The dust has settled on the battle for higher education, and the next generation of parents can rest easy…

June is here, and the annual battle for higher education has finally settled. Parents in Beijing can finally put aside their worries and sleep peacefully. The result may not be without regrets, but there is no point in worrying about it now. All the places you should go to have already fallen. Which school you can go to in the end depends on God\’s will… With the end of ZP and DZ, the future of higher education will be dominated by the allocation of places. It is becoming more and more like a kind of \”metaphysics\”. Ordinary families who want their children to go to the Haidian Six Little Strong School in the future, hoarding school district housing, and working hard to have children, will not have a higher chance of winning than going to Yonghegong to burn incense… Some people complain that stopping DZ will lead to unfair education, but I don’t think this is necessarily the case. Think about it, what categories does the school consider students to be? A master of academics, a master of academics, a weak academic, and a scumbag of academics. The gods of learning are all young people from the Northern Qing Dynasty, and are often called extraordinary children. They have made a name for themselves since childhood. Some elementary schools have entered the Olympiad training team and are famous in the city. This group has a small number of people and a small circle, so they were closely watched early on. No matter whether you are promoted from junior high school to junior high school or from junior high school to junior high school, you don’t need any resume at all, and the school can compete with you to the death… In order to grab these seedlings earlier, all districts in Beijing have launched top-notch talent training. There is a dedicated base, and high-quality resources are focused on it. People definitely do not need to follow the original 12-year academic system, such as Tsinghua University Qiu Chengtong Youth Class, Peking University Mathematics Elite Class, and the University of Science and Technology of China Youth Class. The minimum enrollment is in the third grade of junior high school, and some have completed Tsinghua and Peking University at the age of 17… As long as If they can be shortlisted, they don\’t even have to take the high school entrance examination. It doesn\’t mean anything to them whether they are D or D, so there is no fairness or unfairness. Academic masters usually rely on self-discipline to become top students and have long-lasting academic ability. They are not a pool that schools must compete for, but if you have excellent academic performance, for example, you scored 650 out of 660 in the high school entrance examination, then the top middle school will open a door for you to enter. But the school doesn\’t particularly care about it. After all, it\’s not an OKR indicator, so the teaching resources generally only provide a big pot of rice. In the end, whether you get into Qingbei or get into one, it all depends on the good fortune of the top academics. Parents of these students are particularly keen on making resumes because they feel that school resources and atmosphere have the greatest impact on their children. However, in fact, going to a prestigious school will do the most harm to them – on the one hand, the family will use up all their financial resources and resources. , on the other hand, children who have become top academics through hard work will feel huge frustration in the fierce competition in prestigious schools… Some with good talents may have the opportunity to strengthen their base, and top academics who grit their teeth to catch up may become depressed. In high school, There are students who can\’t finish reading every year. Even if the teacher tries his best, the environment is so complicated that no one can be spared. Therefore, for top academics, whether it is in terms of obtaining resources (super middle school monks have more meat and fewer opportunities, the chances are reduced) or maintaining physical and mental health, it is better to be the head of a chicken in a common school than the tail of a phoenix in a prestigious school. Looking at the problem with the end in mind, parents demanding fairness now may bring more injustice to their children in the future… Xuexue may look glamorous on the surface, but it will turn into a mess at the first touch. In short, it means that academic performance is generally not good enough. I don’t quite understand why parents in high school would rack their brains to get their children into prestigious schools. One-on-one study at home is no longer as long-lasting as studying. If you are accidentally sent to an environment where there are many top students, you will be tortured into a scumbag? It’s okay to accompany you throughout the whole process and be trapped. What if you are still a squishy person and your mentality is broken?If you give up on yourself, you will lose more than you gain. You scumbag, lie down. When you lie down, you will understand that he just has bad grades, not that he is bad in life. My friend\’s child didn\’t like to study, and his grades were abysmal. His only hobby was squatting on the side of the road every day and watching cars. In the third grade, he could tell what kind of car it was by the sound of its engine. Later, he started to modify cars, and at the age of 22, he surpassed the income of his classmates… How should I put it? Everyone has his own destiny, or children have their own talents. If you are admitted to your ideal school this year, congratulations on achieving your wish. If you are unable to get into your target school, don’t despair. Raising children is mostly a matter of carelessness. As a parent, the most important thing is to maintain a good attitude. After all, it is really better than the \”hard mode of getting into higher education\”. There are always people who have it harder. Non-Beijing primary school students and junior high school students must apply for four certificates, while Beijing residents will be directly locked in the area. In other words, if you go to school in a non-Beijing district, you can rent a house, but if you are from Beijing and go to a school in Chaoyang (Shunyi household registration is registered in Chaoyang), it is not possible without real estate. People who work and live outside Beijing are said to be treated according to their Beijing nationality, but it is difficult to say in years when there are many new students. After all, better schools can\’t even accommodate Beijing residents. They require one household registration and at least three years of property ownership, so they can\’t afford to live in work. In order to ensure a stable schooling for his children, my friend started to go through great troubles to settle the points three years ago – the first time I submitted the information was in March 2019, the system prompted that the social security was not continuous and was directly rejected online. After an investigation, I found out that I changed jobs the year before last in order to have a job and live there. Although there was no time difference, the company behind me missed the social security payment in the first month. So I contacted the company and the company readily agreed to supplement the social security. But it is useless to make up for social security that year, because the points settlement information is as of December of the previous year, and making up later will not count, even if the responsibility is not yours. Who makes you, as a social creature, so ignorant that you don’t care about your social security and wages? Just have to wait another year. Because they are already in their 40s, they are relatively confident about settling in points. The second child still has one year to go to elementary school, so his parents began to prepare to choose a school, and they chose a house in a school district. Although it is an existing house, it has not been able to get the property capital for a long time. The developer said the reason is that the relevant commercial properties have not been capped and accepted. However, the reason why the cap cannot be capped on time is the epidemic. The lockdown comes every three to five days, making it impossible for workers to start work normally. It’s fine if you don’t have a house certificate, but there is no capital in the middle of the points settlement. If you only have a pre-sale contract for the past two years, there will be no points… One point will leave you behind in the playground. This may be even worse than the college entrance examination. The elderly at home began to worry, asking every day when they would be able to settle down. Will their children really have to go back to their hometown to study in high school? At this time, friends can only remain silent. There was a time when I was so anxious that I started asking about settling in Tianjin. Later, after a settlement check, many people were deported back to their place of origin. Thinking that I couldn\’t bear to live in Tianjin, I let go of the matter. Later, when the child reached school age, he found a nearby primary school. Because it is not the tip of the sword between East and West, the application for the four certificates is read the same. At that time, when I talked to her about the future of my children and whether to go back to my hometown when they were in high school, the mother\’s eyes were filled with confusion. Recently I met this friend again and asked her how it was to settle the points? She smiled and said, no more trouble. I have decided to give up the public school and let my children take the college entrance examination, and choose a private school to get down to business.The international route solves educational anxiety from its root cause.