The difference between a mother who is a top student and a mother who is a scumbag

They all say, \”Never chat with the mother of a top student, because if you are not careful, you will faint from anger.\” After all, the life experience of having a top student at home is completely different from having a bad student at home! And it\’s quite sour, and the two can\’t understand each other. A mother who excelled in academics once asked me: \”Why do you need to help your children with their homework?\” \”What? Your children still need to be urged to do their homework?\” \”Our homework is always done by ourselves after school, and it is never done. If it’s a mistake, the child should check it out himself.” “Your education method is not good. Children, they should just wait for the flowers to bloom and cultivate their consciousness!” At that time, I really wanted to pass out from anger. The daily life of a mother who has a bad student at home is like this: urging him to do homework every day is harder than asking for debt. It can make you angry in minutes. Let him do his homework and go in for half an hour to take a look. Well, he is still in a daze and playing with a rubber, and he hasn\’t even taken out his books. Staring at him, he took out his notebook. \”Mom, I need to pee.\” \”Mom, I need to drink water.\” \”Mom, my pencil is a bit thick.\” \”Mom, where is my pencil sharpener?\” \”Mom, have you sharpened my pencil for me? \”Mom, this book is not easy to use.\” \”Mom, have you seen my Chinese textbook?\” \”Mom, I\’m hungry.\” \”Mom, hurry up and get me something to eat.\” \”Mom, I\’m hungry.\” When you\’re full, let\’s go down and play for a while and then come up and do your homework.\” \”Mom, I can\’t find my pencil.\” \”Mom, I don\’t know this question.\” Over and over again, I\’m on the verge of dying of anger every day. I want to tear up the book and beat the baby every minute! It’s true that a full man doesn’t know how hungry a man is, and a mother who is a top student cannot see the tears of a mother who is a bad student. Therefore, when the scumbag mother is trying hard to reverse the situation and try her best to kill the baby, there are pig teammates on the side to make up for the damage: \”Don\’t you know that the son\’s IQ only depends on the mother?\” It is really blind! The mother who is a top student is so proud of her son, but the mother who is a bad student is so angry that she collapses! Ever since my baby entered elementary school, my fate is not up to me but God! Jiwa worked hard for a semester, but he still took home the bad test paper. I can\’t help but want to say something dirty: Come on, why are we all chickens? You get twice the result with half the effort, and I get twice the result with half the effort? Why? Is it the loss of morality or the distortion of human nature? I really envy those mothers who have top academics at home! The latest and most complete 2023 [Kindergarten, Junior High and High School] premium VIP course catalogs from famous teachers in various disciplines on the entire network, click to view now! After all, if there is a top student in the family, my mother will feel refreshed every day, because the top student saves her money and worry. The overachieving mother gets off work every day and feels as happy as if she had never given birth to a baby. The child is alone at home, and after finishing his homework, he takes the initiative to review and preview. Naturally, academic mothers can pursue their own little happiness. They can post on WeChat every day to show off their luck. They can keep fit, have waistcoat lines easily, do facial masks, and their face becomes more rosy and shiny day by day. \”After work, the beautiful life of the mother who is a top student begins…\” It\’s different for the mother who is a bad student. After all, there is a scumbag in the family, and my mother is so angry that she collapses every day because the scumbag spends money and money on her. Every day I feel like I have a lot more gray hair. I fuck the baby countless times every day, but the baby immediately forgets it all! I really don’t know what evil I did in my last life, but I have to help my children with homework in this life! However, when it comes to things other than studying, eatingDrinking, having fun and sleeping…that makes me want to cry without tears! Every morning I get up, cry, make trouble, and hang myself. I wake up for at least half an hour, crying and asking why I want to go to school. It makes people doubt my life. It\’s really the farthest distance in the world. You are in front of me, but I can\’t afford to wake you up! But when it comes to sleeping at night, the quality of my sleep is amazing! Especially, you are still asking, \”Have you packed your things for school tomorrow?\” There are already snores over there. Leaving you alone beside the bed feeling melancholy, emmm, should you clean it up for him or not? Of course, the most terrible thing is that he is very good at cooking. The first thing he does every day is to ask: \”What will be served tonight?\” \”No meat? I won\’t eat without meat!\” It\’s really awesome! No matter what I can\’t do, I will be number one in cooking! So, why do people say that you age ten years after having one child and twenty years after having two children! That\’s because most of us are born to the same bad students. How can we still be the youngest after working so hard every day? ! Some scumbag moms, out of their own little hearts, send their kids to tutoring classes, and some spend a lot of money on one-on-one classes for 200 yuan a class, thinking to themselves, I’ll give you the money, and it’ll just depend on your kids’ final exam scores. Well, the result… If a top student goes to a tutoring class, it will be a step up. The scumbag goes to tutoring classes just so that the old mother who tutors her homework can spend money to extend her life! Do you think I don’t want my child to become a top student in an instant? Do you think I don’t want to achieve something? I can’t do it! My baby doesn’t feel like a scumbag at all, she feels super good about herself every day! I picked him up after school and happily shared with me: \”Mom, poor students are really miserable. Look at that so-and-so in our school. He gets a headache when he does homework and writes until 12 o\’clock every day…\” \”Mom, I got a B in this mock exam, which is pretty good, because there are still students in our class who got a D! Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha…\”…I just want to ask you, what are you laughing at?\” ! Why don\’t you take a look at the A+ students in your class? What a sad Pacific! Top academics are all vying for the top spot, but low-achieving students compete with the inferior students… I have to say that low-achieving students have really strong psychological qualities and always know how to comfort themselves. Top academics don’t have to worry about their parents in primary school, middle school, high school or university, and the older they get, the more money they save. When they can get scholarships, their parents basically don’t have to pay. Just like the postdoctoral lady from Tsinghua University upstairs, she gets scholarships every year… Her parents really save worry and money! What about the scumbags? How much did you spend growing up? It’s probably an astronomical number! The point is, it’s of no use! The money has been spent (liao) (le), and the baby is no good… Of course, some people have said that whether you are a top student or a bad student now, it may not be the same when you grow up in the future. We can\’t just think about scores. It\’s both a honor to be a problem solver in a small town and a money maker in a small town! However, I have to say that there is a big difference between a top student and a bad student. For example, the child\’s efficiency and execution ability and the parents\’ ability to withstand the parenting process. We have two children, one of whom comes home complaining about not knowing what time to do his homework. Every day he has to be served with good food and drink, and coaxed with good words and good temper. After five years of hard work, he is finally able to take a break from school. I have taken the initiative to do my homework. I can do it two or three days a week…the other one isWhen I was in the first class of kindergarten, I started asking for some homework for fun. After I finished my homework, he even asked me to give some more assignments. I said it was time to rest, and he said, Mom, you can\’t give up casually. Do you understand if you insist? Come and experience my sour feeling, I really die and come back to life every day~ So I really am not blaming the blame, what I want to say is that being a top student is not purely dependent on parents. The key depends on the baby himself (de desire to survive). As we said before: raising children is like opening a blind box. Whether you are a top student or a scumbag depends on your luck. Therefore, don’t be envious if someone else’s family gives birth to a top student, it’s fate! So, mothers, you must take care of yourself. The most important thing is to live well. Don\’t make yourself angry because of your temporary results. After all, I asked Zhawa, if you didn\’t do well in the exam, would you do stupid things, such as hurt yourself, or even jump off a building? The baby said seriously: \”Mom, are you stupid? You jumped off the building after failing the exam? I can\’t be that stupid! Didn\’t you say that nothing is more important than my life? What\’s more important, my grades or my life? Say it! Say it!\”… emmm, well, this is also one of the advantages of babies! At least he is optimistic (thick-skinned), and he is in good health and eats well. He never gets angry because he does not do well in exams, which proves that he can understand himself correctly and reconcile with himself quickly. Let\’s just be content. After all, before giving birth, we all hope that mother and child are safe, and only after giving birth do we want mother and child to be more valuable. Unexpectedly, we are so angry that we collapse… That\’s how life is, dig the hole and bury it yourself, who will let you temporarily Change the demand! Recently, I read the experience of a parent whose child is in junior high school. I think we still need to learn to accept our fate. When we reach middle age, life is more important. As for the baby’s grades, it’s up to the baby, not the mother~~