The first month of school is a critical period to widen the gap. If you control these 6 points, your children will get better and better grades.

The first month of school is a critical period for students to adapt to the new environment and establish good study habits. It is also an important stage to widen the learning gap. During this critical period, we must pay close attention to the six key points of children\’s growth to help children make steady progress in the new semester and gradually improve their grades! 01 [State of mind] The curtain of the new semester has quietly opened. As the autumn wind blows gently and continuously, a trace of unnoticeable tiredness quietly creeps into the heart. While people are full of expectations, they also feel a bit of the change of seasons. A subtle feeling of fatigue. Many children are in the classroom but their minds are outside. They are in a relaxed state every day and find it difficult to concentrate. In response to these problems, it shows that the child\’s mentality has not completely recovered! You must know that a bad learning attitude is like an invisible obstacle, quietly hindering the absorption of knowledge and the pace of growth. Therefore, it is important to pay attention to your child’s mentality before it is too late! Parents can set appropriate learning and life goals based on their children\’s actual situation to stimulate their children\’s enthusiasm and allow them to enjoy the joy of success. When children make progress in study or life, or show impressive performance, parents should give their children praise and positive feedback in a timely manner. Just like sunshine and rain nourishing seedlings, such encouragement can deeply nourish children\’s hearts, enhance their self-confidence, and make them believe that they are capable of doing better. If a child has negative emotions such as anxiety or depression, parents should take the initiative to communicate with the child to understand the cause and seek professional help. Through timely intervention and treatment, children can be helped to regain a healthy mindset. You must know that a positive and stable mentality can help children better adapt to the new environment, face learning challenges, and achieve better results. 02 [Habit] English philosopher Bacon once said: Habit is really a tenacious and huge force that can dominate a person\’s life. You know, the degree of excellence a person can achieve often depends on the depth of his self-discipline. Good habits rooted in the heart since childhood are the key to building a child\’s future self-discipline. The habit of previewing and reviewing encourages children to preview course content before class, learn new knowledge, and mark difficult points so that they can listen more specifically in class. Review the knowledge learned in a timely manner after class, consolidate memory, and check for omissions. You can make a review plan, such as reviewing what you learned that day every day and summarizing the week\’s content every week. The habit of paying attention to lectures and taking notes. Stay focused in class, listen carefully, actively participate in class discussions, and interact with teachers and classmates. Record in detail the key points, difficulties and your own questions explained by the teacher to facilitate future review and search. The habit of completing homework independently encourages children to complete homework independently without relying on others or plagiarizing answers. After completing the assignment, check the errors yourself and correct them to develop the ability of self-examination and reflection. 03 [Laziness leads to stupidity] \”Laziness leads to stupidity\” is a vivid saying, which means that long-term laziness and procrastination will lead to slow thinking, reduced learning ability, and even give people the illusion of \”becoming stupid\”. For children, this situation especially requires the vigilance and guidance of parents and educators. In the new semester, parents are requested to be wary of their children becoming stupid through laziness and develop good habits for their children! Guide children to shapeDevelop good study habits such as regular review, organizing notes, and completing homework independently. Children will be more energetic and efficient in learning, and will naturally not become more confused as they learn. Properly let go and give children some opportunities for independent learning, allowing them to arrange their own learning time and content. In this way, children can learn to learn actively, instead of just waiting for teachers and parents to push them away. Parents should also lead by example, show self-discipline, diligence and a positive attitude, and set a good example for their children. Children will naturally follow suit and become diligent and motivated. 04【Independence】It is said: Parents who refuse to let go will never raise outstanding children. You know, any hen can love children, but educating children is an art. If parents always habitually solve all problems for their children, in the long run, the children will lose the ability to solve difficulties on their own. When faced with challenges, they are more likely to complain about the status quo rather than actively respond to them, and may even shift responsibility to others and evade their own responsibilities. So, from now on, bravely let go and let your children embark on the journey of growth! Cultivate children\’s self-care ability: Cultivate children\’s self-care ability. These seemingly ordinary daily tasks are actually the melting pot that shapes children\’s practical ability and life wisdom. They not only sharpen children\’s hands and make them more skillful in hands-on operations, but also deeply make children realize that they are indispensable members of the family, inspiring their sense of responsibility and mission to contribute to the warmth and happiness of the family. Support self-challenge: When children face difficulties and challenges, parents should encourage them to face and solve them bravely, rather than immediately removing obstacles or providing ready-made answers for them. Allowing children to experience setbacks and failures, learn and grow from them, will help them build perseverance and problem-solving skills. Encourage independent decision-making: Through small decisions, children learn to weigh the pros and cons and consider the consequences, such as choosing what clothes to wear, arranging their own leisure time, and even participating in the planning of family activities. Gradually develop the ability to think independently and make decisions through little things. 05【Rules】Professor Li Meijin once said: \”Parents must say what they need to say when their children are young, and set rules when they need to. Teaching children to obey is like teaching them to walk: draw a straight line on one side to represent \”Yes\” \”things that are wrong\”, while reminding him to avoid potholes on the roadside which represent \”wrong things\”. Let him learn to distinguish, have a ruler in his heart, and have a measure in his actions. As the saying goes, there is no circle without rules. Rules are not only for their behavior Restraint is also a protection for their growth. It teaches children how to respect others, how to be self-disciplined, and how to take responsibility. When children learn to abide by the rules, they can better integrate into society, live in harmony with others, and become responsible and responsible. Responsible people. 06 [Entertainment] The Mid-Autumn Festival holiday has just ended, and the National Day holiday is about to begin. The children\’s hearts are relaxed and tense, and their mentality is always erratic. In the game, you still have to manage what should be managed! Parents can set family rules with their children, clarify daily study time and entertainment time, and ensure that children understand and accept these rules. At the same time, parents should set an example and abide by the same rules.Try to start from the child\’s interests and ask what types of entertainment activities the child likes, such as reading, painting, music, sports, etc., and invest time in interesting and meaningful things. The first month of school is a golden and critical period for widening the gap. At the starting point of this journey, let us work together to build a solid backing for our children’s growth!