The first child flipped over, the second child’s hands spread out.” The mother of the second child is a person who has truly seen strong winds and waves.

I recall that when my eldest daughter was preparing to go to school, I once sought advice from my best friend at her house. My best friend was already the mother of her second child. The eldest child, like mine, had just entered elementary school, and the second child had just learned to walk and was at the age to explore the world. Suddenly, I saw her second child picking up things on the ground and stuffing them into his mouth, and I quickly said: \”Hey, the second child seems to be picking up things on the ground to eat. Keep an eye on it!\” My best friend looked indifferent, glanced sideways, and said: \”Oh, eat the biscuits that I dropped yesterday, so you don\’t have to suck the ground.\” After that, he continued to eat melon seeds. I couldn\’t help but say to her: \”You are so calm, what will you do if you have a bad stomach?\” My best friend smiled and replied: \”It\’s okay, you will understand after you give birth to a second child! No matter what kind of parenting anxiety, everything will be fine I’ll cure you all!” At that time, I thought to myself, it’s impossible, right? It wasn’t until I had my second child that I understood the deeper meaning of my best friend’s words—parenting anxiety is not cured, but “forced” out of it. Only those who have given birth to a second child can understand this “it’s up to them to make trouble” Noisy, the breeze blows on the hills.\” The Zen mind. When I was pregnant, I didn’t dare to raise my hands in the first three months of the pregnancy. Later on, I couldn’t lift anything while walking. I could only reach for food and open my mouth when I was wearing clothes. I lived like Lafayette! I always go to the hospital early to get a pregnancy test and queue up. I have downloaded all kinds of maternity software, including small clothes, bottles, milk powder, and small toys. I buy them when I see them. They are all imported, and they don’t hurt at all! During the entire pregnancy, I didn’t dare to watch TV or eat randomly. Don’t play too much on your mobile phone, go to bed early at night, and read parenting books when you have nothing to do! The second child went for a check-up, and the doctor said that he missed the 12-week pregnancy test, NT, etc. How did time fly by so fast? ! He looked confused… He still got a lot of exercise, but he mainly got it from dealing with the boss! The 20-pound baby weighs on his body every day, and with his eight-month-old belly, it’s no big deal to go up to the third floor in one breath! As for Erbao’s things, I buy them every time I think of them. I use Dabao’s clothes and other items, which saves worry and money! I haven’t read any books or listened to music. In the middle of the night, King of Pesticides won 5 games in a row, and I felt refreshed and without any sleepiness. Why not try a few more! The room prepared for the baby. When I gave birth to a baby, I was so afraid of the pain. What should I do to my husband? You have to accompany the childbirth, otherwise we will get divorced! Before giving birth, I wanted to burn incense and pray to Buddha every day, forward all kinds of koi, and hope that the baby would be unloaded smoothly… Second pregnancy Hey, it’s so fast, oh, I’m so tired, why is the baby so ugly, I’ll take a rest, husband, watch the baby! Oh, by the way, am I giving birth to a boy or a girl? During the confinement period, I paid special attention to my first child, and my mother-in-law also took good care of me. She brought me food to the room every day, put out bath water for me, and brought me water (warm water) for brushing my teeth to the room and squeezed it in. Toothpaste wakes me up and brushes my teeth. The whole family is running around with the child, looking here and there, and even the mother can’t get the chance to hold the child! I don’t care about my second child that much anymore, because there is a naughty eldest child in the family, and the main task during the confinement period becomes “prevent the eldest child, guard against the eldest child, guard against the eldest child”! As for the children, they played with the second baby and slept together. The mother and mother-in-law never went upstairs. They kept everything simple and had a Buddhist confinement period. When the baby is sick, Oops, baby, don’t cry, momHug, are you feeling uncomfortable there? How about going to the hospital? Baby, you are so anxious that your mother is almost in tears… Second child Oh, I have a fever. A fever is so normal. It has not reached 40° yet. Just hold it downstairs and play for a while to make it sweat! Regarding housework, after having a baby, I have to take care of a baby, go to work, and do housework. I don’t do enough housework, and my mother-in-law said again, I’m too tired! Almost collapsed! As for the child\’s father, he will only play with the child with full fatherly love. Once something goes wrong, he will only call his mother: either the child\’s mother, or his own mother! What? The second child is open, do you still want me to have a second child? ! Even if you beat him to death, he won’t survive! Give up on this idea! Second Child Oh, Mom, I accidentally gave birth to a second child. But since I had my second child, I no longer find housework tiring, because the little troublemaker in the past finally tasted the hard work of being a mother! Of course, there is also the scene where the eldest son is cheated by the second son, while doing laundry, putting in shoe mats and plucking chicken feathers: This is good, the eldest son has blocked a lot of arrows for his parents, and he no longer has to worry about the naughty child having no playmates! When we take our children out to play, once they are 1 year old, we will travel with them everywhere. Bags, travel shoes, portable water bottles and other travel equipment are all available. Look here and there. We must let the children grow up Well informed. The photos I took are all like this: With my second baby, why should I travel now? I’m so tired. Tomorrow I’ll go to the supermarket downstairs and play with that one-dollar rocking car! The souvenir on the mobile phone is like this: When the neighbor’s grandma saw it, she said, oh, our second child also has new clothes to wear. My face, well, it’s true that I don’t have many new clothes, but why not be so straightforward! Regarding growth records, I took photos of the baby every three days after I was born, and my phone is filled with various postures of the baby. Happy, funny, every first time, I can take hundreds of pictures a month! Occasionally I captured a super cute expression, and I immediately felt that Emma and I were almost catching up with professional photographers, so I quickly posted it on WeChat, shouting in my heart that this is my baby, my baby, my baby! Hurry up and like it! Hurry up and like it! When you can’t see your baby, you still have to take photos to express your feelings of missing your baby: I’ll take a photo of my second baby when I think of it, but I’ll throw it away when I can’t! When I flipped through the photo album, it turned out that it had gone from four months to six and a half months… and I hadn\’t even taken a photo of my dick? Once when I was filling out a form in the hospital, I actually forgot when my second child was born. One day someone asked me how old my second child was, and I said it was about 14 months. I thought about it after a while, but then someone asked me and I said it was about 16 months. I went home and did the math (it must be because I am not good at math). ) It’s almost 15 months… right? Then I go out to have dinner with friends, and the hair tie looks like this: During the meal, the baby is basically taking care of the baby, and I can only take out a little bit when I can. The goal is not to starve to death. The baby didn\’t eat well, and she said she should leave the table if she didn\’t want to eat, but she couldn\’t help but feel anxious. Emma only ate vegetables and meat this meal, and she didn\’t take in enough carbohydrates, and she only ate rice that meal. What should I do if the dishes haven’t moved at all? The second child will each eat his or her own food, as long as the baby does not starve to death. Hot? Just blow it on yourself twice and it’ll be fine! Then I lowered my head and continued eating my meal. Not eating well? If Emma doesn\’t want to eat, just eat. It\’s okay to be hungry. Anyway, if you don\’t eat today, you\’ll make up for it tomorrow.If you don’t eat it this month, you’ll make up for it next month. But you won’t eat it again next month? Oh, it’s so good. Just think of it as losing weight. When your child is doing homework, make a plan first and set a time. Don\’t watch TV until you finish the homework! Pay attention to me, don\’t look around, you got such a simple question wrong, let me explain it to you… Hey, hey, why do you have to go to the toilet so many times? Don’t know the problem of second child? Ask the teacher! Check your homework and find your brother/sister! Made a mistake again? Forget about everything that comes with it… \”The first child is on its back, but the second child is shaking hands.\” The mother of the second child is a person who has really seen strong winds and waves, and raising her baby is becoming more and more casual. But in the end, I was pleasantly surprised to find that the second child was easier to take care of than the eldest child, and he was also smarter and smarter than the eldest child. \”The first child should be raised according to the book, and the second child should be raised like a pig.\” If I had known this, I should have raised the eldest child like a pig! One mother said: The dogs were lost, the cats died, the cactus rotted, and only aquatic plants were left in the tank of fish… I feel a great sense of accomplishment in raising two children who are alive and healthy! An ordinary woman, why should she pretend to be a goddess? An ordinary mother, why should she force herself to be a superman? It may not be possible to raise a pig well, let alone two babies? So I forgive myself.