The classic conversation between son and mother after the monthly exam is worth pondering for all parents

After the monthly exam, a conversation between a mother and her son went viral on WeChat Moments. Parents, please remember: primary school focuses on attitude, middle school focuses on conduct, high school focuses on quality, university focuses on grades, and the future focuses on choices. Son: Mom, I can’t sleep, can you talk to me? Mom: Yes, you can say it! Son: Are you satisfied with my results? Mom: Are you satisfied with your results? Son: Not bad, I feel quite confident. Mom: Sometimes confidence is more important than grades! Son: Do you really not care about my grades? Mother! Mom: I don’t care! Think about it, when have I ever cared about your grades? Son: When I was in elementary school, if I didn’t take my homework seriously, you would tear it up. There was no room for it! Mom: I care about your attitude towards learning. Writing Chinese characters does not require you to write beautifully. First of all, you must be serious. That is a matter of correct attitude. If there is a problem with attitude, there will definitely be a problem with learning, and this person will have problems. Son: Well, that makes sense. When I was in middle school, you valued my grades and paid attention to my listening performance every day. Mom: That’s because I care about your study behavior. If a student doesn\’t respect the classroom, he doesn\’t respect the teacher. If he doesn\’t respect the teacher, he doesn\’t respect knowledge. If he doesn\’t respect knowledge, his conduct won\’t be much better! Son: Well, then I’m in high school. You must care about my grades, because they are related to the future college entrance examination! Mom: To be honest, I really don’t care! What I care about you is your learning quality! Students with good learning qualities can enjoy the learning process. Don’t worry about the outcome, face all the processes happily. Son: Mom, what do you care about me after I get into college? I heard people say that going to college is all about having fun and it’s very relaxing. Mom: Son, when you go to college, your mother will definitely care about your grades. Think about it, when others are having fun and squandering their studies, if you still persist, you will be the one who gets the benefits in the end. Son: I understand. When I was in elementary school, you cared about my study attitude. When I was in middle school, you cared about my study conduct. When I was in high school, you cared about my study quality. In college, you cared about my academic performance, right? Mom: My son has a profound understanding! When you step into society in the future, I care whether you can choose wisely. Choose your own career, choose your own love, these will affect most of your life. Son: These are far away to me, I haven’t thought about them yet. Mom: Don\’t worry, but Mom has a piece of advice for you – stay safe and far away! Look at these two words, Bao Hijab represents home, and the Ding underneath means that you must be responsible and responsible for your own future; Jing means green and green, fighting for spring, and spring means hope, beauty and longing. Only by keeping your mind at peace at all times can you reach further realms! Son: Mom, you really know how to misinterpret Chinese characters, haha! Mom: What do you call misinterpretation? Think about it, ten years ago you cried and made a fuss and asked to play on the computer, but I decisively refused. Now, you can compare with your peers and your mind is not impetuous. This plays a big role! By clarifying the focus and goals of each learning stage, you will benefit even more in ten years. I really appreciateYour \”Don\’t compare with others, just compare with yourself\” reflects your optimistic and positive attitude! With a sunny mentality, no matter what you do in the future, you will live up to yourself and enjoy life itself. This is happiness! Son: When I talk to you, I feel more powerful in my heart. Mom: Son, it’s almost 12 o’clock, go to bed! Son: OK, good night, Mom! Mom: Good night! The son quickly fell asleep with satisfaction, but the mother suffered from insomnia for the first time in her life. She had no choice but to let herself enjoy the moment of insomnia… Written at the end: Elementary school emphasizes attitude, middle school emphasizes conduct, high school emphasizes quality, and university Focus on achievements and focus on choices in the future. It cannot be reversed, because there is no turning back in education. Parental guidance is very important. The hand that pushes the cradle is the same hand that pushes the earth.