The difference between raising a son and raising a daughter. I couldn’t help myself when I saw the first article. It’s so true.

A friend told me that since having her daughter, she feels like she has a girlfriend. Why do you feel this way? Because my daughter always wants to be coaxed, and if I speak harshly to my daughter, she will burst into tears and feel aggrieved. Once your heart softens, you have to be patient and coaxed and held. Since having a daughter, my friend feels like a man, glib, sweet-talking, and full of lies. Her words made me laugh. In fact, I feel the same way. Since I gave birth to my daughter, my patience with coaxing people has increased countless times. What is the difference between raising a son and raising a daughter? I couldn\’t help myself when I saw the first one, it was so true! Regarding the response, if you dress up a little, choose a beautiful dress, take out the box-soled high heels, then turn around in front of your daughter and ask her: \”Is mom good-looking?\” your daughter will tell you with shining eyes. : \”Mom is the most beautiful mother in the world!\” If you wear the same clothes and take a few steps in front of your son, he will tell you without blinking: \”Mom, you are blocking my TV.\” You reluctantly ask: \”Mom Does it look good?\” He will look at you seriously for a few times, and then tell you seriously: \”Mom, you are so fat.\” Just when you feel heartbroken, he will smile and say again: \”Mom. Not fat, mom is strong! \”Son, listen to me, thank you! Regarding listening to you, you told your daughter that when you get home from school, you have to do your homework first, you have to wash yourself after eating, and you have to go to bed after washing. Your daughter answers you obediently: \”Okay, Mom, I understand.\” You explain a lot to your son, drying up your saliva, and finally ask him: \”Did you hear that?\” He puts down the toy in his hand, He slowly raised his head and looked at you with a puzzled look on his face: \”What did you just say?\” No wonder a netizen summed up his experience in raising children: When your son was still young, if you thought there was something wrong with his ears, take him to the hospital. Checked and found nothing. When he gets older, you may think that his reaction is a little slower, and you take him for a check-up, and it turns out there is still no problem. Later, you discover that he is not deaf or mute, and his reactions are quick. He simply doesn\’t want to pay attention to you, that\’s all! Regarding birthday gifts, your birthday is coming soon. Your daughter has prepared it early and carefully selected an exquisite gift. Or secretly draw a warm picture by yourself, and wait for your birthday, and happily rush into your arms: \”Mom, happy birthday!\” Just when you are so moved, your son also runs over excitedly, full of joy. Looking at you expectantly: \”Mom, can you have a cake for your birthday? Can you order an Ultraman cake?\” Regarding my cousin\’s daughter who was criticized, when she was criticized, she sobbed softly and whispered aggrievedly. : \”Mom, I was wrong.\” Then she squeezed into her father\’s arms with a pout, hugging his neck and not letting go. But when her son was yelled at by his parents, he puffed up his chest, rubbed his neck, blushed, and shouted in a rough voice: \”You beat me to death, I\’ll beat you up!\” After being criticized, her daughter grabbed the food and She didn\’t open her mouth and glanced at her mother from time to time. Only when her mother was no longer angry would she be willing to take a few bites with peace of mind. But my son was only beaten on his front feet, and when he climbed up on the table with his back feet, he could eat two bowls of food, regardless of whether the mother here was so angry that she couldn\’t even take a mouthful of food. About mother being sickMom coughed a few times and lay on the bed to rest. Here, the daughter is pouring water, testing her mother\’s forehead with her hand, and keeps asking: \”Mom, are you feeling better?\” When you say you are feeling better, she hugs you happily, hugging and kissing you. Here, your son walked over slowly and asked casually: \”Mom, are you okay?\” You said you were okay, and he immediately told you happily: \”Then you promise to take me out to eat KFC today, but don\’t forget \”Ah!\” Regarding taking a bath, you told your daughter that she must take a bath today, otherwise she won\’t smell good. She bargains with you: \”Can I not wash my hair? Can I rinse it in and come out?\” You tell your son that you need to take a shower today. The son put his hands on his hips and replied angrily: \”I didn\’t sweat today, so I don\’t need to wash it!\” Regarding being wronged, my daughter was wronged. She didn\’t say a few words, but she buried herself in your arms and cried for a while. When your heart softens, you don\’t bother to blame her anymore, so you have to reason with her. After you explain the reason, you cajole her and comfort her, and then you are kind to your mother and your son is filial. When your son is wronged, he is so anxious that he jumps up and down, yells, and dances to give you a meal, regardless of whether you can get in or not. You try to reason with him, but he doesn\’t listen at all and just defends himself in all aspects. In the end, they broke up unhappy. When your daughter comes to you, she will knock on the door gently and ask, \”Mom, can I come in?\” After getting your approval, she will happily jump in. And when you are doing your own thing in the room, your son will happily kick open your door and shout: \”Mom!\” Before you can say \”Knock before entering,\” he He ran away like the wind again. This is the difference between raising a son and raising a daughter. Many mothers say that when raising a son, he can anger you 800 times a day, but when raising a daughter, you are always being healed by her. There is no difference between a son and a daughter, good or bad, only the brain is different. Boys\’ brains are not as sensitive to emotions as girls. Whatever he wants, he will grab you and want it right away! No matter whether you are busy or in a bad mood right now. A girl\’s brain is usually very sensitive to subtle changes in emotions. She will observe your behavior, expressions and language to express and respond accordingly. Therefore, boys are relatively more big-hearted, while girls are more delicate. Raising boys and girls requires us to adjust our parenting methods based on the differences in their brains. By seeing the differences between boys and girls, we can better parent them. What other differences do you think there are between raising sons and daughters?