs a toy! Not only can he play football, but he also scored 95 points in math.\” Without comparison, there is no difference. I\’m really afraid that Chenchen thinks so. I subconsciously do not want this kind of behavior that is not suitable for children and is not conducive to family education to appear in public. Fortunately, Chenchen is a very sensible child. Although he was a little unhappy, he did not clamor for an extra toy. However, on the way home, Chenchen seemed depressed, unlike usual after buying a toy. In high spirits. untilI bought him his favorite ice cream. Chenchen opened the ice cream, took a big bite, and suddenly looked up and asked me: \”Mom, what would you do if I really did like that little brother?\” \”Me, I haven\’t seen it in years. Chenchen was crying and rolling.\” I said with a smile, \”Of course I will quickly record it on my mobile phone and send it to my grandparents for appreciation!\” After hearing this, my son glared at me in surprise and anger, and shook it off. My hand ran away with a \”click-click\” sound. In fact, Dad Chen and I will give the child a fixed amount of five yuan of pocket money every day, which he can control by himself. He can buy snacks, supplies, toys, anything else. If it is less, we will not make up for it. If he has more, he can save it by himself. This requires him to Spend money wisely. Regarding buying toys, we only buy one toy for our children at a time. This not only tells the children not to be extravagant, but also teaches them restraint and allows them to learn to make their own choices. These are all things I discussed with Chenchen’s father. Originally, for children, we have to buy everything we need and use what we need. Isn’t the money we earn meant to be spent on him? However, how to meet the normal needs of children while developing good qualities of not being extravagant, not wasteful, and well-planned is what we should do. After all, as parents, we will do everything we can to protect our children, but we cannot guarantee that our children will have smooth sailing and a worry-free life. What we can give them is the attitude and ability to face life.