The Fantasy World fully proves: Stupid children are really like this…

The most popular TV series these days is undoubtedly \”In the World\”. Yesterday, I watched this drama with my mother. When I saw the mother of the Zhou family paralyzed in bed, and only Zhou Bingkun was taking care of the three children in the Zhou family, my mother said this: \”\”In the World\” once again proved a truth. : Stupid children are really here to repay a favor.\” The mother of a beautiful Peking University academic who costs 199 yuan: How to cultivate students\’ learning ability seems to be true. The eldest son Zhou Bingyi has been talented since he was a child and has always been a top student. Later he was admitted to Peking University and later became the head of a large state-owned factory. Later he became the head of a certain city and was later transferred to work in a central government agency. His life can be regarded as glorious, but a child of his kind is destined to be unable to stay with his parents. He has his city, his career, and his pursuit. The second daughter Zhou Rong is also talented. She has been a top student since she was a child. Later she was admitted to Peking University and later became a university professor. Later she lived in France for more than ten years. Her life can be considered successful, but a successful child like her is destined to be unable to stay with her parents. She has her stubbornness, her pursuit, and her journey. The third son, Zhou Bingkun, is quite stupid compared to his elder brothers and sisters. He has not been very good at reading since he was a child, and because he is relatively simple and honest, his brothers and sisters think he is \”very stupid\”, and his parents also call him \”Old Pimple\”. People like him are destined not to fly far. He worked as a small worker in a lumber factory, then in a soy sauce factory, and later opened a noodle shop. Although Zhou Bingkun can\’t save face for his parents, he is kind, benevolent and hardworking. When his parents are in trouble, he is the only one who can wait on them and take care of them. So it is true as my mother said: the smart eldest brother and second sister are here to collect debts, but the stupid Bingkun is here to repay the debt. What my mother said reminded me of a principal’s speech at a parent-teacher meeting in 2018: “Some children are born with the qualifications to study, and some children are not. Children without qualifications are used to repay kindness. Yes, because I am very good at studying, I will go to the United States, the United Kingdom, and Canada in the future. We can only meet by video. I don’t have the qualifications to study. When we are old, we can always be with you. Today, we will take us to eat beef balls, and tomorrow, we will take us to eat seafood. , It’s wonderful to think about it! If you observe carefully in life, you will find that the children who can take care of themselves when they are old are often the children who do not have much potential but can be seen all the time.” Indeed, as the principal said . Looking at the children around us who study well, they all choose universities in first-tier cities or new first-tier cities. After completing their undergraduate studies, they study for master\’s and doctoral degrees, and many of them study abroad. After graduation, they either settle abroad or return to first-tier cities to pursue their ambitions, because small places cannot accommodate their dreams. So as the principal said: \”Many times we can only meet by video.\” And those students with average grades did not go far when they went to college. After graduation, most of them chose to return to their hometown and find a stable job. They are not far from their parents and can often go home to see them. When their parents get older, they can also bring them to their side so that they can enjoy family happiness. Compared with those students who study wellParents, parents of students with average learning can actually enjoy being a parent more. \”Children who study well are here to collect debts, and children who study poorly are here to repay debts.\” This sentence actually makes sense. Of course, this is not absolute. Many of those children with good academic performance stayed with their parents. There are also many children with poor academic performance who are not filial to their parents. So I\’m just talking about relative situations, just most situations. The reason why I wrote this article is not actually to discuss: Is it better to have a child with extraordinary talents or a child with mediocre qualifications? What I want to emphasize is that there are advantages to having a child with mediocre qualifications. If there could be a child like Bingkun, although he failed to be admitted to a prestigious university, although he failed to become a high-ranking official, although he failed to enter a big factory, he was diligent and motivated, but he was kind and filial. For his parents, Also a very good result. So as the principal said: \”We must respect the differences of each child. Many things are already predetermined, and we don\’t have to be too demanding. It is better to have a child with extraordinary talents; A child with mediocre qualifications is also good with mediocre qualifications.\” The reason why I wrote this article is that I feel that many parents today have too narrow a definition of a good child. In their eyes, only children who study well are considered good. Children, children who cannot learn well are simply not worthy of being children: \”It\’s useless.\” \”You are so stupid.\” \”Why are you so stupid?\” \”Look at others.\” \”Why are you crying? You still have the nerve to cry. \”You\’re so disappointing. I\’m very disappointed in you.\” \”Forget it, I think you won\’t have any future.\”… We are always used to using academic performance to measure the quality of a child. In our eyes, children with poor grades seem not to deserve to live. But \”The World\” tells us: The quality of a child cannot only be judged by academic performance. As long as he loves work, as long as he is diligent and motivated, as long as he is kind and filial, he is a good child, and he can even be a better one. child. The reason why I wrote this article is that I think many people today have a too narrow definition of a happy life. Many people\’s definition of happiness is: to be rich, to have power, to be famous. It seems that only if we have these, our life will be happy. But Adam Smith, the father of economics, said: \”The greatest source of misery and confusion in life often comes from overestimating the difference between one long-term situation and another. Greed will overestimate wealth. and poverty, ambition will overestimate the difference between high officials and common people, and vanity will overestimate the difference between the well-known and the unknown.\” Indeed, the reason why many people live anxious and unhappy lives is that they overestimate the difference between rich and poor. Differences, overestimating the difference between high-ranking officials and civilians, overestimating the difference between well-known and unknown. Among the three brothers and sisters in \”The Human World\”, I actually think that the one who lives the happiest life is not the eldest brother or the second sister, but the third one, Bingkun. Although Bingkun is the most ordinary one in the family, he lives the happiest life. The happy one, because his life is full of fireworks and he lives a real life. We are taught every day toHow to become a successful person, but few people tell us: how to be a happy ordinary person. A few days ago, I saw a big V saying: \”Maybe it\’s because I\’m getting older. Now I really like an ordinary and stable life. I don\’t catch the waves or take any boats. I feel satisfied when I have my own sea. Do it step by step every day. After work, I go to the supermarket to cook with my lover after work, take a walk by the neon-lit riverside after dinner, cling to each other and watch the aunt dance in the square… Such an ordinary life without ups and downs, I think it is very good. .\” Indeed, life does not necessarily have to be rich and famous. It is also good to have some small pleasures and fun. Do your daily work step by step, go to the supermarket and cook with your lover after work, take a walk by the river with neon lights after dinner, and finally have a rest on the weekend, watch a favorite movie with your lover, monthly salary and end-of-year Bonuses, every holiday and birthday, the coming spring and the first spring rain… such an ordinary life is actually worth living.