The family behind an outstanding child must be full of such…

The competition for fatherhood is not about the hereditary power, money, and resources, but the competition for parents’ ideas, lifestyle, way of thinking, and way of dealing with the world. True education is never a skill that turns stone into gold or instant Buddhahood, but a process of natural inaction and spring breeze turning into rain. Like one tree shaking another, one cloud pushing another, one soul awakening another. It makes no sound. It just lets those who are ahead do their own thing, follow their own path, and then let changes happen naturally. As it is for those who go before, so will it be for those who follow. What happens to the elders, so will the younger ones. This is Pin Daddy. But in the context of education, fighting is not the inheritance of Wang Sicong having a father named Wang Jianlin, nor is it the inheritance of Ge You having a father named Ge Cunzhuang… This kind of fighting is just the hereditary inheritance of power, money, and resources, and it has nothing to do with what I think. It doesn\’t matter whether you spell it or not. The real competition is to compete with parents\’ ideas, lifestyles, ways of thinking, and ways of being in the world. Before leaving the system, I worked in education for many years. The more I deal with students and parents, the more I realize that children are the epitome of the family, and education is about fighting for parents and mothers. The family behind an outstanding child must be full of respect, scholarship and love. The parents may not be knowledgeable, but they must be reasonable. On the contrary, for a problem student, the family of origin must be full of problems, such as lack of love, inequality, lack of freedom, parents with generally low cultural level, backward ideas, narrow vision, and often violent behaviors. Children of elites are still elites. The children of the poor are still poor. Classes are solidified and mobility is difficult. What is the reason for this deadlock? There is a very good summary, which says this: In fact, in addition to the uneven distribution of hard power (resources), what is more critical is the uneven level of soft power (concepts). What the elites pass on to the next generation are mostly freedom, ambition, calmness, self-discipline and perseverance; what the poor pass on to the next generation are mostly inferiority complex, short-sightedness, violence, laxity and easy giving up. People with different concepts naturally have different visions, match different actions, pay different prices, and lead to different endings. Genius does not exist. Any outstanding child is not a miracle, but a traceable cause and effect. Its cause is in the family. Its roots are in the parents. Parents are ignorant and will treat a child in a controlling, enslaving, and destructive way, without even realizing it. Evil in an evil way, stupidity in a stupid way. So, in the chain of struggle in life, children have fallen off the chain from the beginning. If parents are enlightened, they will give their children respect and freedom. Don’t force or set up, accept the possibility of life, let the child’s biggest pressure come only from himself, discover his advantages, appreciate his characteristics, use adult thinking and resources to help him expand… Then, he will be better than his peers The child won a lot. Children born to such parents, even if they do not succeed, will definitely succeed. Even if you don\’t become a talent, you will definitely become an adult. Even if you don\’t become famous, you will definitely achieve something in your life.