The girl went to the supermarket \”underdressed\” and attracted onlookers, but her mother ignored her

Doudehui saw a news: On a hot summer day, a mother took her daughter to buy things in the supermarket. The mother was well-dressed, but the daughter was half-dressed. We don’t know why this mother kept her daughter undressed. But exposing your daughter to public in this way is really not what a qualified parent should do. Many netizens have questioned this behavior: \”What kind of mother is this? Is she taking revenge on her child? Why do you let your child do this? Isn\’t this your biological child?\” \”Oh my God, this really refreshed me. Come to think of it, what kind of parents are these, don’t you think it’s strange at all? Why don’t you go shopping naked by yourself?” “Although the child is still young, he already has the concept of gender distinction. What will the child become when he grows up? How can I face myself after seeing this video?”…Yes, the child is still young and may not have a clear understanding of such things, but when she grows up, she will have a clear gender awareness and Feeling ashamed, how should we face this special memory? As a parent, even if you work very hard to protect your child, you cannot completely guarantee that she will not be harmed, let alone expose your child to the eyes of others without any cover. Not wearing clothes for children in public places is not only against social order and good customs, but also easily exposes the children\’s delicate skin, causing bruises and abrasions due to lack of proper protection. More importantly, doing so may also attract The gaze of some bad people may even arouse some bad people\’s desire to commit crimes, putting children in unknown dangers. When parents don\’t care about their children\’s private parts at all, the children will also subconsciously think that their special parts and body privacy are not that important and can be shown to others casually, thus providing opportunities for people with bad intentions around them to do bad things. . Without a sense of self-protection, children may even think that the offensive behavior of bad people is normal. On a bus in Mianyang, Sichuan, a 45-year-old middle-aged man openly hugged and hugged an elementary school girl… The scene made people itchy and made them want to chop off that \”salty pig hand\”. The passengers in the same car were even more angry and decisively called the police. When the police arrived at the scene and told the middle-aged man, \”You are suspected of molesting an underage girl,\” the girl\’s eagerness to defend herself silenced everyone… The girl actually said, \”I know him, and we are good friends.\” She didn\’t feel at all that there was anything wrong with a man touching her body. Many parents think that if their children are still young, it’s okay if they run around naked; if their children are still young, it’s okay if relatives touch them; if their children are still young, it’s okay if they don’t know how to protect their privacy… But there is a saying we often say: \”You don’t like sex education?\” If it’s too early, bad guys won’t think your baby is too young.” Parents’ usual negligence and carelessness may become a booster for their children to fall into the hands of bad guys. In order for children to grow up healthily and safely, parents please do the following: 1. Children’s gender consciousness awakens. Parents should pay attention to protecting children. When children are in the initial awakening period of gender consciousness, they are already aware of the differences between themselves and the opposite sex. During this period, my fatherMothers must pay attention to protecting their children\’s gender awareness and not do things that will confuse their children\’s gender. For example, the mother mentioned at the beginning of the article has a child who looks four or five years old and still wanders around naked. This will blur the gender boundaries of the child and have immeasurable consequences. 2. Appropriately teach children some physiological knowledge. When children have gender awareness, it is time for parents to provide sex education. Many parents may find it difficult to talk to their children when they are only 3 or 4 years old. In fact, the earlier the child\’s sex education is provided, the better. Helping the child establish a complete gender awareness as early as possible will have many benefits for the child. Therefore, parents should properly teach their children some physiological knowledge after they awaken their gender consciousness. For example, you cannot let others touch your private parts, and you cannot touch other people\’s private parts. 3. Pay attention to your child’s dressing. Clothing is also one of the important indicators of gender. When a child becomes gender aware, parents should pay attention to their child’s dressing, and pay special attention to protecting privacy. For example, don’t wear crotchless pants for older children. When buying clothes for your children, try not to choose clothes that are overly exposed or flashy. They should be based on privacy protection, comfort, safety, and reliable quality. 4. Teach children to protect their privacy and their own bodies. As parents, we must let our children realize the importance of their own privacy earlier, let them understand that their bodies are precious and inviolable, and let them know what the opposite sex does to them is considered unacceptable. If it is inappropriate, it will hurt yourself. From the time a child is young, we have to tell her that she has bodily autonomy and no one has the right to infringe upon it. Even if she goes to a school with many people and everyone around her likes her, she still has to learn to say no. For example, if a little boy holds her hand, it may mean that he likes her, but it\’s okay to say \’no\’ to him. Acquaintances and friends around her are not allowed to look at or touch her body parts at will.