The first words of a 10-year-old child after coming home make mothers all over the world feel extremely regretful…

Yangyang is in the third grade of elementary school. She stays at her grandparents’ house from Monday to Friday, and at her grandparents’ house from Friday night to Sunday. My husband and I both have to commute to get off work on time and often work overtime, so most of the time He was with both of our parents. Over time, Yangyang got used to this kind of life. That day, after I got off work in the evening and made sure that I didn\’t have to work overtime the next day, I took him back to my home. I\’m so happy. After getting off the car at your house, Yangyang carried his heavy schoolbag and guitar and walked in front of me. Although neither thing was heavy, he seemed relaxed and happy, but he said something But his words never made me feel relaxed again. He said, Mom, I’m so happy to be at your house today! I immediately corrected him and said: This is your home too! He stopped, raised his head and looked at me, then smiled and said: Oh, Mom, I am at my own home! After entering the house, Yangyang looked around every room like a little guest and stayed in his small room for a long time before coming out. He asked me: Mom, when can I move into the small room you prepared for me? I already had mixed feelings in my heart, and when I heard this sentence, I felt that I had missed a lot of time with my children. I know that parents cannot miss the growth of their children, but I work in a bank and need to work overtime frequently, and my husband teaches in a middle school, teaching the graduating class of junior high school, which puts even more pressure. After returning home, we just wanted to stay quietly and didn\’t want to move. We were unable to bring the child to our place and take care of his food, daily life and study. So I didn\’t give him an answer, I just said, wait until you are older. I saw obvious disappointment on his face, but he didn\’t speak. I just want to be with you because I won’t go to work the next day and Yangyang won’t go to school. In order to make up for his slight disappointment, I took him to the square to play. He saw so many people and children in the square. The adults were there. Dancing, playing badminton, children skating and playing in the playground. Standing in front of the amusement park, I observed him. He looked into the amusement park with his eyes showing that he wanted to participate, but in the end he just held my hand and said, Mom, let\’s go shopping again. I asked him: Do you want to go in and play? He looked at me, then at the children playing wildly there, paused for a few seconds, and finally took my hand and left. After returning home, he took a shower and put on his pajamas. Then he brushed his teeth and ran to my room. He asked me: Mom, can I sleep with you tonight? \”You are a big child, and you are a boy. You must sleep by yourself.\” I told him while typing a report to be handed in on the keyboard. \”Then when will you go to bed?\” he asked me. \”It\’s still early for me. I have to write the report.\” I was still pointing like flying. I was so immersed in writing my report that I didn\’t notice that he was sitting next to me and looking at me. When I was about to finish, I realized that he had been sitting silently next to me. I couldn\’t calm down anymore, so I closed the computer and asked him lovingly: Why don\’t you go to sleep? \”Mom, I just want to stay with you like this. Look, I didn\’t bother you.\” He said carefully. It\’s already half past ten in the evening,I closed the computer decisively. No matter how urgent things were, they were not as important as spending time with my children. Then I said to him, baby, just sleep with your mother tonight! When we were sleeping, we started a \”lying talk\”. I asked him why he wanted to play in the playground but didn\’t go in. He blinked and said: Mom, you know, although I really want to play, but if I went to play, and you felt lonely outside alone. I just wanted to spend more time with you. That night was destined to be a restless night. He fell asleep quickly, but I thought a lot. I should spend more time with my child, but my child told me, I just want to spend more time with you. Think about it, for so many years, we have only been busy with our work and career development, and have not considered the feelings of our children at all. Fortunately, we still have time now and in the future. Children, starting from tonight, as parents, we will definitely Be your companion and never miss your time of growth and your growth story! Text | Qingfeng 14306