The fastest way to ruin a child is to allow him to do these two things. Parents, don’t believe it.

\”How can we be parents if we are born without education, raised without education?\” This sentence profoundly emphasizes the importance of parents in their children\’s education. It is difficult to raise a good child, but it is easy to ruin a child. We have seen too many children drop out of school early and wander around due to neglect in education. When they reach the age of starting a family and starting a business, their lives are miserable. As parents, I believe everyone knows how much influence we have on our children. Liu Xiahui said it well, educating children is like burning mountains and forests. You need to \”burn\” some bad things in order for children to thrive. However, many parents always indulge their children in two aspects, not knowing that this is the fastest way to ruin their children. Indulging children who don\’t want to learn \”unintentionally inserting willows will make a shadow\”. This old saying tells a cruel fact – sometimes, we create a child\’s life unintentionally. We all know that learning is important for children, but not all children love learning. Often when some children are unwilling to learn and start to fail, some parents always turn a blind eye. Some parents may even think this way: Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. If the child doesn’t want to learn, just let him play for a while. It will be better if he is older. Many children do not understand the importance of learning. They have had little interest in learning since they were young, and their parents have never forced them to study. In their view, as long as the children are healthy and can grow up happily, that\’s fine. The \”happy education\” of formal parents leads to the children\’s grades from elementary school to junior high school being at the bottom, and then they havetily find a technical school. Finally, as a teenager, I found myself unable to find even an ordinary job. However, the happy education his parents gave him became the main culprit in destroying him. I learned the same concepts when I was in technical school, but I didn\’t master any professional skills at all. I could only do manual labor in restaurants or car washes. When he personally experienced the hardships of life, he regretted not studying hard. Just imagine, if parents could pay more attention to their children\’s studies at that time, even if they supervise their children more, it would be better than now. Anyone who indulges a child in losing their temper knows that spoiling a child is like killing a child. Excessive pampering of children is also a way to destroy them. Many parents think that it is not a big problem if their children have a bad temper. \”The upper-class people are capable but have no temper, the middle-class people are capable and have a temper, and the lower-class people are not capable and have a bad temper.\” We must understand that being able to control our emotions is the key to life. My neighbor\’s child has had tantrums with his family since he was a child. Whether he wants to buy toys or eat dinner, if he doesn\’t get what he wants, he will immediately throw things and yell. And his parents never reprimanded him severely and always compromised on everything. As time goes by, when the children grow up, their emotional problems are still not well controlled. At work, he often got angry with his colleagues when he didn\’t agree with his own feelings, which led to him being frequently talked to by his boss and eventually being fired from the company. And for a long time, it is difficult for this kind of child to make sincere friends. Education is a one-way ticket. Remember, our children’s future is in our control. Education is a one-way ticket. How do parents educate their children?The child determines what kind of person the child will become in the future. \”At the beginning of human life, nature is good.\” This sentence expresses the infinite possibilities of children. All parents\’ good education can make their children successful, but it can also destroy their children. It depends on whether the parents are willing to do it. But it also reminds us that only through proper education can children realize this good nature.