The head teacher reminded: It is instinct for children not to be self-disciplined during summer vacation, and it is their parents’ ability to make them self-disciplined (no matter how busy you are, you should check it out)

Just a few days after the summer vacation, parents in the class group complained: \”Teacher, my children play crazy every day, and they haven\’t done any summer homework. They put it off until the end every year.\” \”My children are even more extreme. They stay up late at night to play. My child sleeps until noon during the day and can’t wake up even if I use my mobile phone. “My child also becomes distracted after reading a book for a few minutes. He becomes lazy when studying or exercising. His self-discipline is so poor.” During the summer vacation, my child is lazy and playful. Lack of self-discipline is indeed a problem that troubles many parents. If parents ignore this, children will easily develop bad habits and their grades will plummet after school starts. One summer vacation is enough to make stupid birds fly first and steeds stumble. Please tell your children: Holidays are not for indulgence. If you don’t pay, you will get nothing. 01 Summer vacation self-discipline is the watershed that widens the gap between children. Writer Mao Dun once said: \”If a person with high talent is lazy by nature, that is, if he does not work hard to develop his talents, his achievements will not be great. Sometimes, on the contrary, They will not be as good as those with lower talents. \”After the summer vacation, some children can make significant progress in the new semester; while others have stagnated or even regressed significantly. Ultimately, it’s the level of self-discipline that makes the difference during summer vacation. The former, after being moderately relaxed, fully understands the principle of combining work and rest, picks up books to continuously improve himself, and maintains self-discipline throughout the holiday. The latter, however, covets comfort, indulges in the virtual world of games and electronic products, and lets time pass by quietly. Learning is like a 400-meter track, with straight tracks in spring and autumn and curves in winter and summer. On the straight track, the children have the same routine and course schedule, so it is not easy to make a difference. Only during the winter and summer vacations can there be opportunities to catch up with others. If you want your children to achieve overtaking in corners, you need to give them appropriate discipline during the holidays to encourage them to maintain self-discipline. 02 It is not excellence that leads to self-discipline, but self-discipline that leads to excellence. Many people believe that only outstanding children can be self-disciplined. However, the fact is exactly the opposite. Children do not become self-disciplined because they are excellent, but they learn self-discipline in the process of growing up, thus creating their own excellence. Those real masters have \”self-discipline\” engraved in their bones. In the 2024 college entrance examination, Sichuan candidate Guo Yukun achieved an excellent score of 710 points, including a perfect score in mathematics. In the interview, he mentioned that the secret to getting full marks in mathematics is to sort out the wrong question papers and continue to practice repetitively. Zhang Yudong, a candidate from Hubei who is known as the \”dark horse of the college entrance examination\”, achieved his best score in three years of high school – 708 points. Zhang Yudong admitted frankly that in fact, his talent is not very high. The main reason for getting high scores in the exam is to maintain self-discipline and take notes carefully. A good memory is not as good as a bad writing! The famous lecturer Chen Di once said: \”There are no shortcuts to learning, only constant repetition. Efficient repetition can make quantitative changes bring about qualitative changes.\” Whether it is taking notes or sorting out wrong question papers, it is a repetitive process that requires strong Self-discipline and the determination to write \”badly\”. No matter how talented you are, without a high degree of self-discipline and awareness, your so-called talent will become vulnerable. 03 It is instinct for children not to be self-disciplined. It is their ability for parents to let them be self-disciplined. There is a saying in \”Tsinghua University Scholars\’ Guide to Teaching Children\”: \”Children lacked self-control when they were young. It is normal for children not to take the initiative in difficult things such as learning., taking the initiative is abnormal. \”Children are not yet mature mentally and lack the ability to self-discipline and manage. When faced with various temptations, they can easily lose their way. Parents are their children\’s first teachers and the first persons responsible for their children. During the holidays, they must take on the responsibility of The responsibility of guiding children to self-discipline. First of all, parents should help their children plan their summer vacation reasonably. They can divide the summer vacation into three stages: early, middle and late. Take appropriate rest and relaxation in the early stage, pay attention to completing summer homework in time in the middle stage, and adjust well in the later stage. , be fully prepared to welcome the new semester of study. For micro-planning, you need to make specific and feasible daily plans, including study time, rest time, entertainment time, etc. At the same time, let the children participate in the formulation of the plan, so that they will be more flexible. Have the motivation to implement. Secondly, parents should strengthen supervision and encouragement. After the plan is formulated, parents should supervise and remind the children in a timely manner. When the children complete the tasks within the specified time, they can give appropriate rewards, such as watching a favorite movie. Movies, a good meal, etc. When children are slacking off, don’t just blame them, but patiently analyze the reasons with them and find solutions. Finally, parents should set an example and set a good example. It is a copy machine, the parents are the originals, and the children are the copies. \”The vast majority of children with bad habits have their parents who also have various bad habits: addiction to mobile phones, bad temper, laziness and procrastination… If they want their children to learn self-discipline, parents must also be strict with themselves and be self-disciplined, diligent, and positive. , set a good example for your children.